Response to " WHY did you approach me ? "

[Spyce D]

I don't mean it as a shit test but as a question that I have been asked a few times whether on dates or during pickup .... When girls are interested but they are genuinely curious about what I saw in them that made me approach them .

I generally say " I didn't think much and if I thought then we wouldn't be talking/meeting right now " or something like this .

Should I validate them on this question , or maybe describe their physical beauty in a way that might turn them on ?

Anyways , how would you respond to that question ?

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

They wanna know what you were looking for... What do you look for when you approach them?

 

[Spyce D]

They wanna know what you were looking for... What do you look for when you approach them?

I have been asked what you wrote here ,.


Currently , I am looking for both hookups and relationship depending on the girl in front of me . I willing to date most type of girls ( except someone who is too much of a turn off ) just to gain experience . AKA building my harem .

Anyways , What I meant here was that when interested girls try to look for either validation or whatever ( that's how I feel at that time ) .... Questions like " what did you saw in me " , " what did you look that made you approach " .

I have been wondering if these type of questions could be used to further escalate with the girl .

 

[gameboy]

Any of
"Because I thought you looked cute"
"Because I liked XXX about you"
"You looked intersting"
"I wanted to get to know you"

Depending on the situation.

It really depends how much seduction you've already done. if you're already touching her a lot and she seems into it, you could even say something like "Because you're hot" and go for the kiss

 

[Spyce D]

you could even say something like "Because you're hot" and go for the kiss

Should have done that few weeks ago .

I am toning down my banter-y side that wants to banter in every situation in seduction . Saying this cuz I told her that she looked sexy while we were so close but bantered right after rather than kiss. Smh.

 

[gameboy]

Yeah, the time for banter is at the beginning of the interaction. Once you two get closer and flirtier, it's time to up the temperature a bit.