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Like a lot of you on here, I read, I mean I read a lot in my downtime of world events and current events. I also happen to live in a city that attracts people from all over the world, a true international city, NYC! Lately, I've come across a realization about myself that I spoke to @Grand Pooba about at times and how we both address it differently. First of all, huge shoutout to @Grand Pooba for absolutely killing it and slaying, a true forum legend!
I realize that I cannot even help it but I tie in racism, politics, and sociology into game and chasing women. In some ways, I treat it as almost a tribal us vs. them mentality due to what I hear. Like I may hear quite a lot that people and women from country or group/demographic A look down on or hate brown guys and as a result, choose to avoid women from that background unless the situation is really obvious like me matching on a dating app or them throwing themselves at me.
I believe that more so than men, women are susceptible to social pressures and socially stereotyping guys since they care about status more, this becomes more true for women that are hot.
Now I know some say you can use game and other means to make up for whatever but in my head, I hate the idea of overcompensating in any way and thinking that I am gaming a chick that sees me as inferior due to race and automatically sees another race as better than me. Like I hate the idea of going for a girl of a certain group who I already have to start off on a bad foot or behind with compared to another kind of guy when I can go for girls from groups that are more receptive or just neutral.
Like sure I can game hot women from group A and occasionally get lucky playing numbers game but if women from group B are either neutral or positive towards.
Anyone who reads too much about politics, sociology and world news out there feel the same way maybe?
I realize that I cannot even help it but I tie in racism, politics, and sociology into game and chasing women. In some ways, I treat it as almost a tribal us vs. them mentality due to what I hear. Like I may hear quite a lot that people and women from country or group/demographic A look down on or hate brown guys and as a result, choose to avoid women from that background unless the situation is really obvious like me matching on a dating app or them throwing themselves at me.
I believe that more so than men, women are susceptible to social pressures and socially stereotyping guys since they care about status more, this becomes more true for women that are hot.
Now I know some say you can use game and other means to make up for whatever but in my head, I hate the idea of overcompensating in any way and thinking that I am gaming a chick that sees me as inferior due to race and automatically sees another race as better than me. Like I hate the idea of going for a girl of a certain group who I already have to start off on a bad foot or behind with compared to another kind of guy when I can go for girls from groups that are more receptive or just neutral.
Like sure I can game hot women from group A and occasionally get lucky playing numbers game but if women from group B are either neutral or positive towards.
Anyone who reads too much about politics, sociology and world news out there feel the same way maybe?

