Simple Question, but yet I can't figure it out.

[RedNeck]

I have a simple question, but I do not know the answer to it.

What would you guys do when a girl in public stares at you like she is lost in your facial features or your look?

I mean, she is not giving the AI, she is really liking what she is seeing, and she is unconsciously staring at you.

Would you give her a seductive smile? Seductive eye contact? Wink? What do you do?

Let's assume for a second,.. You just can't approach her for one reason or another. Or at least not immediately.

 

[Traveling Soul]

I’d give her a playful wink or stick my tongue out teasingly just to see her reaction. If she laughs, smiles back, and matches my playful energy, that’s when I’d go over and talk to her.

 

[D. Gately]

Give her a smile and figure out how to overcome whatever temporary obstacle is preventing you from approaching her. If she's like with her parents, then yeah you gotta pick your spot to do so.

 

[Daedalus]

I was wondering about something similar recently.

Often times, when I pass by girls who are sitting on a bench in a mall or a park, particularly very young girls, they stare at me like that, and I often stare back, then when I give them a wink, they both start giggling, especially immediately after I've passed them by.

Does this mean I should approach? What causes them to have this reaction? Do they like me and want to draw my attention, or is this simply part of young girl culture these days?

It makes me feel a little ridiculous, even though I am well-groomed and well-dressed, have started walking more fluidly, and am barely 30ish. It feels a bit like they're saying, "you're such a buffoon, old man!" Is this the effect they're trying to have, consciously or unconsciously, to test whether I am brave enough to still approach in spite of it?

I tried approaching these kinds of girls a few times, and the results have been mixed. Sometimes they act dismissively and say they were "trying to have a conversation" (while staring at men passing by, yeah sure). Other times, they indulge the conversation but are overly polite towards me, perhaps because I unconsciously act too distant myself (I am just beginning to get comfortable with closing space and being smoothly touchy).

But I was wondering: what are they feeling and thinking when giggling like that as I wink at them and pass by?

 

[gameboy]

If it's in a night club: Lick your lips sensually, like in a makeout. While holding seductive eye contact and smiling big. Never done it myself, but I watched a friend of mine (tall handsome natural) pull it off in a club. The girl came over to open him, and they went home together.

 

[Tryst]

Think less, approach more.

I mean, she is not giving the AI, she is really liking what she is seeing, and she is unconsciously staring at you.

AIs are normally unconscious. A girl comes and stands near you in a club, or pauses for a moment to check her phone as she walks by. She percieves you as high value, but is not necessarily aware of it.

Try to open her and see that she immediately gives a positive response.

You just can't approach her for one reason or another. Or at least not immediately.

Smile flirtatiously at her. Open her the very next time you see her without hesitation. Or if she responds positively to your smile, beckon her over and merge her into your set!

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

Pre-Opening Cheatsheet: Use These Before You Approach Her

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[Will_V]

I have a simple question, but I do not know the answer to it.

What would you guys do when a girl in public stares at you like she is lost in your facial features or your look?

I mean, she is not giving the AI, she is really liking what she is seeing, and she is unconsciously staring at you.

Would you give her a seductive smile? Seductive eye contact? Wink? What do you do?

Let's assume for a second,.. You just can't approach her for one reason or another. Or at least not immediately.

Mirroring is usually a good idea in these sorts of situations. And approach asap.