Not connecting with girls. How can I craft an interesting story about myself if my life has been boring so far?

[Spike]

Nobody cares. Don't talk about your Ex or girls you've dated.

I don’t agree with this. Getting her to talk about her exs (which they usually return the question back to me).

It’s one of the primary topics I use to get her to see that I can fulfill the unmet needs her ex failed to provide.

=> possessive/insecure/needy/boring/couldn't make me cum

*He didn’t let me go anywhere with my friends/doesn't trust me
*he always be blowing up my phone
*he doesn’t do anything except sit at home and play video games
*he lasted 1 round for 5 minutes and that was it/He didn’t talk during sex.

Show her I see that behavior (whichever one she talks about)as strange. Say why it’s strange. Which she’ll agree with. And allow her defenses to go down. Because she realizes I’m somebody who gets it. And therefore can be vulnerable with.

And then when she returns the question to me about why it didn’t work out with my ex.

I can provide a list of things I don’t want her to do.

Wanting to see me everyday (which girls that like a lot of alone time appreciate (commonality))

Being too vanilla (“your not vanilla are you?”) let her provide evidence of this via stories. I can then share some of mine to further sexually arouse her. Because it’s relevant to the topic (which I created) we’re on.

which makes her feel likes she’s passed my qualifications and earned the right to go home with me.

 

[Spike]

its hard to pull as theres not really any cool venues near my spot and I also live with my folks

Yeah getting my own place did wonders for my sex life. I lived with my parents until I was 30. And there was no privacy.

Which meant having to go to their place. Bring them to my friends place, bathroom club sex, outside sex, hotel sex etc. all super inconvenient. Cool stories tho. And obviously can still be done if you don’t have your own place. But it’s so much simpler and relieving now knowing that i can just take a 5 minute Uber from bar/restaurant to my place and bang. And not stress about where the hell am I going to bang this girl? Especially since my demographic either lives with their parents or shares a dorm room with her friends.

 

[Skills]

you mean the 3 bounce thing? I want to do that but I live in the suburbs and so does she. sf is like an hour away. Everything is logistically inconvenient for me and every girl wants me to go close to her area, if I ask for them to come to my area they ghost or flake. I am always having to drive to the girl 20-40 min away on the dates and try to scout areas beforehand that im not familiar with its fucking aids. its hard to pull as theres not really any cool venues near my spot and I also live with my folks

are you saying, you have no beach area (beach areas have venues) or downtown areas... or malls??

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[KJ Francis]

Absolute classic

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The guy who leads her on this sort of adventure will not be boring.