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Brassfaced_Jim

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I think I’ll experiment with
“ wanna come over and suck my d” tbh.
I have nothing to lose .
That may actually work.
 

Brassfaced_Jim

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I love Brent, and I've used - and still use - his "method" (which he claims is not a method) extensively. It makes seduction effortless (when it works). It makes you try less. It makes you more outcome independent (which actually may require a bit of discipline sometimes, because with a hot woman it can be hard to not lean in).
I've gotten it to a point where women give me those begging looks. Like, I don't think I'm traditionally handsome, but just by employing the techniques of outcome independence, women start to act strange around them, such that you can just take their hand, bring them outside, pin them against the wall, make out, and then smile and simply tell her: "Come."

Questions:



Honest question: Why would care? A guy who really gets Brent wouldn't worry about that, and instead focus on his own life and goals.

The "chat" (I'm assuming texting from online dating here, which is not by forte, so correct me if I'm wrong, but) should establish at least some comfort first, basic get-to-know things. And then, when commonalities and comfort is established, make an invitation to meet up in real life (presumably for sex, but in Brent's world, sex is assumed so don't even worry about it).

If she accepts the invitation: Cool. Make the plans. But if she doesn't take the invitation, then shoot the ball into her corner, so to speak. Tell her something along the lines of "That's cool. Just shoot me a text when you want to meet." And that's that. Move on with your life.

Honestly, though - and this might hit you hard, but - most of your questions are not really in the spirit of Brent. They circle around your need to analyse women, in order to understand her better, so you can game her. Brent doesn't care about any of that. Outside, perhaps, on a purely scientific or philosophical pursuit for its own sake, that is really outside the realm of seduction.



It's generally a bad idea without establishing at least a bit of commonality and comfort with her. From Brent's perspective, that doesn't mean that you can't flirt or be sexy or even vulgar, if you do it for your own amusement. But most of his talks are geared towards those men who are tired of all the games and all the hard work. His advice circle around using zero effort, and still getting super hot women. Moreover, you'll probably notice that when you start to care much less about outcomes or "gaming" her, then you'll start to attract the really hot girl. Like, it's strange, but they'll eat out of your hand, they'll beg to suck your dick even. It's hard to explain. You won't get there until you truly stop caring, and when you truly take back the power in the interaction. I sometimes think women have a sixth sense for desperation. OTOH when you master this, don't be surprised if women jump at you, try to kiss you, try to kiss you even if her bf is in the room - whenever he looks away (I've experienced some crazy shit once I got this).



Again, dude. Sorry. This will probably hurt, but the question itself seems needy. She wants to feel that you're the man and that she has to work for you, but here's some bad news: you can't fake it - not in Brent's world, anyway. But afaik my own experience, you can't fake it in any world, though you can mimic certain things and hope it gives you reactions. But then you're working for it, which defeats the purpose of Brent again. So... You actually have to be that man.

Well, go on! You can do it!
Ratata,
You were onto a few good points above .
I literally just this morning had a realisation about my frustration with Online Dating after watching a Brent video .. an interview where he talks to Cliff .. looks like an old David D video.

brent says this
“ I used to me attached to everything and commitment to nothing, and now I live my life in the reverse and it’s amazing,”

plus his advice to the audience of guys was ; “ stop talking yourself (and women) so seriously.”

plus another video where he says something like “ …a REAL Aplha Male .. who is a guy who can get lots of women … but *doesn’t give a shit about any of it.*”

and then it hit me in the shower thibking about some chat I’ve got going with a chick on an app.

the reason I am attached to The App and using tons of efforts and time chatting trying to getting results .,.
the reason why I’m frustrated with Online Dating …is because I *give a shit.* about Online Dating!

phew , glad the penny finally dropped, I’ve been near obsessed with it for weeks :(

Online dating is a pretty shit way to meet women in truth.
Now I will just use it as an experimental ‘sandbox’ to try banter lines. negs, and generally just mess with chicks tbh, I’ll prob get a few as a by product. I don’t think there’s any point talking it seriously at all.. or ‘trying’ to play it straight in my pics or bio.
 

Brassfaced_Jim

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No selfies, fully suited up pics. Get good ones is my advice. [of any kind, but always suit and tie for me] Sometimes I post one of me with two very attractive female friends, but not often.
Thanks Don.
Yeah I’ve been switching my pics ad nauseam for weeks , with minimal extra likes /matches happening. But my main pic usually was a head shot or selfie. No good.
I had a friend that got a job randomly in a menswear shop. He said it changed his life pretty much , cos he learned how powerful effect a good fitted suit was. He actually landed a pretty decent chick soon after off OD with his new pics and married her.

not sure how I managed to forget all that setting up my profile ! lol.

sheer laziness obvs
 

Brassfaced_Jim

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I mean, even by handle pic here is a dude in a sharp suit (!) that’s a young Alec Baldwin .
The elusive obvious hey as David D used to say haha. 🤦🏻‍♂️
 

Brassfaced_Jim

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So are the settings of your pics all social situations IRL etc weddings n stuff orrr…
Any shots solo with a backdrop/colour?
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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