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Tribal Elder
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@Carousel do you think i’m trying to sabotage people by discouraging them from doing “advanced” game?

I think you are out to stir up shit, based on your behavior since I arrived here. I have been on pickup forums since 2006, I think I know a troll when I see one.

i’m not. i tried it. i think the more effort you put in the less genuine you’re being.

Not my experience. Maybe you did it wrong. Easier to blame the tech than yourself, or what?

i also believe trying comes from a low value place.

Have whatever opinion you want, who care as long as it works.

i believe in just being. if being yourself isn’t working then their is work to be done. but i don’t think that the answer is by scripting conversations and making everything you say deliberate.

Scripting conversations will make you a better conversationalist even when not following a script. Field tested.
 

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Tribal Elder
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i agree. i’m tired of it. i don’t wanna have these debates. but there are a handful of posters triggered by my methods differing from theirs.

Yeah. You are of course the victim here. Never mind that YOU are the one who end up in these discussions all the time, with different people. That implies that YOU are the common factor.
 

naturalmikey

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Yeah. You are of course the victim here. Never mind that YOU are the one who end up in these discussions all the time, with different people. That implies that YOU are the common factor.
look it’s you and your friends that have a problem with me. i’m not going after you guys. also if you’ve been on forums for 14 years and haven’t been with 300 girls maybe is it possible you’re doing something wrong. i’ve been with 8 new girls this year. that’s a rate of 64 per year. in 14 years that’s like 800 women. and i’m not even that good or dedicated. it really just is that easy when you quit trying so hard. maybe you should focus more on what you’re doing than me. what i do works for me.
 

Velasco

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The reason he is being attacked, for a lack of a better word, is for claiming that anything beyond "basic social skills, leading, mixed signals, good eye contact" is counterproductive and unnecessary to getting sexually fulfilling Same Night Lays.

In the article Witcher posted in his post, "what are the expected results with only the basics of seduction", Teevster talks about if your goal is to pull a girl home that same night, then yes advanced techniques are necessary. What are these advanced techniques he is talking about? Screening for girls who you are biologically attracted to, get along with, and are sexually compatible with (which you find out by....talking about sex....which according to him is counterproductive because this falls under "beyond basic social skills").

That there is no need to run sexual frames (while running sexual frames himself) and anyone who runs technical-routine-based game is a fake pickup robot.
 
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Tribal Elder
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look it’s you and your friends that have a problem with me. i’m not going after you guys. also if you’ve been on forums for 14 years and haven’t been with 300 girls maybe is it possible you’re doing something wrong. i’ve been with 8 new girls this year. that’s a rate of 64 per year. in 14 years that’s like 800 women. and i’m not even that good or dedicated. it really just is that easy when you quit trying so hard. maybe you should focus more on what you’re doing than me. what i do works for me.

Prove your results or your laycount before you brag about it.
 

naturalmikey

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The reason he is being attacked, for a lack of a better word, is for claiming that anything beyond "basic social skills, leading, mixed signals, good eye contact" is counterproductive and unnecessary to getting sexually fulfilling Same Night Lays.

In the article Witcher posted in his post, "what are the expected results with only the basics of seduction", Teevster talks about if your goal is to pull a girl home that same night, then yes advanced techniques are necessary. What are these advanced techniques he is talking about? Screening for girls who you are biologically attracted to, get along with, and are sexually compatible with (which you find out by....talking about sex....which according to him is counterproductive because this falls under "beyond basic social skills").

That there is no need to run sexual frames (while running sexual frames himself) and anyone who runs technical-routine-based game is a fake pickup robot.

i just don’t think casually talking about sex is advanced. you can give anything a name and call it advanced. i consider the blueprint decoded to be a pretty beginner product and it teaches you basic sexual frames. i know plenty of guys who don’t know a lick of pickup that take girls home the first night. and yes i view scripted routines as fake and inauthentic and believe it or not a lot of people feel that way and have no interest in using such tactics. sounds like your message to them is good luck getting same night lays and threesomes. that is nonsense.
 

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Tribal Elder
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cool. how would you like me to do that?

Burden of proof is on you. You are claiming results probably above even elite level from intermediate level game. 64 girls pr year, that is.

Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.
 

Velasco

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i know plenty of guys who don’t know a lick of pickup that take girls home the first night.

"don't know a lick of pickup" /= talking about sex, running sexual frames (just talking or joking around about sex is setting a sexual frame), or reframing her negative ideas about sex (if she has any).

yes i view scripted routines as fake and inauthentic and believe it or not a lot of people feel that way and have no interest in using such tactics. sounds like your message to them is good luck getting same night lays and threesomes

I run routines (true stories about myself that I've shared a million times. Because naturals NEVER tell new girls the same story they've told previous girls they've taken home more than once, right? ) as a way to set sexual frames.

Good luck with getting same night lays without setting sexual frames. That is my message.
 

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Also @naturalmikey, if you have such a good understanding of game, why do you have a reaction score of 118 in 795 messages while Velasco has 151 in 172 messages and I have 153 in 203 messages?
 

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@Carousel the reactions are also influenced by the ranking as most of the people here are coming for help and ofc when you are a moderator or an elder people will directly take what you are saying for granted and like your post :)
 

naturalmikey

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lol. what does a reaction score have anything to do with real life? you guys have known each other for years and like each other’s posts. i could have ten of my friends join and my reaction score would go through the roof. seriously man. the fact that you guys all echo each other’s point of view doesn’t mean your style is any better than mine. the mods banned any type of proof and you know that. you’re the one challenging my results. you actually admitted you’re below average in the post. at twenty lays a year you’d be at 300 by now. so you’re not even getting twenty lays a year by your own admission. in what world do you belong on an ivory tower? and how can you judge anyone? you have sub average game. that’s not me talking shit. you admitted that.
 

naturalmikey

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also as for detailing this is supposed to be a discussion about gen z e thots. if you guys are having a lot of success right now surely you must be dealing with these chicks. please share your thoughts.
 

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lol. what does a reaction score have anything to do with real life? you guys have known each other for years and like each other’s posts. i could have ten of my friends join and my reaction score would go through the roof. seriously man. the fact that you guys all echo each other’s point of view doesn’t mean your style is any better than mine.

So you claim that we are only liking each other posts with no evidence, just like your supposed 300 lays?

the mods banned any type of proof and you know that.

Mods banned screen dumps, which does not constitute any kind of proof anyways. Mods did not ban you meeting up with some recognized guy and showing that you pull 64 chics pr year.

you’re the one challenging my results. you actually admitted you’re below average in the post. at twenty lays a year you’d be at 300 by now. so you’re not even getting twenty lays a year by your own admission. in what world do you belong on an ivory tower? and how can you judge anyone? you have sub average game. that’s not me talking shit. you admitted that.

I have never denied being utterly clueless when I joined the community and for quite some time after that ;) And you know what, any Elder or Guru level guy is invited to meet up with me in Oslo, Norway. So we can see whether I am actually sub-average ;)

Also you are not in a position to call out anybody before you have proved your own results. You could be an incel.
 

naturalmikey

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So you claim that we are only liking each other posts with no evidence, just like your supposed 300 lays?



Mods banned screen dumps, which does not constitute any kind of proof anyways. Mods did not ban you meeting up with some recognized guy and showing that you pull 64 chics pr year.



I have never denied being utterly clueless when I joined the community and for quite some time after that ;) And you know what, any Elder or Guru level guy is invited to meet up with me in Oslo, Norway. So we can see whether I am actually sub-average ;)

Also you are not in a position to call out anybody before you have proved your own results. You could be an incel.
So you claim that we are only liking each other posts with no evidence, just like your supposed 300 lays?



Mods banned screen dumps, which does not constitute any kind of proof anyways. Mods did not ban you meeting up with some recognized guy and showing that you pull 64 chics pr year.



I have never denied being utterly clueless when I joined the community and for quite some time after that ;) And you know what, any Elder or Guru level guy is invited to meet up with me in Oslo, Norway. So we can see whether I am actually sub-average ;)

Also you are not in a position to call out anybody before you have proved your own results. You could be an incel.
i really wish you’d quit winking at me. but i’ll admit. i don’t know anything about what works in scandinavian. aside from a finish chick i’ve had zero success with northern european women, which i consider a shame. i do well with american, latina american, and australian women mostly. so i’ll admit with your women my game doesn’t work well. but it’s mostly because i’m an asshole not because i’m not running the right patterns. honestly who knows. they don’t like me.

if i’m an incel i’d like to know who is the real father of my children is though.

and i’ve been really focused on being kind and not playing games and just really being myself and id be interested to see if i actually have better luck with northern europeans now.
 

Chrance

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i think you @naturalmikey have a valid position with your natural method. Keeping things simple is something that frankly I should have listened to when I started out. But I also don’t think you are actually aware of how “techniques” form.

A technique is an abstraction/concept, that is to say, a set of symbols (words) you interpret based off your imagination and experiences. Everything you are reading on your screen is an abstraction and is thus prone to miscommunication. Abstractions are taken from experience, not the other way around. It is impossible to derive experience from an abstraction. Because of this, when you have foreign concepts in your head - like a routine or guideline - and you try to act it out, it is often no different than making noises with your mouth. There is no or little personal experience associated with the routine you are trying to say (assuming it was found somewhere online or in a book) so the sounds you make with your mouth as well as your body language become incongruent - you are basically acting like a bad liar or actor.

For this reason, it’s best to keep your mind focused on basic things since thinking about too much can cause you to come off as a liar or a manipulator or gamey. On the other hand, techniques have the benefit of already having the problem solved for you. This is how all techniques come to be. Like the technique of using an observation rather than a direct opener - this came about through trial and error. Or the technique of not saying “wanna go back to my place and fuck?” five minutes into the conversation if at all. This is something that is learned through the experience of other men. Any time you consciously correct your behavior, you are attempting to adhere to an abstract motive, guideline or script, hence a technique. Something as simple as “don’t call the girl a whore if she joked you” becomes a technique the moment you first do that and then realize afterwards that it was a dumb idea. Techniques exist as a way to communicate behavior. Internal subconscious experiences and habits are not known to anyone but yourself; the moment you speak or write down those experiences, which inherently happens on a forum, you are creating a technique or method. When I read your posts, I cannot know precisely what you are talking about; I have to use my previous experiences and my imagination in order to understand what you are physically doing. For this reason, when you say “fundamentals” this is open to a variety of interpretations.

The internet is biased towards the written format, hence words and techniques. So when you do not describe something with great clarity, expect everyone to misinterpret you. Now, I’m not saying you don’t write with clarity, but any natural method is by its nature unclear because it’s emphasis is to minimize or ditch concepts (like routines or guidelines) altogether, and you cannot communicate information on a forum or in books without concepts (hence the appeal of picture books, movies and video games).

Literally one thing you can do right now is write detailed FR/LRs that do not detail your method, but just what your doing and feeling and why did what you did. If I had your experience that is what I would do. You need to accept that on the internet you need to clearly describe what you are doing in order for people to know what you are talking about - but you will see that by communicating “do this over this” or “say this over that” or even “think this thought over that thought” (since the formation of thoughts are actions too) you will inevitably form techniques, some more difficult and important to do over others; those that are more difficult and significant to do to get a desired result are called “advanced techniques”.

FYI I do know gen z girls know what incels, alphas and betas are lmao. I’ve heard those words mentioned by gen z chicks several times.
 

naturalmikey

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@Chrance i actually agree with all that. this discussion is more over advanced tactics which are something i once used and moved away from. i’m very much a proponent of being yourself and not using scripted routines. for some reason on this forum there is nothing considered weird about that.
 

Velasco

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i’m very much a proponent of being yourself and not using scripted routines. for some reason on this forum there is nothing considered weird about that.

Scripted routines = fake and inauthentic.
Scripted lines and cold reads = just being yourself.

i've been using a lot of this guys lines. his videos have helped my tinder a good bit. he's young so he's more in touch with the younger crowd than i am. but his line to get the number is by far the best i've found
a good todd v opener is “you look quite compelling” then she says something and you say “i had to find out if you’re as lovely as your first impression would suggest.” at which point she will almost always qualify herself.
i’ve experimented with a bunch of openers. cajuns drug dealer opener is one that works great on groups or lone wolfs. opinion openerers in general work well on groups. if i’m opening a single girl i usually just introduce myself. i’ve also use “well you are quite compelling.” if she makes eye contact sometimes i’ll be like “oh my god do i have something on my face?”
here is an example of an nlp pattern. i use this one all the time and it's awesome. i often send it in texts. girls think it's hillarious. it's by swinggcat
You remind me of Bugsy. (Let the girl ask, “Who is Bugsy?”)
Bugsy was my bunny rabbit when I was a kid. I loved him to
death. My baby sister wanted a pet of her own. But my mom told her that
she was too young. So one day while I was at school, she snapped
Bugsy’s neck.
My mom decided to replace the dead bunny, hoping I wouldn’t notice.
The first thing I did when I got home from school was play with Bugsy.
He looked different. His silky white fur turned grey and mangy. His plump
little body looked supermodel thin. I picked Bugsy up to cuddle with him
and he bit me. My eyes welled up with tears and I carped, “Mom, what
happened to Bugsy?”
She explained, “Sometimes you get old, life is a bitch.
i do night game and tinder. i also use a shit load of lines. i don't use long stories to try to hypnotize them, although i will use a couple short rehearsed cold reads and shit. oh and i use role plays. i talk about us going on vacation or getting or married or her a fucking disney princess.
i got those lines years ago from rsd. one of the best when traveling is Jeffys “i’m only have time for a short (but intense) romance.” it also scares some girls off. they had really good text material.
one of my favorite swinggcat cold reads is
“i can tell sometimes you get really caught up in the emotions of the moment, but before you can go with your emotions you have to logically justify it in your head. and i know the times your the happiest is when you can justify and act in those emotions”

which are something i once used and moved away from.

Good to see this month you've decided to no longer use scripted lines and cold reads from other guys. I never could personally. Because it wasn't me (all my scripted stories are my own). Couple years ago, I went out with a wing that was Austin Summers's assistant and he told me to open some girls with Julien's "daddy's here". Cringe tbh
 

naturalmikey

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Scripted routines = fake and inauthentic.
Scripted lines and cold reads = just being yourself.











Good to see this month you've decided to no longer use scripted lines and cold reads from other guys. I never could personally. Because it wasn't me (all my scripted stories are my own). Couple years ago, I went out with a wing that was Austin Summers's assistant and he told me to open some girls with Julien's "daddy's here". Cringe tbh
thanks for pointing that out. i’m working on it. it’s been a slow process but i really wanna focus on authenticity. i don’t think i have used any of that material this year. sometimes i just talk and it does come out though. i’m a work on progress for sure. i learned a bunch of bad habits. it comes down to not trusting that i’m enough. which is a battle i fight. right now i’m in the early stages of what looks like is becoming a relationship and i’m trying to focus on just being my authentic self and it’s honestly not easy. i’m trying to reprogram a lot of unhealthy behaviors i learned.
 

Skills

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hey naturalmikey, lol the time the forum gets entertaining is when you stir shut up (unintentionally) anyways to get back into topic:

in years past the issue of asd was something that had to be combatted. with young girls this is no longer an issue. i remember @Skills writing an article about gen z chicks that discuessed how asd is dead with the younger generation.

yea i remember that post and yes 0 asd... in fairness who first brought it to my attention was @Gunwitch here:

In north america right now
, it is 100% easier to get ONS than say in 2001. The entire frame of “I dont wanna be a slut” has lessened a ton since back then. Some chicks actually think being a slut is cool. We lost pride as a “class” country from losing 9/11 and all (not fully retaliating at a primal level), my theory. White trash is more “ok” and slutty is “cool” to some chicks. It is still there in various degrees of course. But in like 2003, if you made out with a chick in the club, in front of her friends, it fucked up chances almost always of pulling her and fucking her later.Now, shit you can pull her still post makeout in club, without near the persistence, asd and cockblock shit as back then.
the new issue is all comfort. young girls are extremely comfortable on video. they’ve been using video phone technology most of their life. so we’ve had the emergence of the ethot. this are girls who profit from their looks online by private snapchat’s, fansonly accounts or even just popular instagrams. young girls are extremely comfortable online. there is another level of ethot that sells their body online or on apps like seeking arrangement. however prostitute game is beyond the scope of this discussion. although i’ve slept with several without paying a dime.

the issue with the ethot generation (gen z) is that they don’t look as good in real life as they do online. no one looks as good as women do online. so they’re comparing themselves to women that don’t even exist.

Kind off, there is an artificially inflated smv due to instagram, and the likes, i mean you can be brutal the difference in real life results vs dating apps. (dating apps make you feel ugly and low value, and is getting like worst and worst).... if the dude is not cold approaching he is going to be fucked trying to compete in social media, i like @Chase advise were he breaks down (a position i held many many years ago, i mention in my books, to keep your life as mystery), there is no way to compete with women in social media, and a waste of time if you ask me...

this is the not only the most sexually open minded generation, but also the most insecure.

i don't know about that, i think they are just the most socially retarded generation due to being raised on apps, and electronic devices.

there is literally no need to run sexual frames to try to embed in her mind sex isn’t a big deal. it already isn’t. the big deal is you seeing her as the person she really is. she doesn’t look as good naked as her ig pics would have you believe.

Bro this is were you are wrong, have you field test the sexual stuff that shit works.. Is not only sexual judgement, is not even needed (i do cover it do just to cover everything) but is also sexual competence and prizing which you cover with framing...

so what is the real issue. it’s not that you need to remove her sexual judgment. she needs to know that you won’t judge her for how she looks. the type of “frames” i run are just talking about how women don’t look like they do online and how it’s unfair to compare yourself. the key with women is being an insider on women. this is nothing new. you have to understand her world.

the other issue is don’t put yourself in the box of guys who hype up her looks, which should be obvious. she can never live up to the hype and you look thirsty.

the goal is to separate her two realities. separate the human from the egirl. these girls are surprisingly i find having less sex and it’s not because of judgment. it’s because of insecurities. remove their insecurities and they’re yours. these girls are so easy. quit trying so hard. treat them as cool humans. they fuck their friends.

i’d like to hear from more guys having success with modern young women. they’re different than any women i’ve encountered and most content is focused on past generations.

Modern young women, have add, you do have to isolate them, or have social proof with other women, or keep their attention..... Competing or playing on their ground ig, snap, etc... for me is a losing proposition....
 
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