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Here is what I am thinking these days,
I was thinking that at some point of the seduction process we have to show intent giving our power away anyways because if we think about it we can not run an entire seduction saying to the girls stuffs like "I love you but some part of me hate you". One thing that I have been seeing in real life is that the Ego of the girl makes hugh influence in the girl's decision to have sex or not, and in many cases girls do not like guys who never take the risk to get rejected, I mean, guys who keep with the push-pull all the time. Girls have ego as well and won't reciprocate if the intention of the man is not clear, men has to take the first step (girls say), while you keep showing intent in a non clear way like push pull girls will not reciprocate because they dont want to be exposed first. It becomes like a bottle and a game where any side want to risk to lose value. When this game happen, girls will give you the last sentence "fuck you dude". In this case you never lose your value becausr you never showed you were sold but you never get the laid.
It is like there are 2 ways and the first one always end in failure:
1. You never show intent giving your power away (Push Pull, Premise in the negative, etc) but you also create the Ego Battle where the girl if you do not change at some point the attitue, she will ultimate say "fuck off dude". And at the other hand we have option 2.
2. You show intent clearly genuine and direct (no push pull or any other similar shit) like "I like you", "I am very attracted to you", etc. In this case you SOI and you give the girl the chance to reciprocate and get you laid although you risk rejection and lose value.
Hold your value and not get laids Or Risk Your value but You increase the chance to get a laid.
The sexual inuendos, the sexual misinterpretations and sexual overload techniques, etc They all show intent and give the power away. For example
"You turn me on so much when you do that [whatever] or wear that [whatever]". You then inmidiately give her the chance to reject your intention and make you drop your social value if she responds something like: "Yes but Don't get any idea. It wont happen [and she walks away].
If there are friends or people around, they will think "You are such a Loser".
I mean, every time you escalate you are giving your power away.
Can anyone clarify me this shit?
I was thinking that at some point of the seduction process we have to show intent giving our power away anyways because if we think about it we can not run an entire seduction saying to the girls stuffs like "I love you but some part of me hate you". One thing that I have been seeing in real life is that the Ego of the girl makes hugh influence in the girl's decision to have sex or not, and in many cases girls do not like guys who never take the risk to get rejected, I mean, guys who keep with the push-pull all the time. Girls have ego as well and won't reciprocate if the intention of the man is not clear, men has to take the first step (girls say), while you keep showing intent in a non clear way like push pull girls will not reciprocate because they dont want to be exposed first. It becomes like a bottle and a game where any side want to risk to lose value. When this game happen, girls will give you the last sentence "fuck you dude". In this case you never lose your value becausr you never showed you were sold but you never get the laid.
It is like there are 2 ways and the first one always end in failure:
1. You never show intent giving your power away (Push Pull, Premise in the negative, etc) but you also create the Ego Battle where the girl if you do not change at some point the attitue, she will ultimate say "fuck off dude". And at the other hand we have option 2.
2. You show intent clearly genuine and direct (no push pull or any other similar shit) like "I like you", "I am very attracted to you", etc. In this case you SOI and you give the girl the chance to reciprocate and get you laid although you risk rejection and lose value.
Hold your value and not get laids Or Risk Your value but You increase the chance to get a laid.
The sexual inuendos, the sexual misinterpretations and sexual overload techniques, etc They all show intent and give the power away. For example
"You turn me on so much when you do that [whatever] or wear that [whatever]". You then inmidiately give her the chance to reject your intention and make you drop your social value if she responds something like: "Yes but Don't get any idea. It wont happen [and she walks away].
If there are friends or people around, they will think "You are such a Loser".
I mean, every time you escalate you are giving your power away.
Can anyone clarify me this shit?
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