Movie recommendations for comfort/connection building through "vibe transferance" and Seduction archetypes

[PaulieFlyn10]

Hey guys, so I've read countless seducers attribute their vibe/style/archetype to watching movies or tv shows.

Some even recommend watching a few scenes before going out. There's a lot of science to back up how watching stuffs like this helps to transfer vibe and energy to you. @Karea Ricardus D. had a movie Seduction article series and @Hector Papi Castillo had a youtube series breaking down movie characters.

I absolutely LOVE both. And i wish more of those are done. I've noticed my game is way smoother when i watch a bit of Hank moody and Harvey specter before stepping out.

So I'm wondering if you have any scene, movie, tv shows etc that shows great comfort and connection building (a big of sticking point of mine)

Other general Seduction scenes or movies are also welcome thanks

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

Blood Diamond comes to mind, where Leo DiCaprio tells the story of his family. Swingers, the scene where trent tells the story about his audition for the role of "brother". Roger Dodger is probably my personal favorite because it delineates the distinction between sexual framing game (Roger) vs. provider / LTR type game (Nick) - both work. The billionaire in Indecent Proposal has pretty good comfort game too.

What helped my comfort game the most was listening to a radio show where people call in to talk about serious life problems like an illness, death of a spouse, strange sexual fetishes, etc. I learned a lot from the way he listened to the callers without any judgment and made them feel understood. Unfortunately that show wasn't in English but if you can find that kind of show it might be useful.

 

[PaulieFlyn10]

Blood Diamond comes to mind, where Leo DiCaprio tells the story of his family. Swingers, the scene where trent tells the story about his audition for the role of "brother". Roger Dodger is probably my personal favorite because it delineates the distinction between sexual framing game (Roger) vs. provider / LTR type game (Nick) - both work. The billionaire in Indecent Proposal has pretty good comfort game too.

What helped my comfort game the most was listening to a radio show where people call in to talk about serious life problems like an illness, death of a spouse, strange sexual fetishes, etc. I learned a lot from the way he listened to the callers without any judgment and made them feel understood. Unfortunately that show wasn't in English but if you can find that kind of show it might be useful.

Thanks a lot. I'll check these out

 

[FunGuy]

The character you are trying to emulate should depend on what you are trying to improve on. Is it your non-verbals, your verbals, your style, or all of the above?

I know that Cajun modeled his mannerisms from Robert Downey's interpretation of Tony Stark. Stark has very good charisma, non-verbals, strong frame and is very witty. That would be a good character to study because he checks a lot of boxes and that character is in a lot of movies so you get a large sample size.

Tom Hardy also tends to play a lot of suave and alpha type characters. I watched Inception recently and his mannerisms there were top notch, he came across as super confident with the right balance of playfulness, wit and overall likeability. That was the role that made Tom Hardy super famous.

 

[PaulieFlyn10]

The character you are trying to emulate should depend on what you are trying to improve on. Is it your non-verbals, your verbals, your style, or all of the above?

I know that Cajun modeled his mannerisms from Robert Downey's interpretation of Tony Stark. Stark has very good charisma, non-verbals, strong frame and is very witty. That would be a good character to study because he checks a lot of boxes and that character is in a lot of movies so you get a large sample size.

Tom Hardy also tends to play a lot of suave and alpha type characters. I watched Inception recently and his mannerisms there were top notch, he came across as super confident with the right balance of playfulness, wit and overall likeability. That was the role that made Tom Hardy super famous.

Thanks. It's more of my verbals & non -verbals

Like the recommendations. I've always been a fan of Tony stark