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Today 5 approaches, only 2 were any good.
First one I approached her, complimented her style. Was just after work and I couldn't keep the conversation flowing. Getting out of my head after work rapidly is something to practice. It seems to take about 3-5 approaches to shake off the feeling, or one really into me girl to get the conversational juices through. I self ejected, which was dumb. I should have moved the girl instead, because her attention and investment was fully on me.
Next girl had a suitcase and was on her way to catch a flight. Wished her well.
Next two girls were blow outs, mostly my fault because my approaches were uncalibrated. Mainly an issue of opening badly at bad angle. Also the second girl I got closer and was much less into her than I thought I would be at first.
Final girl is the best, and also the one I was most genuinely attracted to. She's in a big crowd so it's a bit difficult to smoothly get to her. But I walk behind for a few and then an opportunity arises and I seize it. I open and she's super warm, and I immediately move her off the street. Easy touching and she moved here recently. It actually turns out she's on a date, and I ask how that is. She says it's a fourth date, so I ask if it's getting serious-she says that she doesn't see it going anywhere (maybe fuck worthy, but I think more likely just platonic-note to self to ask why next time to be curious). I tell her that means I don't feel bad then about talking to her. Tease her and playfully touch her throughout, and she says nice meeting you. I tell her to hold on, and that I would like to get to know her better, and ask for drinks/number. Exchanged, though we'll see if it works out. I did tease her well, and was more playful which is good, and I was definitely sending sexual signals.
First one I approached her, complimented her style. Was just after work and I couldn't keep the conversation flowing. Getting out of my head after work rapidly is something to practice. It seems to take about 3-5 approaches to shake off the feeling, or one really into me girl to get the conversational juices through. I self ejected, which was dumb. I should have moved the girl instead, because her attention and investment was fully on me.
Next girl had a suitcase and was on her way to catch a flight. Wished her well.
Next two girls were blow outs, mostly my fault because my approaches were uncalibrated. Mainly an issue of opening badly at bad angle. Also the second girl I got closer and was much less into her than I thought I would be at first.
Final girl is the best, and also the one I was most genuinely attracted to. She's in a big crowd so it's a bit difficult to smoothly get to her. But I walk behind for a few and then an opportunity arises and I seize it. I open and she's super warm, and I immediately move her off the street. Easy touching and she moved here recently. It actually turns out she's on a date, and I ask how that is. She says it's a fourth date, so I ask if it's getting serious-she says that she doesn't see it going anywhere (maybe fuck worthy, but I think more likely just platonic-note to self to ask why next time to be curious). I tell her that means I don't feel bad then about talking to her. Tease her and playfully touch her throughout, and she says nice meeting you. I tell her to hold on, and that I would like to get to know her better, and ask for drinks/number. Exchanged, though we'll see if it works out. I did tease her well, and was more playful which is good, and I was definitely sending sexual signals.