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tl;dr: I invited two 3sets to a party. I fucked up logistics so I wasn't able to pull the girl from the set I liked. And my dog took a dump on my pillow while I was at the party lol.
My objectives
So on Friday night as I was leaving a party we got in my car with my roommate and passed by another car, inside there were three girls about to leave as well, I stopped and invited them to the after party. The girl on the wheel said she knew me from instagram (lol we texted a week ago), they didn't come but I texted her and she said let's go out on Saturday night. Alright. They live 5 minutes away from my place, so it was a great lead, or so I thought.
I was also chatting with a girl from online (if i showed you a picture you'd want to kill me for not sleeping with her lol). This girl lives around 20 minutes away from my place.
The arrangement
So on Saturday I invited both (car-girl and online-girl) to a pre-party at home, and from there we'd go to a cool open-air party in the city, full of famous people etc (one of the only parties in Buenos Aires, now it's summer and every party takes place in cities with beaches). Online-girl answered almost instantly and invited 2 friends. Car-girl answered 4 hours later and also invited 2 friends. It was really hard to get tickets, but I sent a few messages to some people I knew and got free VIP and tickets for all of us (me, my roommate, and both 3sets. All I had to do was post an instagram story lol, pro tip: get followers and meet club organizers). I could have gotten tickets for the STAGE with all the ultra famous people but I asked the DJ for tickets like 5 hours before the party, so I was lucky to get at least something. (The DJ is a girl who really liked me a couple of years ago, she wasn't so beautiful so I never tried anything but now she looks much better lol).
The pre-party
The party took place 5 minutes away from online-girl's apartment, so we just did a pre-party with car-girl and her 2 friends (one of them was actually her sister). They were BARELY legal, and considering lockdowns, corona, etc, it seemed to me that they had the social intelligence of girls 2 years younger....... BUT they lived 5 min away from home, so I made them leave their car at mine and we went in my car (this seemed like a great idea, they HAD to come home, ironically I think this is where I fucked up, I was inviting two groups and then making one dependant on me, without being able to take the other group for the after party...)
Before car-girl's group arrived my roommate was falling asleep all the time, I couldn't get him out of the bed, he woke up as soon as the girls arrived home... I had to say hello to the three girls all by myself, plus when I opened the door the dog almost escaped, I wouldn't say it was awkward but it was not an ideal situation... I got drinks for the 4 of us, had the typical conversation how did you meet etc, we played higher/lower game (stupid game with cards for drinking so they loosen up), also played darts, and after a while my friend got out of the shower and started playing with us. I tried to get closer to my objective (car-girl), being a bit physical, while bantering with the other girls.
We chatted for a bit and then left to the party because it was kinda late. While driving I tried to talk to the three girls so I could do some verbals (the sisters would talk very close and i was joking that they were kissing but i wasn't judgemental), but my roommate wanted to listen to music and not to talk...
Mixing the sets
While driving I was also texting online-girl who was getting an uber so she could get to the party with her 2 friends. As soon as we arrived the three of them were at the entrance. OMG online-girl was STUNNING. A gorgeous blonde with light blue eyes. I think it was really noticeable that I liked her lol I kinda introduced both groups, or they just did it naturally. I said to both groups "these are my friends" (but they eventually realised we all met that night, I changed subject saying "wow you're drunk you don't remember we actually met last night"). Online-girl group seemed much more experienced, and more talkative, and more to the point... after all they were older than 20 lol
The 8 of us tried to get in, but me, my wing, car-girl and her sister didn't have facemasks. I had a few in my car so I went back to get them. I left my roomie chatting with all the girls. I came back and online-girl's group was by themselves, and my roommate was with car-girl's group. Remember I had 8 vips? well I lied, I had 5 vips and 3 general tickets. So I isolated online-girl and her friends and told them that I would give them the VIPs (I wanted them to feel a bit more special, because they had been waiting, I made them go by uber, they confirmed earlier etc) and I would give the general tickets to car-girl and her friends, asking online-girl if her group could give the other group their VIP bracelets later so they can come with us. All that wasn't necessary at the end, because I talked our way into the VIP for the extra 3 girls, but I think it was good for making online-girl feel special.
Immersion
So we got in, we got drinks (they were free, I playfully said I would buy them a few drinks haha) and there I talked to online-girl. There were better tickets than the ones we had (the stage) and I said that had we asked for it a day before we would've been able to go on stage. Anyway VIP area was still better than general area. I said that anyway most people on stage try to look like something they're not, plus they care about other people's opinion, that she seemed different, more authentic... I don't know what bs I said but she was immersed. After some mingling, I mentioned that she looked like she did tiktoks, and she did, I said we should film some at home, that she'll like my dog, etc.. she even went to the same model school than a couple of friends, I knew the name of the agency and asked her if she went to that one, she said yes, massive connection there
Mingling
The thing is THERE WERE TOO MANY GIRLS for me and my roommate. But every guy around us were losers or ugly. It was good because we stood out (A LOT, people who recognised me for my videos asked me for pictures etc) but fuccccckkkk, I couldn't get anyone to join us (they were all losers for real), and it was really hard to manage both groups with my wing just drinking and "dancing" in the spot. Ironically, even though managing both sets was hard, I think this is what I did best (For a while both sets where together in a circle, then they split up in 3 and 3, a few meters away from each other).
So basically what I did was talk to online-girl, was physical (I need practice but was trying to be situationally touchy and aloof), then talked a bit to her group, then went back to car-girl, did the same... looking at them with a triangular gaze... then leaving to talk to my roommate, or to the toilet, or to the bar, just mingling a lot. This was good, I gave both my objectives a lot of attention when I was with them, but took away this attention REALLY FAST, so they could never have enough. There was a great moment when online-girl took an ecstasy pill (or so my friend told me, I didn't even notice that lol) and she had her sunglasses on top of her head. The song "Turn down for what" started playing, so as soon as the singer said TURN DOWN FOR WHAT I put her sunglasses on her, just like the meme, it was magical lol
One doubt I have now is: when we're dancing in a set like making a circle, what do with my objective? and what do with the other girls? sometimes I'm dancing without doing anything else and I'm like: "fuckkk, should I say something, should I try to dance with my objective, what dooooooo"
Here's when I noticed online-girl was MUCH more receptive (even before the E pill lol). Probably because I really liked her more so she reciprocated? My roommate said it was noticeable that I liked her... But to be fair the other girl, car-girl, was not too receptive to my escalation. Yes, we grinded with car-girl, and I even got to hold her hand to get her on stage. How did we go on stage? I met a friend who had one bracelet for the stage and was leaving, so I just asked for it, he gave me his bracelet, and I used this as an excuse to hold her hand).
How I lost one girl
When I got car-girl on stage she wanted me to get her sister on stage as well, I said ok let's go on stage the two of us and i'll see if we can get a bracelet for your sister, so I was holding her hand and the bouncer didn't notice she didn't have a bracelet (I just showed mine), we got on stage and she was insisting on her sister coming (meanwhile her sister was making out with my roommate loool). I said let's go get a bracelet from somebody over here and she said "ok i'll wait here, you go get it". And here's when I lost her, she left the stage (of course she couldn't get back on stage without me) and then she spent all the night asking me to get her back on stage again. She even went to talk to the bouncer with her sister to see if they could pass: so they literally showed the bouncer they didn't have a bracelet, and after that they were never going on stage anymore that night. This is why I say they were inexperienced, in comparison to online-girl group who probably wouldn't even try a move like that.
At this point my roommate was looking at our security cameras on his phone, not in state at all, apparently our dog had opened my bedroom door. This is BAD NEWS, our dog loves my bed for doing number one and number two (yes, the dog's great for girls to open you at the mall, but he has his cons as well). So we had 6 girls with us but my bed was 100% sure covered in dogshit, pee or even vomit. Fuck my life.
How I lost a closed deal…
At that point all I wanted to do was go with online-girl and get her on-stage with me, but I was never able to find her. After a while she texted me "where are you", we texted "here at the bar" "here were we met last time" but we never managed to find each other. I guess she was too high for that lol
The party ended, we had to leave, and I HAD no choice but to leave with car-girl and her friends because she had left her car at my house... and online-girl started texting me......
It was pretty much a closed deal for a SNL.... but as my roommate never wanted to bring his car, it was only my car for me, my roommate and the 3 girls... How could we fit in 3 more girls? Fuck logistics... Now, I know a lot of natural friends who got the lay the following day after bad logistics, but to be honest I'd never got it before. So I consider it a FU for now.
The pull
The three girls got in my car, they were singing etc, kinda party mode, I was speeding and one of them was filming (I think she liked my bad-boy driving haha), then my roommate changed the music to a super lame slow song.. and they stopped singing.. then i changed it back and got them to sing again...
Anyway, we arrived to my doorstep and they wanted to go to mcdonald's. They didn't even wanna get in the house, meanwhile I couldn't find our house keys.. (while looking for the keys in my car, I was thinking of an excuse to get them in the house, but nothing came to mind). My roomie even said he would cook fries for them instead of going to Mcdonald's.. But no way, there was no chance to get them in the fucking house, so i thought FUCK IT, I found the keys, opened the door and went upstairs to check the sheets for dogshit. And yup, my dog ruined one of my two pillows, it was just pee though, it could have been worse. I replaced the sheets, tossed the pillow and that's all... Of course the girls left, lol I didn't even say goodbye. My roommate told me they were asking him if I would go to Mcdonald's with them... lol no way, if they were already not in state, imagine what a fucking Big Mac would do to their state... should have said goodbye though, but I was expecting them to say goodbye to me, maybe by getting inside the house? lol they didn't they just left...
The last resort
By the way, half an hour had passed since my last chat with online-girl, and i was like.. hmmm let's see if i can try something else with this girl...
I hope i didn't screw social frame here...
There was definitely a connection, I hope it was strong enough not to fade tomorrow / another day... but at least we had a good time for sure, left a good impression and raised attraction (at least at the party). Don't know how long that'll last, though...
Conclusions
I think I'm not texting car-girl again, she didn't seem interested and was a bit dumb to be honest (couldn't hold a conversation, but well we went to a party after all). On the other hand, I really liked online girl... but logistics were not there (it could have been easily avoidable, I was so stupid i didn't think about that. After all my years in the field I feel so noob with such a rookie mistake...)
I think this is where I fucked up:
I had never seen online-girl in person, so my plan was to take car-girl and her friends home, and to spike online-girl's attraction (plus, for me, more girls = more fun). But online-girl was probably DTF from the beginning, and I wasn't able to change plans mid-game to fuck online-girl instead due to logistics...
I'm also curious to know how I could have done better with car-girl at the pre-party / club.
Futurology
If you've read Chase's latest article, perhaps with online-girl I did the first date strategy without realizing it (in an open-air club instead of a typical date venue). Only time will tell if I get the second date: she seems receptive but we'll see how she responds tomorrow / in the following days, when she's not in party mode. I'm optimistic. And I have a couple pills at home (not for me, but if she's into that, it could get her in the same mood as last night. But I don't think it's necessary at all).
As for car-girl... she was just hot, she didn't seem interesting to me. So while it sucks that I didn't get to sleep with her, it doesn't feel like a great loss. Maybe I could try to get a date with her, to see if I like her outside of a party (she studies IT like me after all), and maybe I could fuck her later, but I don't really know how that'll go. She seems like a typical party girl to be honest. I could text her tomorrow "sorry I didn't say goodbye, had some trouble with this guy *photo of dog*" but hmm i don't even care anymore haha (I don't lose anything trying, though).
Anyway, in one day I managed to arrange a night out with 6 girls, getting VIP for the 8 of us completely for free, and spiked online-girl's attraction. Yes, it's a FU, but maybe it was not that bad after all
My objectives
So on Friday night as I was leaving a party we got in my car with my roommate and passed by another car, inside there were three girls about to leave as well, I stopped and invited them to the after party. The girl on the wheel said she knew me from instagram (lol we texted a week ago), they didn't come but I texted her and she said let's go out on Saturday night. Alright. They live 5 minutes away from my place, so it was a great lead, or so I thought.
I was also chatting with a girl from online (if i showed you a picture you'd want to kill me for not sleeping with her lol). This girl lives around 20 minutes away from my place.
The arrangement
So on Saturday I invited both (car-girl and online-girl) to a pre-party at home, and from there we'd go to a cool open-air party in the city, full of famous people etc (one of the only parties in Buenos Aires, now it's summer and every party takes place in cities with beaches). Online-girl answered almost instantly and invited 2 friends. Car-girl answered 4 hours later and also invited 2 friends. It was really hard to get tickets, but I sent a few messages to some people I knew and got free VIP and tickets for all of us (me, my roommate, and both 3sets. All I had to do was post an instagram story lol, pro tip: get followers and meet club organizers). I could have gotten tickets for the STAGE with all the ultra famous people but I asked the DJ for tickets like 5 hours before the party, so I was lucky to get at least something. (The DJ is a girl who really liked me a couple of years ago, she wasn't so beautiful so I never tried anything but now she looks much better lol).
The pre-party
The party took place 5 minutes away from online-girl's apartment, so we just did a pre-party with car-girl and her 2 friends (one of them was actually her sister). They were BARELY legal, and considering lockdowns, corona, etc, it seemed to me that they had the social intelligence of girls 2 years younger....... BUT they lived 5 min away from home, so I made them leave their car at mine and we went in my car (this seemed like a great idea, they HAD to come home, ironically I think this is where I fucked up, I was inviting two groups and then making one dependant on me, without being able to take the other group for the after party...)
Before car-girl's group arrived my roommate was falling asleep all the time, I couldn't get him out of the bed, he woke up as soon as the girls arrived home... I had to say hello to the three girls all by myself, plus when I opened the door the dog almost escaped, I wouldn't say it was awkward but it was not an ideal situation... I got drinks for the 4 of us, had the typical conversation how did you meet etc, we played higher/lower game (stupid game with cards for drinking so they loosen up), also played darts, and after a while my friend got out of the shower and started playing with us. I tried to get closer to my objective (car-girl), being a bit physical, while bantering with the other girls.
We chatted for a bit and then left to the party because it was kinda late. While driving I tried to talk to the three girls so I could do some verbals (the sisters would talk very close and i was joking that they were kissing but i wasn't judgemental), but my roommate wanted to listen to music and not to talk...
Mixing the sets
While driving I was also texting online-girl who was getting an uber so she could get to the party with her 2 friends. As soon as we arrived the three of them were at the entrance. OMG online-girl was STUNNING. A gorgeous blonde with light blue eyes. I think it was really noticeable that I liked her lol I kinda introduced both groups, or they just did it naturally. I said to both groups "these are my friends" (but they eventually realised we all met that night, I changed subject saying "wow you're drunk you don't remember we actually met last night"). Online-girl group seemed much more experienced, and more talkative, and more to the point... after all they were older than 20 lol
The 8 of us tried to get in, but me, my wing, car-girl and her sister didn't have facemasks. I had a few in my car so I went back to get them. I left my roomie chatting with all the girls. I came back and online-girl's group was by themselves, and my roommate was with car-girl's group. Remember I had 8 vips? well I lied, I had 5 vips and 3 general tickets. So I isolated online-girl and her friends and told them that I would give them the VIPs (I wanted them to feel a bit more special, because they had been waiting, I made them go by uber, they confirmed earlier etc) and I would give the general tickets to car-girl and her friends, asking online-girl if her group could give the other group their VIP bracelets later so they can come with us. All that wasn't necessary at the end, because I talked our way into the VIP for the extra 3 girls, but I think it was good for making online-girl feel special.
Immersion
So we got in, we got drinks (they were free, I playfully said I would buy them a few drinks haha) and there I talked to online-girl. There were better tickets than the ones we had (the stage) and I said that had we asked for it a day before we would've been able to go on stage. Anyway VIP area was still better than general area. I said that anyway most people on stage try to look like something they're not, plus they care about other people's opinion, that she seemed different, more authentic... I don't know what bs I said but she was immersed. After some mingling, I mentioned that she looked like she did tiktoks, and she did, I said we should film some at home, that she'll like my dog, etc.. she even went to the same model school than a couple of friends, I knew the name of the agency and asked her if she went to that one, she said yes, massive connection there
Mingling
The thing is THERE WERE TOO MANY GIRLS for me and my roommate. But every guy around us were losers or ugly. It was good because we stood out (A LOT, people who recognised me for my videos asked me for pictures etc) but fuccccckkkk, I couldn't get anyone to join us (they were all losers for real), and it was really hard to manage both groups with my wing just drinking and "dancing" in the spot. Ironically, even though managing both sets was hard, I think this is what I did best (For a while both sets where together in a circle, then they split up in 3 and 3, a few meters away from each other).
So basically what I did was talk to online-girl, was physical (I need practice but was trying to be situationally touchy and aloof), then talked a bit to her group, then went back to car-girl, did the same... looking at them with a triangular gaze... then leaving to talk to my roommate, or to the toilet, or to the bar, just mingling a lot. This was good, I gave both my objectives a lot of attention when I was with them, but took away this attention REALLY FAST, so they could never have enough. There was a great moment when online-girl took an ecstasy pill (or so my friend told me, I didn't even notice that lol) and she had her sunglasses on top of her head. The song "Turn down for what" started playing, so as soon as the singer said TURN DOWN FOR WHAT I put her sunglasses on her, just like the meme, it was magical lol
One doubt I have now is: when we're dancing in a set like making a circle, what do with my objective? and what do with the other girls? sometimes I'm dancing without doing anything else and I'm like: "fuckkk, should I say something, should I try to dance with my objective, what dooooooo"
Here's when I noticed online-girl was MUCH more receptive (even before the E pill lol). Probably because I really liked her more so she reciprocated? My roommate said it was noticeable that I liked her... But to be fair the other girl, car-girl, was not too receptive to my escalation. Yes, we grinded with car-girl, and I even got to hold her hand to get her on stage. How did we go on stage? I met a friend who had one bracelet for the stage and was leaving, so I just asked for it, he gave me his bracelet, and I used this as an excuse to hold her hand).
How I lost one girl
When I got car-girl on stage she wanted me to get her sister on stage as well, I said ok let's go on stage the two of us and i'll see if we can get a bracelet for your sister, so I was holding her hand and the bouncer didn't notice she didn't have a bracelet (I just showed mine), we got on stage and she was insisting on her sister coming (meanwhile her sister was making out with my roommate loool). I said let's go get a bracelet from somebody over here and she said "ok i'll wait here, you go get it". And here's when I lost her, she left the stage (of course she couldn't get back on stage without me) and then she spent all the night asking me to get her back on stage again. She even went to talk to the bouncer with her sister to see if they could pass: so they literally showed the bouncer they didn't have a bracelet, and after that they were never going on stage anymore that night. This is why I say they were inexperienced, in comparison to online-girl group who probably wouldn't even try a move like that.
At this point my roommate was looking at our security cameras on his phone, not in state at all, apparently our dog had opened my bedroom door. This is BAD NEWS, our dog loves my bed for doing number one and number two (yes, the dog's great for girls to open you at the mall, but he has his cons as well). So we had 6 girls with us but my bed was 100% sure covered in dogshit, pee or even vomit. Fuck my life.
How I lost a closed deal…
At that point all I wanted to do was go with online-girl and get her on-stage with me, but I was never able to find her. After a while she texted me "where are you", we texted "here at the bar" "here were we met last time" but we never managed to find each other. I guess she was too high for that lol
The party ended, we had to leave, and I HAD no choice but to leave with car-girl and her friends because she had left her car at my house... and online-girl started texting me......
It was pretty much a closed deal for a SNL.... but as my roommate never wanted to bring his car, it was only my car for me, my roommate and the 3 girls... How could we fit in 3 more girls? Fuck logistics... Now, I know a lot of natural friends who got the lay the following day after bad logistics, but to be honest I'd never got it before. So I consider it a FU for now.
The pull
The three girls got in my car, they were singing etc, kinda party mode, I was speeding and one of them was filming (I think she liked my bad-boy driving haha), then my roommate changed the music to a super lame slow song.. and they stopped singing.. then i changed it back and got them to sing again...
Anyway, we arrived to my doorstep and they wanted to go to mcdonald's. They didn't even wanna get in the house, meanwhile I couldn't find our house keys.. (while looking for the keys in my car, I was thinking of an excuse to get them in the house, but nothing came to mind). My roomie even said he would cook fries for them instead of going to Mcdonald's.. But no way, there was no chance to get them in the fucking house, so i thought FUCK IT, I found the keys, opened the door and went upstairs to check the sheets for dogshit. And yup, my dog ruined one of my two pillows, it was just pee though, it could have been worse. I replaced the sheets, tossed the pillow and that's all... Of course the girls left, lol I didn't even say goodbye. My roommate told me they were asking him if I would go to Mcdonald's with them... lol no way, if they were already not in state, imagine what a fucking Big Mac would do to their state... should have said goodbye though, but I was expecting them to say goodbye to me, maybe by getting inside the house? lol they didn't they just left...
The last resort
By the way, half an hour had passed since my last chat with online-girl, and i was like.. hmmm let's see if i can try something else with this girl...
I hope i didn't screw social frame here...
There was definitely a connection, I hope it was strong enough not to fade tomorrow / another day... but at least we had a good time for sure, left a good impression and raised attraction (at least at the party). Don't know how long that'll last, though...
Conclusions
I think I'm not texting car-girl again, she didn't seem interested and was a bit dumb to be honest (couldn't hold a conversation, but well we went to a party after all). On the other hand, I really liked online girl... but logistics were not there (it could have been easily avoidable, I was so stupid i didn't think about that. After all my years in the field I feel so noob with such a rookie mistake...)
I think this is where I fucked up:
- Probably shouldn't have invited car-girl. If her response was 4 hours later, I was probably her second option. When we texted a week ago, she wasn't so receptive, and her interest increased a bit only after seeing me the night before.
- 6 girls for 2 guys is just too much.
- If i really wanted to invite car girl, I should have asked my roomie to bring his car too, so I could pull the other girls into my car (WHY DIDNT I THINK OF THIS MAN, maybe I was too confident that car-girl would come into my house, after all she was leaving her car at mine, so I trapped myself with them. But with young, party girls you just never know...). Or I could just have asked car-girl to go on her own...
- I was too dependant on my roommate as a wing for the pre-party, I hadn't invited any other guys, and he really let me down
- Maybe car girl became a bit jealous of online girl and got into auto-rejection
- I think i should go for the kiss during parties, i think that makes me lose lots of pulls, but i just don't know how, with all these people watching...
I had never seen online-girl in person, so my plan was to take car-girl and her friends home, and to spike online-girl's attraction (plus, for me, more girls = more fun). But online-girl was probably DTF from the beginning, and I wasn't able to change plans mid-game to fuck online-girl instead due to logistics...
I'm also curious to know how I could have done better with car-girl at the pre-party / club.
Futurology
If you've read Chase's latest article, perhaps with online-girl I did the first date strategy without realizing it (in an open-air club instead of a typical date venue). Only time will tell if I get the second date: she seems receptive but we'll see how she responds tomorrow / in the following days, when she's not in party mode. I'm optimistic. And I have a couple pills at home (not for me, but if she's into that, it could get her in the same mood as last night. But I don't think it's necessary at all).
As for car-girl... she was just hot, she didn't seem interesting to me. So while it sucks that I didn't get to sleep with her, it doesn't feel like a great loss. Maybe I could try to get a date with her, to see if I like her outside of a party (she studies IT like me after all), and maybe I could fuck her later, but I don't really know how that'll go. She seems like a typical party girl to be honest. I could text her tomorrow "sorry I didn't say goodbye, had some trouble with this guy *photo of dog*" but hmm i don't even care anymore haha (I don't lose anything trying, though).
Anyway, in one day I managed to arrange a night out with 6 girls, getting VIP for the 8 of us completely for free, and spiked online-girl's attraction. Yes, it's a FU, but maybe it was not that bad after all
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