Ok so I am doing something wrong

[TomInHo]

Do that first and see

Also give her time to cool off and wait at least 2-3 days of radio silence from your first message before you send that ping

 

[Dragonetti]

Do that first and see

Also give her time to cool off and wait at least 2-3 days of radio silence from your first message before you send that ping

Ok. I waited 4 days and sent the "morning" ping. No reply yet 5 hrs later. What's my move in the likely case of no response

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

Time to debrief, no? Nothing to lose anymore

 

[topcat]

Ok. I waited 4 days and sent the "morning" ping. No reply yet 5 hrs later. What's my move in the likely case of no response

she’s not interested

 

[TomInHo]

Ok. I waited 4 days and sent the "morning" ping. No reply yet 5 hrs later. What's my move in the likely case of no response

Best to move on at this point

 

[Derek da man]

Maybe my apartment was gross? i think it might have smelled a bit and the bathroom hasn't been cleaned in ages. Litterbox needed attention... Maybe this came off as "wow if he can't take care of himself he can't take care of me?" It didn't seem to bother her tho. Also, another recent girl said my apartment cleanliness looks about: "looks like a single man and his cat lives here" and said it was 4/10 grossness. Another girl said 7/10.

I think I had condoms out on the dresser by accident tho... maybe this gave a bad impression that I'm a slut. (I was rifling through my drawer in the dark to find lube for her and took those out with the lube)

I agree with everything other guys have suggested. You said this has happens repeatedly, if you want to know if it's due to the state of your apartment then try cleaning up or at least having a tidy and use dome air freshener before going out, or, does the same thing happen if you take her back to hers? Not always possible I know but I'm just asking.

 

[Nook]

I have been experiencing a pattern:

1. I meet a girl from a dating app
2. we have a great date. She enthusiastically discusses plans for the second date and in fact insists on it.
3. I take her home. She cuddles me closely.
4. We have intense sex, she cums a lot, and she lets me cum in her unprotected. Often she spends the ngiht
5. No second date. Either a ghosted or "hey we want different things" text

Could it be that my apartment is messy/gross? Am I giving too much of a fuckboy vibe? This has happened like... four times in a month and i really need to figure it out. I don't like one night stands, I just want a gf.

Not going to harp on the points already mentioned here, but if you really do want a GF one day, I'm sure she would appreciate it if you didn't give her herpes and "baby mama drama". So please, start wearing protection while closing your dates bro.