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Long-Term  Should I tell my gf that I’m broke?

Kezarin

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Hi everyone,

been with my girl for more than a year now. She’s everything I could ever ask for, the kindest, purest soul (yeah I know, corny af), and I am thinking of marriage with her. But last month I was laid off and I have about 0.30€ left in my bank account, and have run out of things to sell now.
This of course affects my decision making and behavior, with my girlfriend now buying most things and just thinking that I want to save money for myself. But I also can’t make any decisions or even buy food so I can’t really make a concrete choice when she asks me what I want to eat. And I see that there is concern or disappointment slowly building up inside her. The question is, do I tell her I’m broke as fuck to be honest with her, or do I just play it off until I have money again? It’s gonna take a month and half for me to get any type of money now, and I can’t get a loan anywhere.
I don’t want her to stress because she’s not really raking it in either, and she doesn’t mind buying the groceries but at some point she’s gonna be fed up.
Any advice?

Cheers,
Kezarin
 
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