FR Sometimes, the daygame god's smile upon us. Two hour Insta date and no reply streak SMASHED!

[average_daygamer]

I hadnt left my room in 10 years when i started cold approaching again around 2022. I felt like I was pretty much a kissless virgin. 10 years of no interaction with women obsessing over negativity online. Once I started going out my only goal was to get sexual interactions with as many women as possible, even ones I wasnt that attracted to (exluding obese or elderly women).

I became pretty good at knowing when and how to kiss close after just meeting someone.

Is there a "how and when" though? Should it be in a period of silence? There were a couple of long silences where maybe I think she expected me to do it, but I just sat without saying anything to "embrace the awkwardness" and become fully comfortable.

Maybe, I should have gone for it then. But how to close the distance in a natural way?

Or maybe when we were already talking and facing one another, I should have leaned in and done then. Or even at a deliberately awkward moment just for a laugh which she might have found funny.

Damn, I hope I get another chance with another girl, because I think I blew it here. She probably found another guy her she who knows what to do and I missed the only opportunity I'm going to get.

 

[gameboy]

Move your face slowly closer to hers. If she doesn't move away, it's a good sign.

Triangle gaze (optional, but works well usually): Gaze in one eye of her's, than in the other, then at her lips. See how she reacts. If she seems into it move even closer.

Give her a little peck on the lips first, like tasting a delicious food for the first time... if it's good, one more... and see what happens

 

[KnownUniverse]

Is there a "how and when" though?

yeah there is. The best way to learn is by trial and error with any women you can practice on. That might mean going for greener targets who let you get within arms length.

 

[average_daygamer]

yeah there is. The best way to learn is by trial and error with any women you can practice on. That might mean going for greener targets who let you get within arms length.

What do you mean "greener targets"? Do you mean the traffic light system? Because if I understand you, you couldn't get any more of a "green light" than the girl leading you to a secluded spot and sitting right next to you.

 

[average_daygamer]

Move your face slowly closer to hers. If she doesn't move away, it's a good sign.

Triangle gaze (optional, but works well usually): Gaze in one eye of her's, than in the other, then at her lips. See how she reacts. If she seems into it move even closer.

Give her a little peck on the lips first, like tasting a delicious food for the first time... if it's good, one more... and see what happens

I'll keep this in mind, I have read all of this, but I forgot it in the heat of the moment.

 

[KnownUniverse]

What do you mean "greener targets"? Do you mean the traffic light system? Because if I understand you, you couldn't get any more of a "green light" than the girl leading you to a secluded spot and sitting right next to you.

yes, pretty much. Aim to get those instadates every weekend so you can practice how and when to go for the kiss.

I'm not good at pulling instadates like you are so i relied on bars and clubs but its the same thing. You ultimately need practice getting sexual with women.

 

[average_daygamer]

yes, pretty much. Aim to get those instadates every weekend so you can practice how and when to go for the kiss.

I'm not good at pulling instadates like you are so i relied on bars and clubs but its the same thing. You ultimately need practice getting sexual with women.

Insta dates every weekend!? If that was even remotely possible, I would be doing it already. I am also not good at getting insta dates. That's why I am reeling from screwing up this one, I might not get another chance.

I haven't got anything from nightgame, from daygame 3 meetups in total from May 2024.

I don't live in a big city where I can spam out approaches with perfect anonymity.

 

[KnownUniverse]

Insta dates every weekend!? If that was even remotely possible, I would be doing it already. I am also not good at getting insta dates. That's why I am reeling from screwing up this one, I might not get another chance.

I haven't got anything from nightgame, from daygame 3 meetups in total from May 2024.

I don't live in a big city where I can spam out approaches with perfect anonymity.

It doesnt have to be instadates just any women who are receptive to your flirting. That's what greens are: Women are instantly receptive to flirting and sexualisation. Find them and talk to them.

 

[average_daygamer]

It doesnt have to be instadates just any women who are receptive to your flirting. That's what greens are: Women are instantly receptive to flirting and sexualisation. Find them and talk to them.

There are not enough of them, this one was a total fluke on a rainy day when I nearly didn't bother going out.

I've just got back from daygame, 6 approaches, all blowouts. Admittedly, my energy dips after the first 5 and my approaches are weak after that.

But it was an unusually busy Saturday to be able to get that volume in.

 

[KnownUniverse]

There are not enough of them, this one was a total fluke on a rainy day when I nearly didn't bother going out.

I've just got back from daygame, 6 approaches, all blowouts. Admittedly, my energy dips after the first 5 and my approaches are weak after that.

But it was an unusually busy Saturday to be able to get that volume in.

find where there's enough of them. Old folks home, high schools, bingo night at your local pub, refugee centres, go to as many different environments as you can until you find a type of women who are receptive and that's where you practice.