I Wanna Be The Very Best Like No One Ever Was

[Jacksonville01]

Summary

Thursday 8th May

I was in two minds about going out today since the weather wasn’t great, but I’m glad I did. I kind of “cheated” and went back to doing direct approaches, mainly because I’ve been feeling the lack of results since switching over to indirect.

It’s been a while since I opened direct, and I do miss the straightforwardness and the time it seems to save. That said, I still feel like if I had gone indirect today, the results would’ve been the same or possibly even better.

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Approach Stats

Total Approaches: Around 8
Numbers: 1

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Noteworthy Interactions

Au pair Girl
I saw a girl sitting on a bench and approached her by saying I thought she was cute and wanted to say hi real quick. I teased her about looking like trouble, which she denied, and then started telling me how she looks after kids and does volunteer work etc. It was an okay interaction — not much chemistry. I asked if she’d want to hang out again, and she said no.

College Girl
I spotted a girl walking through the park in the same direction I was going. She had a really unique outfit that stood out. Since I walk quite slowly and she was ahead of me, I let her walk on while I thought of something to say about her style. About five minutes later, I hopped on my bike, caught up to her, and approached.

I told her I’d noticed her outfit earlier and that it had a kind of hippie vibe. She responded positively and said it was for fancy dress her friends were doing at school. That made me wonder about her age, so I asked. She said she was 18. She then asked how old I was, which i always tell a girl to guess to get more investment. She guessed 25, and I teased her for trying to flatter me before telling her I’m actually 37.

We ended up walking together for about ten minutes and had a solid conversation that touched on a few different topics, including some light, borderline sexual ones. Toward the end, I told her she had a fun vibe and she blushed which I teased her about. I used Skills’ Investment Close and asked if she’d want to hang out again, and she said yes, so I took her number.

I told her we should grab a coffee sometime and also mentioned a posh spot I know that she’d like. She immediately asked if I’d be paying, and I clarified that it’s a private communal garden I have access to. I hugged her goodbye, and as I got on my bike to leave, she jokingly said, “Don’t die on your bike!”


Text Follow-up:
Texted her about two hours later

Me: "Was fun meeting earlier : ) - [My Name]" @ 8.11pm

Her: Yh it was. Highly interesting." @ 9.26pm

 

[average_daygamer]

Nice one on the 18 year old.

I find it a lot trickier mentally to get my head around if they are still in sixth form than if they are at uni.

Normally if they are at sixth form, I don't want to be creepy and ask if they are 16,17 or 18. I know 16 or 17 is technically still "legal" but not old enough to be considered legally an adult, so we like to stick to that, even though they look like an adult.

So if they say they are in sixth form I auto eject from the interaction, even if they could have been 18 because I can't handle the cringe factor of trying to find out directly.

Her reply to your message is also interesting. "Highly interesting" haha, I've never heard a chick writing something like that before.

 

[Jacksonville01]

Nice one on the 18 year old.

I find it a lot trickier mentally to get my head around if they are still in sixth form than if they are at uni.

Normally if they are at sixth form, I don't want to be creepy and ask if they are 16,17 or 18. I know 16 or 17 is technically still "legal" but not old enough to be considered legally an adult, so we like to stick to that, even though they look like an adult.

So if they say they are in sixth form I auto eject from the interaction, even if they could have been 18 because I can't handle the cringe factor of trying to find out directly.

Her reply to your message is also interesting. "Highly interesting" haha, I've never heard a chick writing something like that before.

yea when she said she was 18 I hesitated for a sec then made a split decision to carry on the interaction. She seems cool with it so I'll stick it out for the XP and see where it goes

 

[Jacksonville01]

Summary

Friday 9th May

I went out for another daygame session today and continued from yesterday by only doing direct approaches. There weren’t any particularly noteworthy or long interactions, but it still felt like progress. My approach anxiety is definitely improving, although I still held back from approaching a few girls I wish I had gone for.

I felt a lot more social today. I’ve started smiling at almost every girl I walk past. I also gave a compliment to one girl, though I didn’t follow up with anything after. I’ve decided I’ll start complimenting more girls.

Later on, I met up with a few friends and noticed I felt a lot more socially confident than usual, even introducing myself to people I didn’t know and telling jokes.

I also read Chase’s recent article about how tourists are easier to pick up. I live near a well-known spot that attracts a lot of tourists on the weekends, but I haven’t properly daygamed there yet. Mostly because I hate walking and usually prefer taking my bike out—but will start daygaming there more often.


Approach Stats

Total Approaches: Around 12
Numbers: 0

 

[Jacksonville01]

Summary

Saturday 10th May

I went out for another daygame session today. I fucked a girl last night (not through cold approach), so was in a good mood.

Unfortunately, my hayfever was acting up badly—I was constantly sniffling and sneezing throughout the day.

Despite that, I felt more social than usual. I gave out 3 or 4 compliments, one of the girls gave me something to follow up on, which led to a short interaction.

I did a mix of both direct and indirect approaches.

My confidence is improving—I approached a two-set, which I hadn’t done since getting back into daygame this summer.

I noticed I could do with slowing down my speaking pace and reactions a bit more.

I had a couple of ok five-minute convos, but nothing particularly noteworthy.


Approach Stats

Total Approaches: Around 10
Numbers: 0


Texting update

Update on the texting convo with the 18 year old college girl

 

[Jacksonville01]

Summary

Sunday 11th May

Today was a good day overall. I feel like I'm steadily improving each time I go out. My conversations and teases are flowing a lot more naturally, and I feel noticeably more confident and social. My approach anxiety is also improving.

The first approach I did today ended in a number close. I don’t think I gave any passing-by compliments today. I approached 2 two-sets, and most of my approaches were indirect—except for one, where I opened a two-set directly.

One thing I’m noticing is that it's harder to hook girls when I go indirect on those walking towards me. Sometimes they slow down and we exchange a few words, but most of the time they just keep walking.

I could also do with improving the way I get a girl’s attention before I open. I usually say “excuse me” with a little hand wave, but I sometimes do both too quickly if I’m not thinking about it beforehand. So basically have my fundamentals in mind before approaching - slow speech and movements/reactions


I shortened my "You Remind Me of an Ex" opener from previously.
The rainbow ruses I've kept the same but have primarily been using the troublemaker one. I find that I mainly use the first part of the rainbow ruse and the conversation starts flowing from there, I could maybe introduce the last part later in the convo, I don't have to say the whole thing in one go

You Remind Me of an Ex Opener​

"You kind of remind me of someone…"/” You kind of reminded me of someone as you were walking by..."
“This [Say a nationality she looks like] girl I used to date…"
"You have that same [troublemaker / innocent / reserved / approachable] look to you…"


Approach Stats

Total Approaches: Around 15
Numbers: 1


Noteworthy Interactions

Russian girl

This was my first approach of the day. I saw her while riding past in the park, then chilled on a bench to wait for her and she ended up taking a seat on another bench near me. I opened with my “You Remind Me of an Ex” opener and followed up with the first part of the troublemaker Rainbow Ruse.
She responded by saying I was “very poetic”— which is the second compliment I’ve received on my Rainbow Ruse.

We ended up talking for about 15 minutes, and it went smoothly. There was a good vibe between us and there was laughing and teasing throughout. I used Skills' investment close and got her number. She's in London for a week and said she’s free to meet up on Tuesday or Wednesday.

I reached out for a handclasp and said goodbye. She mentioned she’s 41 years old, though she looked younger — which probably makes her my oldest number close so far.

I text her about 3/4 hours later

Me: was fun meeting earlier : ) [my name] @5.48pm
Her: Hey [my name ] ; )
Was nice meeting you too @6.49pm
Me: hope you didnt get upto too much trouble after I left
how was the rest of your adventure? @ 8.10pm
Her: [She sent 2 pics of inside a church]
Has quite an adventure
Canteen in a church...@10.14pm

Will text her again tomorrow


Goth girl

I saw her walking in the park, heading in my direction. She sat on a bench, and I opened her with my “You Remind Me of an Ex” opener, followed by my Troublemaker Rainbow Ruse. She seemed very closed off—minimal eye contact and closed body language. The old me would have ejected at that point, but I decided to pursue the interaction.

The conversation started off a bit awkward, but she began to open up a bit more as we talked. We found a few things in common, like anime and gaming, but overall the conversation felt more like a chat between friends rather than something with romantic potential. We spoke for about 10 to 15 minutes.

I asked if she wanted to hang out sometime, and she said no, that she hasn’t got the time.

I’m starting to notice that I can tell during an interaction whether it’s going to lead to a number close or not, and in this case, I knew it wasn’t going to happen even before I asked.


American Filipina girl

I saw two girls sitting on a bench in the park. I almost walked past them due to approach anxiety, but I pushed myself to go for it. I opened one of the girls directly and told her I thought she was cute. I was too in my head to think about doing a more genuine compliment-style opener.

She smiled and was receptive. I said I just wanted to come say hi, but I wasn’t sure because they both looked like trouble. They both laughed, and we ended up having a good conversation for about 5 to 10 minutes. I made sure to involve the friend throughout while teasing the Filipina girl.

She mentioned she was only in town for 2 days, and when I asked if she wanted to hang out sometime, she said she had a boyfriend.

I feel like two or more sets can be easier in some ways because the girl seems more comfortable when her friend is there, and the presence of others gives more convo opportunities.

 

[Jacksonville01]

Summary

Monday 12th May

Only left the house today for 30mins to go doctors. Saw a girl as I was leaving the doctors. I opened her directly but she said she was running late for an appointment and couldn't stop


Texting Update

Text convo with Russian girl

 

[Jacksonville01]

Summary

Tuesday 13th May

I went out for a daygame session today, I wanted to mainly focus on my fundamentals—especially how I open. I felt quite tired due to the sun and felt a bit off during the first half of the session, particularly when opening girls.

I’ve noticed I can consistently get a laugh or a positive reaction just by saying a girl looks like trouble, and to a lesser extent, posh. It feels like a bit of a hack

My approach anxiety was good today—I don’t really have issues opening two-sets anymore. I felt very social overall and ended up having about six random little conversations with strangers throughout the day.

I started the session with a few direct openers on autopilot, but then switched to indirect for the rest of the day since that’s what I want to focus on moving forward. I don’t think I used my Rainbow Ruse once today.

I’ve also been putting more effort into my appearance lately. I’ve been using black seed oil and marine collagen consistently, and I cut my own hair every three to four days. Since it's summer, I usually lose more weight, and I’ve been lifting a bit more too.

On a separate note, I’ve been freestyle rapping occasionally to improve my ability to think quickly and make creative word associations.


Approach Stats

Total Approaches: Around 10
Numbers: 0


Noteworthy Interactions

Anime girl
While standing in line at Tesco, she queued up behind me. She wasn’t really my type, but I wanted to be social, so I opened with: "You look like you're into anime." She laughed and said yes, and we ended up talking about our favorite animes. A few minutes in, her boyfriend showed up and joined the convo just before it was my turn at the checkout.

College girl
I saw her walking toward me in the park and opened with: "You remind me of someone." She was receptive and we chatted for about five minutes, but I wasn’t warmed up yet and felt the conversation lacked flow and I slipped into borderline interview mode. I think I asked for her number, and I think she told me she had a boyfriend.

Finnish girl
I noticed her with a friend in Tesco and opened with the same "You remind me of someone." She stopped, and we had a playful exchange about how Finnish girls are usually trouble. She had a fun, cheeky attitude. The downside was that her friend didn’t get involved, and I didn’t create an opportunity to include her. We were also awkwardly standing in a narrow aisle, which made it a bit tense, so I ended up ejecting earlier than I wanted to.

Portuguese girl
This was the best interaction of the day. I was riding my bike on the pavement and saw her walking towards me, stopped her, and used the "You remind me of someone" opener. She was really receptive and we talked for a bit. When I asked for her number, she seemed on the fence, and asked for my name. We exchanged names and did a little hand clasp. Then she asked my age, and when I said 37, she said the age gap was too much since she was 22. She delivered it nicely, but it was still a hard objection. I’m not quite sure how to best handle or reframe age objections like that, especially since I rarely get them.

 

[Jacksonville01]

Summary

Wednesday 14th May

Went out for a daygame session today. Again, my energy felt low—I think because of the sun and heat.

I feel like the last few sessions it's been taking me way too long to get into the flow of things. I thought of warming up with hired guns, but I don't think that'd help. I think just getting the first 5 approaches out of the way, and just getting into the flow of opening a girl—even if I have to lower my standards or spam approach to get the numbers in early on—might help me more.

My interactions over the session were slowly getting better and better until I got a number close. It's funny how one interaction can turn things around and turn a session into a good one. I also had my longest interaction today from daygame. Could've probably gone on an instant date, but that wasn't even on my mind.

Noticed from writing this that I ejected a lot of the interactions today. I think a part of it is because I think I'm imposing if she isn't really receptive. Need to start doing what Gunwitch says and make the hoe say no.

I feel like I'm pushing myself more each day. I'm pushing myself to do approaches I'm hesitant to do. I'm having longer and better conversations than previously.

I feel like I need to lead the conversation more and better when the girl isn't as receptive and giving me anything to work with. That's when I feel like I start going into interview mode and start ejecting. So maybe having a list of attraction gambits and doing some opener recycling might help.

I used my innocent Rainbow Ruse for the first time today, and saying it in practice I didn’t like it and will change it. Kind of getting bored of saying a girl looks like trouble each time and want to switch it up and be more versatile.


Approach Stats

Total Approaches: Around 10
Numbers: 1


Noteworthy Interactions

Book girl
First approach of the day. Saw her sitting on the bench reading a book. I used my "You remind me of someone" opener. She wasn’t really receptive—felt like I was going into interview mode. Ejected early, can’t remember if I asked for her number.

Irish girl on break
Saw her standing outside. I used my "You remind me of someone" opener. She said she was having a smoke break from work. The convo was awkward and I also had other people watching me on the back of my mind as it was on a busy road. I had a joke in my head which would’ve been way too offensive—didn’t say it, kind of threw me off. I said bye and ejected.

Pakistani girl
I was starting to get warmed up more. Saw her sitting on the bench in the park. I said my "You remind me of someone" opener. We had about a 5-minute convo. Convo was just ok—I ejected earlier than i should have.

Canadian girl
She was like a 9/10, which weirdly enough doesn’t affect me much—how hot they are—once I open them. Saw her sitting on the bench in the park. I used my "You remind me of someone" opener. Joked about her being trouble, and she talked about how she isn’t and how she doesn’t drink, etc. We talked for about 5mins. I ejected early and asked for her number, even though I knew from the interaction she’d say no.

Birmingham girls
Saw a girl walking in front of me in the park. She had a fit body but wasn’t my type. She went and sat down next to another girl who I thought was hot. I was gonna walk on at first and forced myself to approach them. I was in my head, so I opened direct on autopilot, telling her I thought she was cute. I kind of stumbled my words at first, but she seemed receptive after my opener. We talked for about 5 minutes. I thought the convo was good—could’ve been smoother. I made sure to involve her friend. I asked for her number—can’t remember what she said, but I didn’t get it.

Indonesian girl
Saw her in the park sitting on the bench. I used my "You remind me of someone" opener. Her body language was very closed off at first—crossing arms, legs, etc.—but she seemed more open/invested verbally. We talked for about 20 minutes. It took her about 5–10 minutes until she seemed more comfortable and unfolded her arms and loosened up. She said she was a 22-year-old air hostess in London for a few days. We joked, laughed, and the convo flowed well. She asked me loads of questions, so she was invested.
I used Skills’ investment close. She asked my name, which I didn’t ask beforehand, but Gunwitch says it’s best not to ask because it shows investment if she asks first. I got her number and handclasped her goodbye.

This is exactly how I want to be from the start. But right now, it usually takes me towards the end of a session to warm up into this state.


I text her about 2/3 hours later

Me: was fun meeting earlier : ) [my name] @6.40pm

 

[Jacksonville01]

Summary

Friday 16th May

I went out for a daygame session today and completed my route twice. During the second round, I started feeling extremely fatigued, and it showed in my approaches.
My voice became monotone, I lacked my usual energy, and I was quieter overall. As a result, my interactions didn't hook as well, which likely contributed to me feeling a bit down afterward.

On a positive note, my approaches are becoming noticeably bolder. I approached a 3 set today—something I haven't done in a while—and I'm pushing myself to take action in scenarios and with women I normally feel hesitant around.


My approaches atm usually go like:

Street Stops/moving girls
Genuine Compliment → "You Remind Me" opener → Rainbow Ruse

Stationary girls
"You Remind Me" opener → Rainbow Ruse

After the opener, the conversation usually flows into either her nationality or a convo around the Rainbow Ruse.


Approach Stats

Total Approaches: Around 15
Numbers: 1


Interactions

Lithuanian girl
I approached a Lithuanian girl who was sitting alone on a bench. I opened by complimenting her hair, and she responded with a smile and seemed quite receptive. After the compliment, I said, “You actually reminded me of this Spanish girl I used to date… You have that same troublemaker look—like I can definitely see you getting into trouble on the regular.” She laughed and told me she’s not actually trouble, which led to a fun back-and-forth about that.

From there, the conversation naturally flowed into her nationality. We talked about Lithuania and compared it to London. I’ve noticed that when girls ask me if I’m from London, I usually respond with, “Do I not have that sexy London accent that all the girls love?”—which usually gets a laugh and a yes, like it did with her.

We also talked about our favorite parks, where she lives now (Bristol), and why she enjoys it there. She mentioned she was in London for a dentist appointment and was currently waiting for her coach back to Bristol. We chatted about what she likes to do for fun, and we also ended up talking about our ages—turns out we’re both 37, though she said she thought I was 25.

At one point, she asked for my name, and we exchanged names with a handclasp. I asked if she’d like to hang out again sometime, and she said she’s down and coming back next month. I took her number and said goodbye with another handclasp.

When I number-close, I usually end up with two kino touches: a handclasp during the name exchange and a handclasp or side hug during the goodbye.

I was also working on smiling less during the interaction. A few times I caught myself about to smile but managed to hold back or replaced it with a smirk instead.


I text her 3/4 hours later

Me: was fun meeting earlier : ) [my name] @5.52pm
Her: Cheers! Nice to meet you [my name]. Hope you are having a lush day @7.54pm

 

[Skills]

Summary

Friday 2nd May

I actually did two daygame sessions today, running my route twice. By the second time round, I started to feel some approach fatigue kicking in and I didn't do many approaches.

The only noteworthy interaction I can remember I had that day was with a half-Irish girl I approached who was sitting in the park waiting for her friend.
I opened with, “You kind of remind me of someone…” and followed it up by saying she reminded me of an Irish girl I used to date. That led her to mention that she was actually half Irish and half English, and the conversation flowed from there.

We ended up chatting for about 10–15 minutes. There was a good amount of teasing, shared laughter, and a nice mix of topics. Overall, it felt like one of my strongest interactions since switching to an indirect style — the vibe was playful and mutual.

I used Skills’ Investment Close toward the end. She said she’d be up for hanging out again sometime, but she told me she doesn’t give out her number and asked me to add her on social media instead. I told her no worries, I don’t use social media — which is true.

Not sure what the best way to frame this is. I feel like if she wasn't comfortable enough to give me her number then i either didn't do a good enough job in the interaction or that's genuinely her stance and i'm happy to walk away instead of trying to persuade her to give me her number.

I would love to know what is the "skills investment close" brah???


jack, i have never have in my life a girl refuse to give me her number, if you do what i tell you:

-step 1.- Let me give you my number
-step 2.- give me your phone (here you grab her phone)
step 3.- you call yourself and have it as a miss call, and you save yourself in her contact Jacksonville cute guy from mall or whatever... (like me i saved as Felipe (my fake name) aka Latin diesel..
step 4.- text yourself her name (or sometimes i troll and put "who is that good looking guy you are talking to?) as will say if not your personality don't do that... just text Jackson or jacson form mall

^ 100% success rate, never had a girl denie me her number... (that i remember) look at my post:

Calls & Texts - Best way to get a phone number and Ice breaker first texts....

Ok guys, so i have been helping a lot of the guys, by me doing so i get to see what they do wrong and if the things that work for me consistently work for them, so after enough sampling I see were the problem are and how to improve odds which is the name of the game.... So most normal dudes...

www.skilledseducer.com

 

[Jacksonville01]

I would love to know what is the "skills investment close" brah???


jack, i have never have in my life a girl refuse to give me her number, if you do what i tell you:

-step 1.- Let me give you my number
-step 2.- give me your phone (here you grab her phone)
step 3.- you call yourself and have it as a miss call, and you save yourself in her contact Jacksonville cute guy from mall or whatever... (like me i saved as Felipe (my fake name) aka Latin diesel..
step 4.- text yourself her name (or sometimes i troll and put "who is that good looking guy you are talking to?) as will say if not your personality don't do that... just text Jackson or jacson form mall

^ 100% success rate, never had a girl denie me her number... (that i remember) look at my post:

Calls & Texts - Best way to get a phone number and Ice breaker first texts....

Ok guys, so i have been helping a lot of the guys, by me doing so i get to see what they do wrong and if the things that work for me consistently work for them, so after enough sampling I see were the problem are and how to improve odds which is the name of the game.... So most normal dudes...

www.skilledseducer.com

sorry my bad, it was someone else who wrote about the investment close - https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...-guide-to-investment-and-qualification.22853/

I will try your number close.

Do you say something like “We should hang out sometime” before you go for the number close?
Or do you just say "Let me give you my number" at a high point or something

 

[Skills]

sorry my bad, it was someone else who wrote about the investment close - https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...-guide-to-investment-and-qualification.22853/

I will try your number close.

Do you say something like “We should hang out sometime” before you go for the number close?
Or do you just say "Let me give you my number" at a high point or something

the only qualifiers i do are "what are the 2 best qualities that have nothing to do with your appearance?" that is from style and i use 'how happy are you in your life from 1 to 10?? but as you can see that is not what ys is doing, he is making her qualify on you (i think this can be a bit difficult on a quick meet) but that is his way of making her invest (no my style)


i don't see we should hang out sometimes, i get a bit of intelligence first and then i say we should do _________ after gathering intelligence, let me give an example:

-do you like dancing???

- do you like animals?? cause of my dog..

some day gamers i know qualify like:

do you l like bobba/tea/coffee/margaritas?

do you like tacos?

and when they say yes,

we should go dancing sometimes or grab coffee sometime get to know each other, I got a warn you i am extremely charming, you may fall madly in love with me (i do a lot of future projection stuff)

i want you to meet my dog you would love him

i know this amazing taco place...

I read that post, i don't know about that style, none of day gamers i know do that in the present, but you can field test what he saying see if it works for you.... But that is not mine...That poster has not been active in while by the way he just came back from hiatus..

 

[Jacksonville01]

the only qualifiers i do are "what are the 2 best qualities that have nothing to do with your appearance?" that is from style and i use 'how happy are you in your life from 1 to 10?? but as you can see that is not what ys is doing, he is making her qualify on you (i think this can be a bit difficult on a quick meet) but that is his way of making her invest (no my style)


i don't see we should hang out sometimes, i get a bit of intelligence first and then i say we should do _________ after gathering intelligence, let me give an example:

-do you like dancing???

- do you like animals?? cause of my dog..

some day gamers i know qualify like:

do you l like bobba/tea/coffee/margaritas?

do you like tacos?

and when they say yes,

we should go dancing sometimes or grab coffee sometime get to know each other, I got a warn you i am extremely charming, you may fall madly in love with me (i do a lot of future projection stuff)

i want you to meet my dog you would love him

i know this amazing taco place...

I read that post, i don't know about that style, none of day gamers i know do that in the present, but you can field test what he saying see if it works for you.... But that is not mine...That poster has not been active in while by the way he just came back from hiatus..

ok thx for clarifying

 

[Jacksonville01]

Summary

Sunday 18th May

I went out yesterday for a day game session, did about 10 approaches, nothing significant really happened. I will only be writing about daygame sessions where something noteworthy happens in future.

I went out today for a day game session , was a good session, ended up with 2 number closes.
I'm an introvert so social interactions drain me, noticed towards the end of session talking with a girl i was losing focus.

I'm saying the Rainbow Ruse consistently now and at a good pace and flirty tone now that I've gotten used to saying it

During the session a girl I approached rejected me in a rude way which kinda of got to me for a good 5-10mins. Was eventually able to laugh it off and after got 2 number closes in a row not far from eachother.

I'm still smiling more than I'd like to so will keep working on that


My opening sequence atm is:

Stationary girls
"You Remind Me" opener → Rainbow Ruse

"You know you kind of remind me of someone…”
“This [Say a nationality she looks like] girl I used to date…
You have that same…(insert Rainbow Ruse)

Street Stops/moving girls
Genuine Compliment → "You Remind Me" opener → Rainbow Ruse

“You have this cute kind of [girl next door / goth / posh etc] look to you… [Specific detail]..."
"You remind me of this [Say a nationality she looks like] girl I used to date…"
"You have that same…(insert Rainbow Ruse)"


Rainbow Ruse

Troublemaker
“...troublemaker look—like I can definitely see you getting into trouble on the regular."
"But at the same time I get the feeling there might be a tiny little bit of a sweeter side to you that could easily be missed."

Innocent
“…sweet and innocent look—which I'm not sure whether to believe or not…"
Like, I can definitely see there being more of a troublemaker side to you.”


Statement of Teaching

Use when she tries to challenge your frame with the You Remind Me of an Ex opener:

– She gives resistance like “Ok and…?”, “I’m not your ex”, “I’m not Spanish” etc.
"You know how sometimes you see someone and they give off this weird sense of familiarity. You had that energy, which kind of made me wanna say hi."


Approach Stats

Total Approaches: Around 15
Numbers: 2


Interactions

English girl and her friend
I was riding my bike in the park and saw two girls about to cross the bike path. I stopped to let them pass. I opened one of the girls with a compliment and followed up with, "You remind me of this Spanish girl I used to date…" She clarified that she’s fully English, and we talked about that briefly.

She said she was about to visit a restaurant with her friend. I involved her friend in the interaction mainly through eye contact rather than verbally, but she seemed smiley and didn’t seem to mind me talking to her friend.

As they were about to go, I asked for her number, and she happily said yes — which I didn’t expect, since the interaction was short, less than a few minutes. We exchanged names, numbers, and a handclasp, then said goodbye. Not sure how old she is, but I’d say about 19.


18 year old Taiwan girl
Saw her sitting on a bench in the park. I opened with, "You know, you kind of reminded me of someone as I was walking by…” There was a bit of a language barrier, which I found challenging — I had to keep repeating myself so she’d understand, and had to use basic English. That made it harder to bring a flirty vibe.

We chatted for about 5–10 minutes. I usually have my bicycle with me, so I don’t have to worry about the sitting vs. standing dynamic — I just chill on my bike in a way that locks me in.

We talked about how she’s a tourist in London for a few days, the places she’s visited, studying, etc. It wasn’t intentional, but I ended up seeding a good park she could visit earlier in the convo. I then asked if she’d like to hang out there sometime.

Doing Skills' number close came to mind, but I don’t know my number from memory yet — I’ll have to learn it so I can try it. We exchanged numbers, did a handclasp, and said goodbye.

 

[Skills]

Summary

Sunday 18th May

I went out yesterday for a day game session, did about 10 approaches, nothing significant really happened. I will only be writing about daygame sessions where something noteworthy happens in future.

I went out today for a day game session , was a good session, ended up with 2 number closes.
I'm an introvert so social interactions drain me, noticed towards the end of session talking with a girl i was losing focus.

I'm saying the Rainbow Ruse consistently now and at a good pace and flirty tone now that I've gotten used to saying it

During the session a girl I approached rejected me in a rude way which kinda of got to me for a good 5-10mins. Was eventually able to laugh it off and after got 2 number closes in a row not far from eachother.

I'm still smiling more than I'd like to so will keep working on that


My opening sequence atm is:

You Remind Me of an Ex

Stationary girls
"You Remind Me" opener → Rainbow Ruse

"You know you kind of remind me of someone…”
“This [Say a nationality she looks like] girl I used to date…
You have that same…(insert Rainbow Ruse)

Street Stops/moving girls
Genuine Compliment → "You Remind Me" opener → Rainbow Ruse

“You have this cute kind of [girl next door / goth / posh etc] look to you… [Specific detail]..."
"You remind me of this [Say a nationality she looks like] girl I used to date…"
"You have that same…(insert Rainbow Ruse)"


Rainbow Ruse

Troublemaker
“...troublemaker look—like I can definitely see you getting into trouble on the regular."
"But at the same time I get the feeling there might be a tiny little bit of a sweeter side to you that could easily be missed."

Innocence
“…sweet and innocent look—which I'm not sure whether to believe or not…"
Like, I can definitely see there being more of a troublemaker side to you.”


Statement of Teaching

Use when she tries to challenge your frame with the You Remind Me of an Ex opener:

– She gives resistance like “Ok and…?”, “I’m not your ex”, “I’m not Spanish” etc.
"You know how sometimes you see someone and they give off this weird sense of familiarity. You had that energy, which kind of made me wanna say hi."


Approach Stats

Total Approaches: Around 15
Numbers: 2


Interactions

English girl and her friend
I was riding my bike in the park and saw two girls about to cross the bike path. I stopped to let them pass. I opened one of the girls with a compliment and followed up with, "You remind me of this Spanish girl I used to date…" She clarified that she’s fully English, and we talked about that briefly.

She said she was about to visit a restaurant with her friend. I involved her friend in the interaction mainly through eye contact rather than verbally, but she seemed smiley and didn’t seem to mind me talking to her friend.

As they were about to go, I asked for her number, and she happily said yes — which I didn’t expect, since the interaction was short, less than a few minutes. We exchanged names, numbers, and a handclasp, then said goodbye. Not sure how old she is, but I’d say about 19.


18 year old Taiwan girl
Saw her sitting on a bench in the park. I opened with, "You know, you kind of reminded me of someone as I was walking by…” There was a bit of a language barrier, which I found challenging — I had to keep repeating myself so she’d understand, and had to use basic English. That made it harder to bring a flirty vibe.

We chatted for about 5–10 minutes. I usually have my bicycle with me, so I don’t have to worry about the sitting vs. standing dynamic — I just chill on my bike in a way that locks me in.

We talked about how she’s a tourist in London for a few days, the places she’s visited, studying, etc. It wasn’t intentional, but I ended up seeding a good park she could visit earlier in the convo. I then asked if she’d like to hang out there sometime.

Doing Skills' number close came to mind, but I don’t know my number from memory yet — I’ll have to learn it so I can try it. We exchanged numbers, did a handclasp, and said goodbye.

I don't understand what are you talking about.... Learning your number?? I don't understand, do you mean cause out of country context... If so yes happened to me in that case you will not be able to do my number close... You need to do WhatsApp... Just lol happened to me with a girl from England as well i was soo pissed... Sorry forgot to tell you with out of country Whatsapp

 

[Jacksonville01]

I don't understand what are you talking about.... Learning your number?? I don't understand, do you mean cause out of country context... If so yes happened to me in that case you will not be able to do my number close... You need to do WhatsApp... Just lol happened to me with a girl from England as well i was soo pissed... Sorry forgot to tell you with out of country Whatsapp

I meant I don’t know my number by heart yet without checking my phone, but yeah, I guess I could’ve just looked it up — would’ve only added like 10 seconds lol

 

[Skills]

I meant I don’t know my number by heart yet without checking my phone, but yeah, I guess I could’ve just looked it up — would’ve only added like 10 seconds lol

Brah! i see what you are saying you can not call your number from her phone cause you don't know your number..... This is next level of autism(i am trolling)...

but damm

 

[Jacksonville01]

Brah! i see what you are saying you can not call your number from her phone cause you don't know your number..... This is next level of autism(i am trolling)...

but damm

Brand new number I got for doing day game, I was using my personal number before

 

[Jacksonville01]

Haven't been doing much daygaming over past few days due to shit whether.

Thought I'd post a kino / compliance gambit I intend to try out in future


Milking the Introduction + The Ring Finger Pattern Gambit

After introductions:
(Light handclasp — don’t let go too fast)
“You have really soft hands…”
(Tease)“You must be really good at… making sandwiches”

Emotional + Personal Hook:
“I don't know why but there's something about a woman's hands that I can't help but admire.”
(Say it softly — as if you're noticing it in real time)
“It’s funny though… when I was younger, I used to hate when my mum or nan held my hand.”
“Afterwards, I’d lick my hands like a cat to try and clean them.”

Finger Kino Setup:
“Actually—hold out these three fingers for a sec…”
“I know what you're thinking but it's nothing naughty”
(Gently line up her index, middle, and ring finger using your finger)

Intrigue / Investment Spike:
“Mmm… interesting.”
(Glance at her fingers like you’ve just discovered something)

The Ring Finger Pattern:
Longer Ring Finger (More Testosterone):
Flirtatious
Mischievous
Adventurous

Longer Index Finger (More Estrogen):
Feminine
Innocent
Caring

Pick the finger trait set that’s opposite to the Rainbow Ruse you gave her to use as a tease.