Kind of a long post here which I will try to keep as short as possible, maybe this is not a site where I get the answer to this and maybe it is a question I never get the resolution for in my life.
The short story of Oh Pry:
I had a very unstable childhood, parents divorced and then I moved around a lot and then they got back together. Never really in one place for too long. Born in California and went to a high school that may as well be featured on WorldStar lol. Overbearing parents at home and wild classmates to deal with in class. Needless to say, never had the high school experience and I could have lived with that.
The college years start, where the long-lasting damage happens:
Started off the Community College route due to mentally sick mother with attachment issues. After 2 years or so, transfer to a top 10 party school on the east coast since I was sick and tired of California. Tried to make friends and fit in socially, failed. Failed to make decent enough friends, often socially rejected from the guys who were getting laid, and actually didn't get laid all that much outside of maybe a handful of times.
Years after college, Oh Pry takes off in a big way and things start to come together:
So after college, I really hit my stride. I ended up sleeping with well over 100 different women, had some wild experiences, slowly made a handful of friends, and started doing more fun things. I probably drank and partied more in my 20s after college than I ever did in college.
At one point I did have what I wanted, a decent enough group of friends and that was starting to go enough places. The issue became that a lot of my friends I did make moved on from NYC and got tired of the life here. A lot of them moved to more calm cities and settled into LTR life. My friends who do stay in the city are often traveling all over the world since they have money to spend and prefer not to be in one city for too long.
Here comes the very thing that's been bothering me forever and has taken up a lot of time in my head....
I guess I see it on the outside looking in but I saw a select number of college kids, mainly Greek Life but also other groups, who had big groups they were a part of. Girls in groups heading out with a couple of guys and I wanted something like that. Like a group of guys who all seemed to be successful and had women going out with them or girls they could call up at anytime.
Like getting laid and having fun are important for me but I want to feel like I am a part of something.
I want to have a
@Franco @Chase @Hue @Grand Pooba or other guys who I pull with and then after years, have those crazy stories to share with. I want to be able to have a group of friends to show up to events with hot girls and be able to be a part of that big group.
It feels unnatural, like people did this when they were in school and somehow I want to do it afterwards but it has been eating me.
It's like I got to the point in game where getting laid was not enough, I had to build something through game and seduction....
It's gonna be a while before I post another thread but I know I have a weak social foundation that I am trying to solve through game..