What is the best answer to the question of a girl when she asks you "what kind of girls do you like?"

[RedNeck]

As the title says, should I qualify or disqualify her? or give something in between?

Thanks,
Red

 

[Kvothe]

This sounds like a test, and I think both answers you suggested would be wrong.

My answer (atm) would be something like:

Me: It depends... There are a lot of qualities that can make someone attractive, for example, you've probably met guys who were attractive to you-and maybe some were the type that was instantaneous, from the get-go, while others were more slow-growing attraction. I think what matters is how someone makes you feel, and I like to be around people with whom I can be spontaneous, authentic, and free-would you consider yourself that kind of person?

If she responds positively, she's qualifying to you, and you should reward her. If she responds negatively, take away some of your attention, break rapport maybe, or do something else that disqualifies her.

I think something like that would be a more powerful answer than qualifying or disqualifying.

The "it depends" tests are hard imo (and not currently my forte), so any more experienced seducers, I'd def love to hear how yall might respond-as well as whether my response is good/bad/wrong

 

[mist]

I'd look away give it thought then look her in her eyes and say "chemistry."

From there I would continue based off her response and intent

Is she going to try to pry and qualify?

Is she going to pry then disqualify?

Is she trying to sus out my position as a lover or boyfriend?

Is she bringing this up early in the convo or in an isolated spot where maybe talking shouldn't be happening (escalation window)?

Before or after a man and woman frame established/escalation?

What compliance have I gained or she showcased? Her asking this first isolation is different than her asking this after we've made out. Different feelings of investment and intent.

In this question I have no idea the context or stage, but my safety ambiguous response would be

"Chemistry" paired with tight eye contact and if possible use this thread to close proximity.

Many fun, sensual, delightful things you can get into when discussing chemistry.

So open too that if she tries to disqualify before pinning you down she's just being a brat, but if she disqualifies after you go into what that means or looks like to you...might have some room to consider if you'd like to continue the set.

Never had a woman disqualify it though. Even allowed me to get sexual as if there is chemistry present many women have agreed with me...the timescale, rules, etc doesn't matter provided comfort, trust, and openness is present.

Then you can explore that chemistry together at whatever pace works

after she eats that up

 

[Chad Tyrone]

"I have never thought about it ... would give it a thought later"

You pass the test while still shutting down the subject

Could also tell her you dig brunettes if she's blonde but that would really depend on how you got your non-verbals down.You tell her (what girls you dig that are the opposite of what she is) then look at her thoughtfully and sexily with a playful smile almost cracking into a laugh and then pull her in.

More like push-pulling ...you are pushing her away with your words but at the same time your actions are different.Gets her intrigued by you.

I mean come across as if you are just fucking with her.

But yeah could go for the first option most of the time ...most girls may take the second literally and then auto-reject(your attainability goes down low)

Try them out tho... would recommend the second if you got your body fundamentals down-pat.

Chad Tyrone

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

As the title says, should I qualify or disqualify her? or give something in between?

Thanks,
Red

1. What are your goals in general?
2. What are your specific goals with the girl?
3. Is this online or offline?
4. At what point during the seduction time line did she say this?
5. What was her intent?

These questions determine your answer more than her actual question.

 

[Warped Mindless]

“The kind that inspires me.”

 

[Lantern]

"Feminine."

 

[POB]

"What kind of girls do you like?"​

The ones without a pecker....like you

 

[Police dog]

Many good advices here. I am going to tell you what not to say: don’t try to convince her that she is exactly what you like (even if it’s true) because many girls will see it as being desperate. But as always it depends on a particular situation.

 

[Regal Tiger]

Last time I got this question this answer seemed to work, although quick caveat it was a woman I had less than zero interest in so take it with a grain of salt

Her: what do you like?
Me: Midgets! Oh yeah big into can't live without em

Again I didn't want her and was just saying whatever came to mind. I had fun and it greatly tickled my ribcage lol

 

[Skills]

As the title says, should I qualify or disqualify her? or give something in between?

Thanks,
Red

I usually say do you have a mirror? Look at a miiror and that is your answer... seems to work for me then i say a cool low drama girl with good chemestry, conection and amazing sex...

 

[RedNeck]

1. What are your goals in general?
2. What are your specific goals with the girl?
3. Is this online or offline?
4. At what point during the seduction time line did she say this?
5. What was her intent?

These questions determine your answer more than her actual question.

1. To sleep with her
2. To sleep with her
3. Online
4. At the end of the date after couple of drinks
5. I do not know, but my guess she wanted to see if she fit my certeria

 

[RedNeck]

“The kind that inspires me.”

I like this one.

Great responses as overall. Thank you guys

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

If you're in A2 describe the opposite of her
If you're in A3 come up with qualities she has to prove to you
If you're in C1 describe qualities useful for your goal (such as sexual frames you can set on her)
If you're in C2 describe personality qualities you've observed in her
If you're in C3 describe sexual vibes you picked up from her
If you're in S1 describe her wet pussy
If you're in S2 oh wait we don't do S2 anymore
If you're in S3 you can figure this one out yourself I think...

 

[Will_V]

Yeah completely depends on the situation, her attitude, the point in the interaction, etc.

Basically, the answer is 'whatever you need to say to adjust the frame in the right direction'.