Socializing I don't know how to cold-approach

[funk_in_b_minor]

it's honestly ridiculous
I've been approaching since 2018-2019
It's 2025 and I still don't know what the fuck I'm doing
It seems like no matter what I do or say women aren't interested
And on the rare times I do get a number, it doesn't go anywhere
I wonder if I'm just not smart enough or socially savvy enough for this shit
I must have approached thousands of women at this point and yet my dating experience is minimal

 

[average_daygamer]

You could literally be me. During plateaus, I recommend to pay a coach.

However, some background would be useful. For instance, what country are you trying to approach in?

What is your age? A 25 year old will have better luck with girls 25 and under than a 35 year old. Etc.

I also definitely feel you on wondering if you are not socially intelligent enough. I am coming to the conclusion that this "getting laid bro" malarkey is definitely a lot more difficult than it is made out to be.

I guess there is a reason neurotypicals start from they're late teens or even younger.

 

[James D]

What is your age? A 25 year old will have better luck with girls 25 and under than a 35 year old. Etc.

I've observed the contrary.

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

Looking through your previous messages, you've got a lot stacked against you.

But the #1 is location.