Another intraday update guys.
I'm on fire.
4 more approaches.
4 more approaches.
I'm so happy too because there's been a paradigm shift. It's not longer a big deal to me. I just come up as the cool laid back guy and see if girls bite. If they do great! If not, whatever.
Approach #1
I had gotten to get some food on campus and was looking for a place to sit. Out of the corner of my eye I spot this cute brunnete with glasses (something I really like on chicks). I sit on the table adjacent to her and prepare my meal. After a minute or two I open her.
Me: Quite the meal. (She only had a muffin and a bottle of milk lol)
Her: Oh yeah I'm not that hungry and it's Lent.
Me: No worries, I'm just joking around. I'm Protean.
Her: I'm [Name]
I start asking her what she's up to and when she hooks I invite her to come sit with me which she readily agrees to. This girl is into a lot. She's studying premed, in marching bad, and is getting a history minor. After some banter and conversation I let the conversation die down for a sec. She mentions having to leave and I ask if she's single. She is and I get the number. I was very laid back and chill throughout. I'm finding this lower energy style of game to be very fun and easy for me to pull of congruently.
Approach #2
As I leave the main foot court on campus I spot this cute black haired chick walking by. A Latina. Firm ass. I start heading over.
She enters the building I just left so I go back in. She's texting but whatever. I open her
Me: Hey. (Pause for her to look up and notice me) I saw you walking there and had to come say I love your top. The pattern, the color. You pull it off well.
Her: Thanks!
Me: I'm Protean.
Her: [Name]
I walk with her and ask her what she's up to. She says she's looking for the second floor of the building we're on for a conference. Like the cheeky bastard I am I say all she has to do is find an elevator or some stairs and she's set (said it a pretty matter-of-fact and sarcastic tone). She laughs and agrees. I deep dive her on her major and why she's going into the field for a couple minutes until she finds the elevator. She shakes my hand saying it was nice meeting me but I clasp it (gently lol) and ask if she's single. She get a huge grin and says she isn't so Iet her go. Can't win 'em all.
Approach #3
I approach this cute Asian chick (another weakness of mine) and tell her I really like her top. She's in a hurry though and I kinda have to work to get her attention. We go back and forth once and she reveals she's late for a class. I just let her go at that point. Maybe I could've convinced her to stay and talk but it didn't feel right.
Approach #4
At this point, I'm warmed up. I'm
heated. I felt like I could continue to approach all day but I did have some stuff to finish up. I walk into the main library on campus and of course, I see this
really cute chick sitting on one of the couches in the main entry way. I'm really liking the look of this gal. Slim but not too skinny (really skinny petite girls are a NOT my type at all), pretty face, a cute pair of eyeglasses. I thought about walking on, but then I was like fuck that. I'm playing to win now. So I head over.
I sit on the couch just behind where she's sitting (they are two person couches so I'm behind her on the opposite side). My brain quickly thinks up of a smooth way to open. One thing I've found to be effective is to ask for some investment from some girls before seriously approaching. Normally what I do is ask for them to watch my stuff while I run to the bathroom. Just after getting their attention I begin my request "notice" their appearance, then compliment them, before continuing.
In this instance the bathroom was a stone throw away and it didn't feel right to use that excuse so I made up something about forgetting something at the food court (which is a short walk away.) Another thing I did was ask some guy in a chair next to me if he could watch my stuff first. For some reason, I just
knew this cat was getting ready to leave and wouldn't be able to do so. This made it even more natural for me to turn around to my target and ask.
Me: Hey can you do me a fa- Wow I really like your glasses.
Her: Oh Thanks!
Me: Anyways, I forgot something at the food court, you mind watching my stuff for a second?
Her: Sure thing!
So I head over and walk into the food court. I stand for a second. Take my wallet out of my pocket and walk back with it in hand. When I return I thank her and ask her what she's working on.
The conversation was great guys. She hooks immediately and soon we're bantering back and forth. I find out her major, make some cold reads, tease her about watching shows related to her major. Have her guess what I study. Deep dive her about some of her other interests. I don't know what to say guys I was pretty much super warm socially and the right things to say just popped into my mind and I said them.
After about 10 minutes or so I say I should get back to work, but that I really enjoyed our conversation. She agreed. I then asked if she was single, and if so we should grab some coffee some time to continue things. She was and I got her number and texted her right then. I continue to do some work until she leaves. Once she does I move to a more favorable study spot.
It was easily my best interaction to date. Guys I'm telling you my game was so tight. I'm really proud of myself.
This puts me at fucking
7 Approaches on the day. I'm honestly blown away at myself. This isn't a product of my game improving by leaps and bounds. I'm self-aware enough to know that game-wise I'm barely scratched the surface of what's possible. Really what it's come down to is getting out of my head, facing my AA, conquering it, and allowing myself to be in play for some wins.
Today's a huge step forward for me, but it's just the first step. This first taste of success has only left me craving more.
Time to get after it.
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