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Guys, I know I haven’t logged in here in a while and I have a few personal messages that have been left unanswered. I apologize if I am not able to get to all of them in a timely manner. I’ve been really busy at work, and with other things going on. So, again, not ignoring people! Just been literally swamped.
Anyway, this is something that’s happened to me just in the past several days or so that I have to share with you guys. Sometimes you meet someone and their outward actions and appearances are completely normal, and you might even think they’re great and wonderful and have it all together… and then you *really* get to know them.
This girl seemed to have all the makings of good, potential girlfriend. And, it turned out horribly awry. Usually my reports have at least somewhat happy endings. This one does not. Hoping this can help guys keep themselves out of situations like this.
First meeting:
I met this girl through a mutual friend while out for drinks a couple of weeks ago. Shoulder length blonde hair, about 5’7” and dressed in professional attire. After some conversation/deep-diving, I find out she’s 28 years old and finished law school 2 years ago and is practicing locally doing litigation on corporate-related issues, aspires to have her own firm at some point, etcetera.
At this point, I can’t say I’m super attracted to her. It must be her work clothes or something. Even though I’m not 100% into her, I’m still giving her the same eye contact and vibe that I have attained over the time I’ve been training myself on them.
However, her attraction to me is rather quite obvious from the very start. This intrigues me a little. I start to “give her a chance”, mentally.
Eventually, she tells me that she plays semi-professional roller derby. I did not know there was such a thing. She shows me some photos of her in action that she has on her phone, and she pulls a player card (like a baseball card/bubble gum card) out of her purse and shows it to me. The position she plays is “Jammer”, who she explains is the team’s single point scoring skater whose object is to lap as many opposing skaters as possible, while her teammates block opponents from basically taking her out.
I tell you what, the whole roller derby thing. The pictures that she was showing me, I could see how fit and athletic she was, and some of the pictures she just looked like a bad m*therf*cker. I’m thinking: “Wow, there’s a lot more to this girl than I originally thought”
We continue to chat and it gets late, and we both have to work early in the morning. I can’t pull her then and there, so I give her a passionate kiss by her vehicle and we part ways.
During the interaction we had exchanged phone numbers. She begins to text me frequently.
Second meeting:
The water heater in my home had crapped out, and it was going to take me a couple days to get a new one. She had texted me asking if I needed anything, here’s the texts:
I actually call her at this point. She says she hopes it wasn’t awkward to offer me her shower. I say it wasn’t, and that I’ll grab some things and head her way.
When I get there, we sit on her couch and talk for about 10-15 minutes. I get four text messages during this time span. Each time my phone goes off, she looks down at it. First one was Kimberly, then two from Lydia and another from Amber. She says something like “Jesus Christ, you’d think that when a guy starts dating a girl that he would slow down a little bit”. She laughs so I am not sure if she’s joking or not. A lot of times women will act like it’s a joke, while still trying to send the message.
Ok, this should have been a red flag but she had on short shorts and a cleavage revealing halter top, so my mind was fogged a bit. I end up grabbing a shower there, and come back out on the couch and sit by her. Within a minute or two, we begin to make out on the couch. I slip my hand down her shorts and go to work, and eventually this leads to us ending up in her bedroom.
An hour passes.
Another hour passes.
We seriously had sex for about two hours, and I am serious when I say that there was no breaks in between. I ravaged her at times, slowed down at times, ravaged her body again, repeat. By the time I was done with her she was a shaking mess and could barely speak. She clutched me tightly, her lower body vibrating in a puddle of her own juices for about 45 minutes until she finally fell asleep.
All of that may have been a mistake… But she was so sexy, and outside of the comment she made about the text messages, seemed like a totally awesome girl. I mean, come on. She’s a lawyer, so she’s independent, intelligent and savvy… right? She plays a sport regularly, which keeps her even busier and maintains a rock-hard figure and the stamina to last for hours in bed.
Things get crazy
It’s funny, I’m so pumped about this girl that I start thinking I could actually make an attempt at being exclusive. My brain is getting clouded.
The day after our 2nd meet, she goes out for drinks with some of her friends after derby practice. Eventually she gets drunk and brings up the girls texting me again. I deflect. She persists. Eventually she gets frustrated and tells me I’m “a typical male” and that I “have no imagination”. I don’t put up with personal attacks from people, and even as much as I thought she was going to be such a great girl to hang out with a little longer-term, I still decide to NEXT her at this point. I don’t respond to her, and just go about my business.
We had plans for the next day (which was yesterday), and finally around 1:30 PM she texts me asking if we’re still on and what time she should be ready, just like nothing happened. I ignore the message.
About 5:30 she sends me a couple of very lengthy, rude and inappropriate text messages.
Second mistake: I decide to respond.
I text her that I really didn’t appreciate the things she said last night, and that I don’t tolerate that. She acts surprised and texts back that she was just joking, and sorry if she didn’t put any smileys or lol’s in the messages. I know this to be bullshit, so I don’t play along.
She’s continued to message me, and I continue to delete those messages. In my experience, she’ll forget about it after a few days. I sure hope so.
Moral of the story, for me, was:
Even if a girl seems to be cool, independent and have her head on straight you still want to be weary. When you use the stuff that Chase teaches to the absolute max, girls will absolutely fall head over heels for you, and they’ll damn near die trying to get you to commit to them and become exclusive. So be careful, and try to read the red flags and let your brain do the thinking, and not your peder.
This girl had it all going on by outward appearances, and was a superb lay, but her inner craziness came out and I ended up having to deal with quite a lot of drama. Still not sure if it was worth it or not.
All the best,
NarrowJ
Anyway, this is something that’s happened to me just in the past several days or so that I have to share with you guys. Sometimes you meet someone and their outward actions and appearances are completely normal, and you might even think they’re great and wonderful and have it all together… and then you *really* get to know them.
This girl seemed to have all the makings of good, potential girlfriend. And, it turned out horribly awry. Usually my reports have at least somewhat happy endings. This one does not. Hoping this can help guys keep themselves out of situations like this.
First meeting:
I met this girl through a mutual friend while out for drinks a couple of weeks ago. Shoulder length blonde hair, about 5’7” and dressed in professional attire. After some conversation/deep-diving, I find out she’s 28 years old and finished law school 2 years ago and is practicing locally doing litigation on corporate-related issues, aspires to have her own firm at some point, etcetera.
At this point, I can’t say I’m super attracted to her. It must be her work clothes or something. Even though I’m not 100% into her, I’m still giving her the same eye contact and vibe that I have attained over the time I’ve been training myself on them.
However, her attraction to me is rather quite obvious from the very start. This intrigues me a little. I start to “give her a chance”, mentally.
Eventually, she tells me that she plays semi-professional roller derby. I did not know there was such a thing. She shows me some photos of her in action that she has on her phone, and she pulls a player card (like a baseball card/bubble gum card) out of her purse and shows it to me. The position she plays is “Jammer”, who she explains is the team’s single point scoring skater whose object is to lap as many opposing skaters as possible, while her teammates block opponents from basically taking her out.
I tell you what, the whole roller derby thing. The pictures that she was showing me, I could see how fit and athletic she was, and some of the pictures she just looked like a bad m*therf*cker. I’m thinking: “Wow, there’s a lot more to this girl than I originally thought”
We continue to chat and it gets late, and we both have to work early in the morning. I can’t pull her then and there, so I give her a passionate kiss by her vehicle and we part ways.
During the interaction we had exchanged phone numbers. She begins to text me frequently.
Second meeting:
The water heater in my home had crapped out, and it was going to take me a couple days to get a new one. She had texted me asking if I needed anything, here’s the texts:
Her: Hey there, all ok? Need anything?
Me: Haha could use a shower, but it’s all good
Her: Well, I promise to maybe not peek lol. But if you need to, you can always shower here.
Me: Really? That would be awesome because it’s a 20 minute drive to my mom’s house.
Her: DefinitelyJust let me know when
I actually call her at this point. She says she hopes it wasn’t awkward to offer me her shower. I say it wasn’t, and that I’ll grab some things and head her way.
When I get there, we sit on her couch and talk for about 10-15 minutes. I get four text messages during this time span. Each time my phone goes off, she looks down at it. First one was Kimberly, then two from Lydia and another from Amber. She says something like “Jesus Christ, you’d think that when a guy starts dating a girl that he would slow down a little bit”. She laughs so I am not sure if she’s joking or not. A lot of times women will act like it’s a joke, while still trying to send the message.
Ok, this should have been a red flag but she had on short shorts and a cleavage revealing halter top, so my mind was fogged a bit. I end up grabbing a shower there, and come back out on the couch and sit by her. Within a minute or two, we begin to make out on the couch. I slip my hand down her shorts and go to work, and eventually this leads to us ending up in her bedroom.
An hour passes.
Another hour passes.
We seriously had sex for about two hours, and I am serious when I say that there was no breaks in between. I ravaged her at times, slowed down at times, ravaged her body again, repeat. By the time I was done with her she was a shaking mess and could barely speak. She clutched me tightly, her lower body vibrating in a puddle of her own juices for about 45 minutes until she finally fell asleep.
All of that may have been a mistake… But she was so sexy, and outside of the comment she made about the text messages, seemed like a totally awesome girl. I mean, come on. She’s a lawyer, so she’s independent, intelligent and savvy… right? She plays a sport regularly, which keeps her even busier and maintains a rock-hard figure and the stamina to last for hours in bed.
Things get crazy
It’s funny, I’m so pumped about this girl that I start thinking I could actually make an attempt at being exclusive. My brain is getting clouded.
The day after our 2nd meet, she goes out for drinks with some of her friends after derby practice. Eventually she gets drunk and brings up the girls texting me again. I deflect. She persists. Eventually she gets frustrated and tells me I’m “a typical male” and that I “have no imagination”. I don’t put up with personal attacks from people, and even as much as I thought she was going to be such a great girl to hang out with a little longer-term, I still decide to NEXT her at this point. I don’t respond to her, and just go about my business.
We had plans for the next day (which was yesterday), and finally around 1:30 PM she texts me asking if we’re still on and what time she should be ready, just like nothing happened. I ignore the message.
About 5:30 she sends me a couple of very lengthy, rude and inappropriate text messages.
Second mistake: I decide to respond.
I text her that I really didn’t appreciate the things she said last night, and that I don’t tolerate that. She acts surprised and texts back that she was just joking, and sorry if she didn’t put any smileys or lol’s in the messages. I know this to be bullshit, so I don’t play along.
She’s continued to message me, and I continue to delete those messages. In my experience, she’ll forget about it after a few days. I sure hope so.
Moral of the story, for me, was:
Even if a girl seems to be cool, independent and have her head on straight you still want to be weary. When you use the stuff that Chase teaches to the absolute max, girls will absolutely fall head over heels for you, and they’ll damn near die trying to get you to commit to them and become exclusive. So be careful, and try to read the red flags and let your brain do the thinking, and not your peder.
This girl had it all going on by outward appearances, and was a superb lay, but her inner craziness came out and I ended up having to deal with quite a lot of drama. Still not sure if it was worth it or not.
All the best,
NarrowJ
