Picturing Sex With The Girl You're Talking To

[James D]

Hector mentioned it in one of his Q&A lives on YouTube.

Basically, he advises imaging yourself sexually engaging with the girl you're talking to.

I've been trying it and it's interesting how the vibe gets sexual pretty instantly.

 

[Will_V]

I don't imagine myself having sex with her (not sure if that's what you're saying) but I do imagine kissing her lips/neck, putting my hands up in her hair, etc, things that I could do then and there but would obviously be uncalibrated to actually do. But it very much arouses me during an approach and she gets the vibe too.

Something I like to do is let my eyes drift to her hair or neck and immerse myself in imagining something like that and let my face reflect it, for a second or two, and then look back at her straight in the eyes with a smile as if she caught me doing something I'm not actually sorry about. When my vibe is on point it works a treat.

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

+1, that shit works like fucking magic, when your vibe is dialed in... when it's not (not warmed up etc.) I don't bother but when I'm feeling the buzz I transfer it that way. State can be transferred to her (that's in my X-Factor series too... make yourself feel sexual and then transfer the emotion to her - make her feel it)

 

[DonGately]

Yep, if you're both feeling that state it works amazingly well.

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

Yep, if you're both feeling that state it works amazingly well.

You can MAKE her feel it. Create the state in yourself, then transfer it to her.

 

[DonGately]

Yes, that was implied but not stated.

 

[WalkWithMe]

Totally works! Had this French colleague married milf sitting opposite of me at a business dinner and while talking to her, I was looking her in the eyes and imagining my mouth all over her. Ended up having sex with her that evening and afterwards she told me it was something in the way I looked at her that made her feel attraction.