LR Hot Blonde Russian (Broke my dry spell)

[LimeLight]

Just to note, this was basically a fools mate, in my opinion. I don't think I really could have messed this up. I was traveling and saw this really hot girl, I wasn't initially going to approach her, this was in the grocery store, I had to buy stuff, I looked like shit, didn't shave, probably had bad breath, dressed horribly, etc., all these excuses in my mind. I even decided I wasn't going to approach her, and told myself, "I'm too scared to."

But after walking around the store I put down my grocery basket and decided to go find her, if she was still around I would approach her, if she left then oh well. She was still there, by herself, looking at TikTok or some app I'm not familiar with. I opened with my standard opener, her accent is super thick, i barely understand her. I make her repeat herself numerous times, not as a game, but because I legitimately didn't know what she was saying.

Not sure if this hurt my game or not, but I have to be able to at least semi-guess what was said, otherwise moving forward anything I say is just random BS. After about 5 minutes of not being able to understand her I ask for her number. She says some reason why she can't I get her on Whatsapp instead. Why is this a thing? Isn't their number linked to Whatsapp, I don't recall.

Anyways, I figured this was a flake and just tried to time-bridge saying we should grab coffee sometime and I left. I texted her later, and she could write coherent English which is good. I mentioned getting coffee , and was texting her for a few days. 2 days before i leave I text her with a fake time restraint saying I'm leaving that night, if she wants to hang out it has to be today. She asks what I want to do. I say hang out and grab coffee maybe. She texts me her address. I googled it to make sure it wasn't like a coffee shop, it was an apartment complex.

I show up and she invites me in, her room is dark and she is dressed really sexy and not wearing much, there's something similar to candlelight, or her light just dims, and she has music playing. As soon as I walk into her bedroom we start making out, I take off my shirt, and has a tiny tank top on with no bra, etc., escalate, 69, penetrate.

I think just making the move and persisting is all I did right. There was not much more to it. This has never happened with such an attractive girl.




What are you supposed to do when there's a language barrier during the approach? I am not used to that or used to persisting through that.

Also note this was months ago. I am aware this did not require any skill. Please do not flame me for this.

 

[Michael Chief]

I am aware this did not require any skill.

Oh how wrong you are. There's a lot that you did right that your everyday AFC/newbie/beta/whateveryouwannacallit wouldn't be able to do. You've been doing this long enough to have decent enough inner game, which automatically reflects in your subconscious behavior which ultimately manifests as outer game.

You also did something that most people in general wouldn't be able to do - you approached even after being all anxious and deciding not to approach. And you were holding yourself together well enough to still appear attractively confident.

The language barrier actually highlights all those other basics even more.

 

[gameboy]

Hey you did everything right. You approached, got her on whatsapp (she probably didn't want to speak on the phone because of language barrier), and closed. Yeah, she made it easy for you by meeting up at her place and skipping the date. But thinking about it, she probably thought if you 2 go on a date, you won't even be able to talk decently so what's the point?

I don't believe in fool's mate. Unless the girl actually approaches you and takes the lead in every regard. Which has happened to me maybe... once in a lifetime?

Congrats for the lay man!

 

[LimeLight]

Wow, I thought I was going to get flamed off the forum, I posted a lay report on another forum a long time ago and everyone attacked me. Like I think they didn't believe it or they thought I posted it just to brag. I'm here to improve myself, not lie. And I wouldn't post something solely to brag. If there doesn't seem to be content that's useful, then it's posted for personal documentation.

Thanks for the positive reinforcement. How soon can I get my next lay? >: )

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

Wow. Inspiring post.

I too was impressed that you approached after feeling unshaved and after psyching yourself out.

It's also a great reminder that girls, too, are lonely and horny and sometimes the universe rewards your efforts with a big win.

Love it.

 

[LimeLight]

Thanks everyone. Time to get another cold approach lay.

 

[Skills]

Just to answer the number issue, when they are foreign to avoid calling or texting long distance they go through the whatsapp. this is what happened in this case...

The other issue and this happened to me and recently happened to couple of guys in the forum.... Obviously again me being autistic, i would meet a girl that is lets say from England (this happened to me recently), i do my thing and text my self from her number to my google voice number, then i try to text her back and is a problem cause google voice to do long distance you have to pay and is an issue.... So I think @Skippy taught me the way around this is whatsapp Since again i do not want to do do social media such as instagram etc..... cause lower your odds.