Number closing/setting up date during college daygame

[barneystin]

Outside of college, my closing sequence for getting the number and setting up dates is something like:

Me: “You seem pretty cool, we should get a drink some time”

Her: “That sounds good!”

Me: “Cool, let me get your number so we can plan it out”

In college, i feel like i can’t use the same sequence because not a lot of people go on “dates”. All my college lays have been through night game or random convenient situations that are hard to recreate intentionally.

I can always get the number/social media but it never goes anywhere. I realize flaking happens in day game but i literally had a higher solid number rate in a big city where I was doing street stops.


I’m just curious how other college day gamers on here close/set up dates

 

[TwoNameGame]

I’m just curious how other college day gamers on here close/set up dates

I find out if they like coffee or smoothies, then mention the coffee or smoothie place on campus. After more qualifying and compliance, I ask if they are single, ask them to coffee/smoothies, check logistics, and go for the number.

I then text per Chase's guide and Skills's guide.

I banter a bit before soft closing, then ask them to said coffee/smoothie. There, I try to flirt, deep dive, and escalate. I never call it a date.

Spoiler: Example

(Near the end of the conversation)
Me: I'm on my way to class, but I was on my way to get a coffee.
Her: The coffee here is good, but I have class in 5 minutes.
Me: You talk about your class like you're passionate about a career helping people.
Her: I am! It's not just the money.
Me: I respect that. You know, you do have a cool personality. Are you single?
Her: Ha, yes.
Me: We should continue talking over a cup of coffee leter this week or early next week.
Her: I have exams throughout this week, so it has to be next week.
Me: Why don't we swap numbers to sort this out?
Her: Ok! [Pulls out phone]

Later
Me: what's your schedule look like next week?
Her: I'm free Tuesday at noon and Thursday at noon.
Me: tuesday at noon is perfect. we'll meet up at the library and get a coffee
Her: OK!

 

[Ratata]

Caveat: I'm not in college anymore lol. But I've been doing it like that for most of the time, and it works well enough.

Recently, though, I've been watching streams from this woman called MyNonLeatherLife on YouTube, and she suggested this pattern. If the convo is good, and there is some sexual tension, stop the girl in her tracks, and ask her, "Hey, this might sound strange, but... Would you like meet me later?" I've since tried it in practise, and ... man, the line works like a charm. At least if you can already feel some sexual tension or attraction going on.

Also, it forgoes one important thing. You aren't asking for her details. Bcos, wtf do you want her details for anyway? Details are useless if you don't already have an intent to see each other again - that is mutual. So, for that reason I never ask for phone numbers, Fb or Instagram details, bcos why would I? If there's no intent in seeing her, then what do I need it for? I'm not a big chit-chatter, so it would never lead to anything anyway. Thus, instead I always ask if she wants to see me, and only then do we exchange deets - because then the deets have a purpose, i.e. that we both want to see each other again.

Hope this helps.

Caveat: I ofc share deets with casual acquaintances. Business contacts, peeps I go to classes with as a matter of course. I'm not talking about that here. In this post I'm talking specifically about setting up dates, and how sharing deets with some random girl is pointless unless you already have an intent to see each other again. An additional layer to this - btw - is that often you don't need deets if you meet her in clubs or if you're already so hot that she wants to come home with you immediately. In that case, why would you ask for deets when it only delays the delicious part?