Hey so started dating a girl back in December , everything went really well,hit escalation windows etc.
Ended up with her actually asking me to be her boyfriend , then about two weeks ago my country introduced a lockdown because of covid -19. I was with her when it was announced, then before I left she said she loved me.
So because of the lockdown I haven’t seen her in person since then ,but everything was still going well , she was affectionate Over the phone, saying missed me etc. I even said we could meet up but she didn’t want to break the lockdown rules.
then about 4 days ago we had a little argument but we resolved it , then a few days late we had another disagreement on something else, again it seemed as though we resolved it. But it seems that she’s been a little more reserved , I mean she was still texting a fair amount maybe a little slower than usual but not by much,and she was accepting my calls, but all the affectionate things like the I loves yous etc were no longer coming . I asked her if she was ok yesterday And she said yes and asked me why , I said she seemed more reserved than usual she seemed suprised and said that sometimes she likes having her own space and maybe that’s why she’s coming across like that. So I said that’s cool and that I’ll let her chill. An hour and a half later she text back saying “thanks xx”. Usually she’ll message me in the morning but haven’t heard anything from her and I haven’t messaged her since last night...
What should I do? Is it a case of just waiting it out and seeing if she responds ... how long should I wait. Just seems like quite a change to go from asking me to be her boyfriend and then saying she loves me to now seeming like she can take me or leave me. Don’t know what’s going on.
Ended up with her actually asking me to be her boyfriend , then about two weeks ago my country introduced a lockdown because of covid -19. I was with her when it was announced, then before I left she said she loved me.
So because of the lockdown I haven’t seen her in person since then ,but everything was still going well , she was affectionate Over the phone, saying missed me etc. I even said we could meet up but she didn’t want to break the lockdown rules.
then about 4 days ago we had a little argument but we resolved it , then a few days late we had another disagreement on something else, again it seemed as though we resolved it. But it seems that she’s been a little more reserved , I mean she was still texting a fair amount maybe a little slower than usual but not by much,and she was accepting my calls, but all the affectionate things like the I loves yous etc were no longer coming . I asked her if she was ok yesterday And she said yes and asked me why , I said she seemed more reserved than usual she seemed suprised and said that sometimes she likes having her own space and maybe that’s why she’s coming across like that. So I said that’s cool and that I’ll let her chill. An hour and a half later she text back saying “thanks xx”. Usually she’ll message me in the morning but haven’t heard anything from her and I haven’t messaged her since last night...
What should I do? Is it a case of just waiting it out and seeing if she responds ... how long should I wait. Just seems like quite a change to go from asking me to be her boyfriend and then saying she loves me to now seeming like she can take me or leave me. Don’t know what’s going on.