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Tying racism, politics, and sociology into game.

Indian Race Troll (IRT)

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Like a lot of you on here, I read, I mean I read a lot in my downtime of world events and current events. I also happen to live in a city that attracts people from all over the world, a true international city, NYC! Lately, I've come across a realization about myself that I spoke to @Grand Pooba about at times and how we both address it differently. First of all, huge shoutout to @Grand Pooba for absolutely killing it and slaying, a true forum legend!

I realize that I cannot even help it but I tie in racism, politics, and sociology into game and chasing women. In some ways, I treat it as almost a tribal us vs. them mentality due to what I hear. Like I may hear quite a lot that people and women from country or group/demographic A look down on or hate brown guys and as a result, choose to avoid women from that background unless the situation is really obvious like me matching on a dating app or them throwing themselves at me.

I believe that more so than men, women are susceptible to social pressures and socially stereotyping guys since they care about status more, this becomes more true for women that are hot.

Now I know some say you can use game and other means to make up for whatever but in my head, I hate the idea of overcompensating in any way and thinking that I am gaming a chick that sees me as inferior due to race and automatically sees another race as better than me. Like I hate the idea of going for a girl of a certain group who I already have to start off on a bad foot or behind with compared to another kind of guy when I can go for girls from groups that are more receptive or just neutral.

Like sure I can game hot women from group A and occasionally get lucky playing numbers game but if women from group B are either neutral or positive towards.

Anyone who reads too much about politics, sociology and world news out there feel the same way maybe?
 

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Oh Pry, you've come a long way since you first joined. But this is still the same sticking point you've had from the beginning spoken in a more eloquent/higher conciousness way.

But there are plenty of guys that break this stereotype all the time. Its news to me that beautiful white girls are racist towards brown guys.

I don't see how this type of thinking helps you at all.
 

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Oh Pry, you've come a long way since you first joined. But this is still the same sticking point you've had from the beginning spoken in a more eloquent/higher conciousness way.

But there are plenty of guys that break this stereotype all the time. Its news to me that beautiful white girls are racist towards brown guys.

I don't see how this type of thinking helps you at all.

If anything, I'd say white girls and white westerners, in general, are arguably the least racist of everyone. I've had nothing but good experiences with WASPs here in America. I find that it is often Latinos and some more "ethnic" whites (Eastern Euros in particular) that are racist AF.
 

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My advice leave all your personal opinions and stuff ouuut of game. All frustration, all insecurities, all political views... Think of it when not gaming.
Game is an athletic and intellectual pursuit of great difficulty requiring focus, and dragging that stuff into it only makes you distracted.
You don't lift weights better by thinking of a fiscal policy that you despise do you?
 
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@Oh Pry I’ve never really had any hang ups regarding my race or the race of women I talk to.
I suggest you cut down or eliminate your consumption of political media. Since race is a hot button issue in the US, stories involving racism get aired and debated by pundits often. When you see those stories over and over again, it starts to affect you. You start looking for evidence of what you see on the news in your day to day life and thus, any negative interactions you have with women will be blamed on race. That’s not good.
 
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I believe that more so than men, women are susceptible to social pressures and socially stereotyping guys since they care about status more, this becomes more true for women that are hot.

What's really going to blow your mind is when you finally realize that the stereotyping is actually done by the men, and the women only "pretend" to acknowledge it as a way to preserve their own social status.

Basically what I'm saying is, regardless of what the stereotype is, secretly, she probably wants to fuck you if you're sexy. ;)

- Franco
 
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I've taught hundreds of men from all races, ages, heights, and economic status. I'll tell you, every brown, black, or asian guy can pickup white girls. Are there stereo types, prejudices, and even racisms to deal with? Yes. But what can you do about it? Nothing.

One of the best guys I know is brown. He doesn't give a fuck and pulls almost every weekend. He's a salesman at his dayjob, and just loves chasing pussy.

I've had Asian guys pickup mexican girls who had asian fetishes. I've had Pakistanis pickup blonde German girls. I've had white guys pickup blacks. I've seen men of every race pickup women from every race. It doesn't matter. It really doesn't. Maybe racism exists, but why focus on something you can't change?
 

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if it is an Asian going after a blue-eyed blond baddie, you need to have a frame (meta framing) down solid. assuming you meet her physical attraction standard. move fast and capitalize on choosing signals
 

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I mean racism does exist in game and especially when women go for men. From my observations, in the younger demographic that you find out, ethnic women are probably the most picky about race and very partial towards white men. Asian, Middle Eastern, an especially Latinas that are young and hot do not fuck with anything other than white guys or guys of their own race in some cases. You might see a cool stereotypical black guy who gets these girls sometimes too but having been with a few Latinas myself, man are they racist as hell towards Indian and Middle Eastern men.

Now I used to think that Indian and Arab men were obsessed with white women, especially blondes, but I have actually found that other than black or white women, no one really wants them in the younger attractive demographic. I have never seen an Arab guy do well with hot Latina girls, ever. It makes sense now why so many Indian naturals I see are with white women and not other races, and by white I mean white as snow girls because even fringe white women (Italian, Albanian, etc.) are racist as fuck and very partial towards the blond haired Chad.

What would benefit guys to do is go after women you naturally do well with first and then get other kinds of women through that social proof. My Indian friend fucked a sexy Asian-White mix, a hot Persian girl, a Cuban dime, and a beautiful Lebanese chick by starting off with banging their white friends first. Another friend of mines is Pakistani and he fucked a dime from Mexico and another from Colombia by starting off with banging their ginger friend first.

Kind of sucks that it is the case but comes to show, not only whitey can be racist. Like I have heard Latina women say some downright racist crap about Muslims, Indians, and Arab men that would make even the most devout white nationalist drop his jaw then fall in love.
 

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I have never seen an Arab guy do well with hot Latina girls, ever.

Nonsense. I have seen this.

Your entire post seems like weird theorizing inferring racial explanations to what is likely mainly consequences of culture differences.

Latino culture is much more similar to European culture due to historical reasons than Arab/Indian culture is to European culture. Latinos speak European languages and are generally Christian. A lot of Arab and Indian guys do not understand Western cultural practices upon arrival, especially those related to gender relations. If you teach them that, however, they perform just as well as Europeans. We have examples of that here.
 
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Indian Race Troll (IRT)

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Nonsense. I have seen this.

Your entire post seems like weird theorizing inferring racial explanations to what is likely mainly consequences of culture differences.

Latino culture is much more similar to European culture due to historical reasons than Arab/Indian culture is to European culture. Latinos speak European languages and are generally Christian. A lot of Arab and Indian guys do not understand Western cultural practices upon arrival, especially those related to gender relations. If you teach them that, however, they perform just as well as Europeans. We have examples of that here.

You could very well be right but I was going off of what I witness with personal experience. I've had Indian and Arab friends who were assimilated into western culture, cool, and not that bad looking. What I noticed in gaming with them and also what I saw at clubs (used to be in a city with a heavy Indian presence) is that it was mainly white women and black women that were giving them any love. To the credit of these guys, these women were very beautiful.

Among my group of friends who are cool naturals, they struggle with latin women of all varieties, whether from Spain/Italy or from South America. Even looking around, I see plenty of Arab and Indian dudes with hot white girls and these days even black chicks that look good. I've never really seen one with a Latina.

Limited world view here though but I've known a fair share of brown naturals.
 
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