If women like sex

[Thelatebloomer]

Keep in mind the topic of this guys last thread and what he's just said here. Obvious troll...

Sometimes I have questions, I search can't find so I make a thread to ask

 

[Teevster]

The thread is about getting laid... again I have gotten laid I am sure you have out of compliance

I interpreted the thread differently... about asking whether women liked sex or not. But I can totally see how you interpreted it differently.

However I see no reasons for you to keep arguing that one can get laid out of compliance, since I have already admitted that I agreed. Heck I even mentioned some of those compliance triggering reasons in my post on sexual prizing:

Women have different agendas when they want to have sex with a guy. There is always a reason for why she has sex.

The most common reasons are the following:
* Gaining social value
* Materialistic values
* Solving physiological needs (having sex out of pure horniness)
* Social controle.
* Revenge
* Out of deep and strong emotions she has with a man
* Attention (the freak anyone??)
* ETC...

And if you forgot, I even dedicated an entire post to this subject.

Arguing with people who agree with you is counterproductive.

That said, when it comes to the question of whether women like sex or not, compliance itself is not inherently linked to love of sex. A prostitute does not necessarily enjoy fucking her customers (she may though, but very unlikely).
- Compliance is there (remuneration is a compliance trigger)
- But "love for sex" is not necessarily there
=> hence love for sex is not inherently linked to compliance...

Best,
Teevster

 

[Teevster]

Sometimes I have questions, I search can't find so I make a thread to ask

Try this.

 

[ulrich]

Please can you explain this? What can I do as an average guy in all facets do to get this? I don't want no supermodel chicks, just a normal looking one, don't even really care if she's fat. Just not too old

Lower you standards.

I’m pretty sure that’s the answer you need. Not sure if that is the answer you want.

 

[Skills]

I interpreted the thread differently... about asking whether women liked sex or not. But I can totally see how you interpreted it differently.

However I see no reasons for you to keep arguing that one can get laid out of compliance, since I have already admitted that I agreed. Heck I even mentioned some of those compliance triggering reasons in my post on sexual prizing:



And if you forgot, I even dedicated an entire post to this subject.

Arguing with people who agree with you is counterproductive.

That said, when it comes to the question of whether women like sex or not, compliance itself is not inherently linked to love of sex. A prostitute does not necessarily enjoy fucking her customers (she may though, but very unlikely).
- Compliance is there (remuneration is a compliance trigger)
- But "love for sex" is not necessarily there
=> hence love for sex is not inherently linked to compliance...

Best,
Teevster

Bro I was not arguing... I was explaining that women don't necessarily to be on a horny state to get laid, we don't even have to be on a horny state to get laid. He asked if women like sex why is hard to the Average man to get sex...you answer with your tech were you get them horny to have sex, I was just adding since I get laid at times without achieving horny state from women with none prostitute.. remember we are in agreement with guys from mm for example getting laid left and right without achieving a sexual horny state. Again I am not arguing I just want to bring an observation

 

[Skills]

Keep in mind the topic of this guys last thread and what he's just said here. Obvious troll...

Yes I know he is a troll

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

You know, something I realized this year (and I wonder how it took me so long to understand this is)... we're not the ones setting a sexual frame on the interaction. The girl is! She's doing this by dressing sexy and putting on makeup. Now I see a girl with fake fingernails or a short skirt or a bunch of eyeshade and I get happy. "Oh! She's in heat! She's in mating mode and trying to attract a sexual partner."

Framing is nice... but SHE is really the one who's putting sexuality out there, by dressing all sexy and making herself PHYSICALLY attractive to men with her hair, lipstick, high heels, feminine dresses and so forth. All we have to do is show her that we can match it... that we're not the platonic guy (who is beta, because he doesn't understand that women are sexual... due to whore/madonna complex).

A year ago I had a good female friend who was about 65 and even there... she started to get jealous when I said other girls are hot... she started calling me "babe" and then acted like she always does this to all guys. Obviously I don't go for that age group... but my friendship with her was still different from a friendship with another man. There is a male/female dynamic there simply because we're a male and a female.

Every time you talk to any woman YOU ARE INSIDE A SEXUAL FRAME ALREADY. Your job isn't setting a sexual frame. Your job is to avoid ruining the sexual frame that SHE put out there (the way you ruin it is 1. by getting intimidated by her sexuality, 2. by talking about anything leading to LTR, or worse 3. by making the interaction platonic).

This is the reason why I now think it should theoretically be possible to get every single last girl you talk to that's available (i.e. unless very committed or very religious or wildcard). THEY are putting it out there. THEY are inviting us. So to answer the original question of the OP:

If women like sex, why is it so hard for the average man to get laid?

It's the 3 points I marked blue in my post.


-Karea.

 

[kestwanye77]

It astounds me on how many people are wrong answering this simple question.

Let me answer.

Women do indeed love sex.

The reason its so hard for the average men to get laid is a multitude of reasons. But im guessing you want the main ones.

Reason Number 1.
Women are buyers. So they are essentially making sure thet are making the right purchase. In the dating game men are the sellers and women the buyers. Its like shopping for a car. If you have awful salesman skills you will struggle to find any buyers(i.e.women that want to have sex with you). Because they are the ones investing the most to sex. They want to insure that the guy is great in bed, wont pump and dump, values her sexually, and has a great personality as a bonus. She navigates this way so she can get more bang for her buck. No pun intended.

2. Reason number 2. They have far more options than men. Lets say I told you that I can get you any restaurant job with a radius of 30 square miles in your area. Would you settle for McDonald's or Burger King? You wouldnt if you knew you had better guranteed options lined up like Chik Fil A or Shogun. Even when it comes to less attractive options they have far more options sexually than you. So they can shoot above their weight class wjen it comes to sex

3. Reason number 3. They don't want to have lots of casual sex if their is word that it can get out. A woman's job is to make herself look pure and non promiscuous for the guy she wants to date. So they only really want to have sex with guys that are exceptional because they will likely keep it secret and they have value.

I think some commenters made this issue to overly complicated

 

[kestwanye77]

Go to a nightclub with your average guy friends, and watch them try to pick up hot babes. They almost always get blown off immediately. And if they don't, the girls will ask for free drinks which they happily buy her, hoping she will give him a chance. Never saw it happen. The club is full of average girls as well, and some of them are open to meet a guy similar to themselves. But the average guys usually don't notice these girls or make fun of them.

I feel like every time I hear average guys crying about how hard it is to get laid, it's usually because they try to sleep with a girl from a completely different reality. "Yeah she's hot of course I'm trying" cool cool but you don't even know how to talk to a girl like her, or girls AT ALL.

We all want the best, but few want to do the work to be among the best

This is probably the most boneheaded reply I read yet. Most guys try to bat at their own lead and still fail.