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Ye money has nothing to do with it
Question for you though. You say you are fucking a lot of these girls. But girls you are fucking consistently are you ever doing non sexual things with them?
Like going to see a movie together, hanging out in the park, going out to do something fun
Or are all your interactions just texting them to come straight to the crib to fuck?
For a lot of girls if you seem like a player and you show no signs of being open to more than just a booty call, a lot of women won't press too hard and keep you in the fun box
They are also more likely to fall off because you sub communicating it's a purely casual relationship
If you really want a girl to start viewing you as a BF it works better if you do non sexual things with them
To be practical let me give you an example
If have an FB and want to keep her there, I don't offer much non sexual attention at all
I will usually do the following to set the right expectation
- Never text to just banter or catch up
- Only text to setup logistics
- Bang every time I see her
- Don't let her stay over
- Deny some of her requests to see me because "I'm busy"
- Never go out in public
- Never talk about the relationship
- Never future project about us ever being together
- Decline all her attempts at emotional progression
I do that because if I only want sex I need to show that through my behavior. Women ain't dumb and they can read between the lines
But if I do want things to progress emotionally with a girl I will do things a lil differently
- Text every once in while just to flirt or catch up
- Bang every time I see her
- Sometimes do something outside with her to create memories, before or after we bang
- If she texts me will be more open to setting up meets
- If I am busy will give her an alternative time to show I'm still interested
- Not deny her attempts of closeness as often
- Allow her to talk about the relationship and fantasize about us being together
When running rotations it's not only about sex. You also have to manage your girls emotions and I notice that guys that have issues in rotations struggle with this the most
Many guys fail because they don’t consciously align their communication to what they actually want from each girl
They just go by "feel" and then worry about the inevitable drama they get because of misalinged expectations
A big part of being a good leader is being intentional of the expectations you set through your behaviors not how you feel
Because people can not read your mind, they can only respond to how you behave
Question for you though. You say you are fucking a lot of these girls. But girls you are fucking consistently are you ever doing non sexual things with them?
Like going to see a movie together, hanging out in the park, going out to do something fun
Or are all your interactions just texting them to come straight to the crib to fuck?
For a lot of girls if you seem like a player and you show no signs of being open to more than just a booty call, a lot of women won't press too hard and keep you in the fun box
They are also more likely to fall off because you sub communicating it's a purely casual relationship
If you really want a girl to start viewing you as a BF it works better if you do non sexual things with them
To be practical let me give you an example
If have an FB and want to keep her there, I don't offer much non sexual attention at all
I will usually do the following to set the right expectation
- Never text to just banter or catch up
- Only text to setup logistics
- Bang every time I see her
- Don't let her stay over
- Deny some of her requests to see me because "I'm busy"
- Never go out in public
- Never talk about the relationship
- Never future project about us ever being together
- Decline all her attempts at emotional progression
I do that because if I only want sex I need to show that through my behavior. Women ain't dumb and they can read between the lines
But if I do want things to progress emotionally with a girl I will do things a lil differently
- Text every once in while just to flirt or catch up
- Bang every time I see her
- Sometimes do something outside with her to create memories, before or after we bang
- If she texts me will be more open to setting up meets
- If I am busy will give her an alternative time to show I'm still interested
- Not deny her attempts of closeness as often
- Allow her to talk about the relationship and fantasize about us being together
When running rotations it's not only about sex. You also have to manage your girls emotions and I notice that guys that have issues in rotations struggle with this the most
Many guys fail because they don’t consciously align their communication to what they actually want from each girl
They just go by "feel" and then worry about the inevitable drama they get because of misalinged expectations
A big part of being a good leader is being intentional of the expectations you set through your behaviors not how you feel
Because people can not read your mind, they can only respond to how you behave
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