Socializing How many cold approaches do you do in a normal week?

[LimeLight]

I am just curious, I did a bunch of approaches a few months ago then some personal issues arose and I haven't really done many since. I wanted a solid number to aim for, but I get the feeling there isn't a real answer to this and it all depends... Most I've done consistently was 20ish a week, if I recall.

 

[MuST0BtA1NSkR1Lla]

I am just curious, I did a bunch of approaches a few months ago then some personal issues arose and I haven't really done many since. I wanted a solid number to aim for, but I get the feeling there isn't a real answer to this and it all depends... Most I've done consistently was 20ish a week, if I recall.

Yeah it truly depends,


What I’ve noticed is the more important factor is what are you doing during the day and where you live.

- Summer I’m out doing activities and also at the club so plenty of approaches

- Winter I tend to take more classes as well as bundle up at coffee shops

I would say a decent goal is five a week and out of those five let’s say twenty a month converting out of twenty approaches one for a coffee date

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

A common rule of thumb in the community is that everyone should do 20 to 50 a week... less than 20 and you won't get enough feedback to really adjust your game much, more than 50 and you're just spamming everything.

Honestly I don't think I've ever done that many, my max was probably around 30-35 because I'm having difficulty gaming girls I'm not actually into, even for practice. But some of the best PUAs have done those drills.

 

[Adventurer]

I tried going up to 10/week in january but that shit is hard, realistically I do 5/week on average, sometimes more sometimes less

I'm starting to get numbers, dates and lays from the cold approaches I do though, practicing it more would definitely pay off

 

[LimeLight]

I tried going up to 10/week in january but that shit is hard, realistically I do 5/week on average, sometimes more sometimes less

I'm starting to get numbers, dates and lays from the cold approaches I do though, practicing it more would definitely pay off

The hardest part isn't the approaches, it's getting ready, going to the location, and finding suitable targets, which can take an hour to find 1 depending on where you are. I ALWAYS have to lower my standards to make approaches work.

 

[LimeLight]

A common rule of thumb in the community is that everyone should do 20 to 50 a week... less than 20 and you won't get enough feedback to really adjust your game much, more than 50 and you're just spamming everything.

Honestly I don't think I've ever done that many, my max was probably around 30-35 because I'm having difficulty gaming girls I'm not actually into, even for practice. But some of the best PUAs have done those drills.

Agreed. My record for approaches in a day is 62. I was just high off the approaches, and probably was too high energy. That's what I get for hiring a hack coach. He had 100 or 200 lays at the time. But half of them were ugly. Some were hot, but he couldn't even demo.

How do you spread 20-50 approaches in a week?

Your third link doesn't have articles on it.

Ricardus Domino

www.girlschase.com

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

Agreed. My record for approaches in a day is 62. I was just high off the approaches, and probably was too high energy.

62 in a day is definitely way too much. 12 a day is considered a good measure for a beginner. If you do more than that, you get an adrenaline high and yeah - that leads to running around way too high energy. And while this destroys AA, it also makes you come across totally hyper, which is unattractive.

That's what I get for hiring a hack coach. He had 100 or 200 lays at the time. But half of them were ugly. Some were hot, but he couldn't even demo.

Sounds like BS to be honest.

How do you spread 20-50 approaches in a week?

The basic rule is to shoot for about 3 sets an hour... 20 years ago Mystery came up with the recommendation to go out 4 nights a week, from 10pm to 2am each night, 2 venues. One from 10 to midnight and one from midnight to 2. Do 12 sets each night. That's 48 sets in a week.

Your third link doesn't have articles on it.

Ricardus Domino

www.girlschase.com

It does, on the right hand side. But at some point I'll have to pull up all my articles from the blog, I wrote about 80 of them or something, I'm not sure if they can all be found in one place. I'll look into it when I have some time.

 

[Higher]

My record for approaches in a day is 62.

No screening i assume? Id be daygaming close to 24h straight to open all those girls.

Yeah, as Karea said, i also gravitate towards 3/h. Usually 2/h girls im really interested in.

How do you spread 20-50 approaches in a week?

For daygame, its the weekends that do the trick for me -- if i feel like it / have time, i do 3h/day. Thats close to 20 girls just on the weekend.

On a good week i also go out maybe 1h at lunchtime every couple days. So overall ~30 girls for the entire week. But thatd be really a good week.

I do more than that only while traveling.

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

Man I wish some of you guys were in my city... I could really use someone who's dedicated like that, 2-3 sets per hour, to hit up a mall together today. I found 3 guys on game global, let's see if one of them is down today.

 

[Spyce D]

In February , I have only done like 12 legit approaches ( rest were warmups ) . That too only on Sundays. Talking about Daygame here .



But , I got 1 number close , 2 insta dates ( including one today ) .

Maybe I am just really lucky this month cuz all the Sundays were dates .

 

[FunGuy]

Its cool to see that there are a lot of y'all are daygaming. I just got back to daygaming at the start of this year but have only been doing so sporadically when I have time.

I agree with everyone. 15-30 approaches per week sounds like the sweet spot imo. Unfortunately I personally have only been doing like 3 approaches per week due to living in suburbs wit no viable daygaming locations. Where I live there is only 1 mall that is even halfway decent to daygame but you have to go at very specific time/days of the week, and even at that peak time window you are lucky if you see 1 or 2 approachable women per hour. Are any of y'all getting solid numbers and dates from mall approaches or is everyone as rusty as I am?

 

[Spyce D]

Are any of y'all getting solid numbers and dates from mall approaches

Me ...

 

[FunGuy]

Ok perfect I pmed you, don't want to derail the topic