What does a DTF woman look like?
Use these 10 Pluses and ten Minuses
PLUS (add one for each)
MINUSES (Deduct one for each)
A DTF woman will have a net score of 6 or more. As always get enthusiastic consent before engaging in sex.
Use these 10 Pluses and ten Minuses
PLUS (add one for each)
- From out of town. Away from being judged by friends and relatives. Might be in town for a conference, travelling for business, on her way to see relatives.
- She’s drinking. Lowering her inhibitions.
- In a place that is dark, loud, has music and people talking closely
- She approaches you. She compliments your appearance. She focuses on you.
- She makes eye contact. A LOT of eye contact.
- She makes herself available for you to talk to and isolate her.
- She talks about her availability. “My recent EX boyfriend/husband” or makes no mention of a man in her life.
- She asks about your logistics for the night or signals her own. “My house is just a couple of blocks from here” “are you staying in this hotel”?
- She is dressed sexier than many people in the venue. Might be showing more skin or slightly more noticeable/fancy.
- She proposes leaving the venue together even if it is to another venue. Could be to walk her to the door or walk her home/to her car
MINUSES (Deduct one for each)
- Flirts with a large number of men. Leaves you then comes back. Gets bored with you then looks for attention.
- Kisses you in public view. Diffuses the Sexual tension. Provides attention
- Is with 2 or more female friends. Triggers ASD, and is a logistics complication unless there are other guys to distract the other girls.
- Keeps getting phone calls and texts that she answers immediately.
- Introduces you to other women. She is showing you off or getting feedback or approval from her friends.
- Offers contact information before leaving. So you can spend money on her on a date.
- Offers to “hang out sometime” or “go out some time”.
- Avoids being isolated with you
- Does not initiate or accept kino.
- Seems bored or disinterested. Not animated or happy.
A DTF woman will have a net score of 6 or more. As always get enthusiastic consent before engaging in sex.