Not all providers are of the same cloth. Think of Hugh Hefner, Arabian billionaires, the sexual deviants of Hollywood.
Alpha Fucks Beta Buxs is a simplistic model that holds some truth and generally helps free men who are low quality providers with very little lover qualities into developing higher lover qualities.
This I agree with somewhat. There are plenty of people toiling away in their careers for money and women who lack seductive abilities and don't have the status to account for that. There's also providers cleaning up on a level a lover couldn't even touch due to their access, status, and money, and financial freedom.
Overall it is better in my opinion to improve with women rather than focus solely on the money route. But to deny that money is a route to intimacy with women is inaccurate.
You can argue about the quality of the women that men get using the money route though. Plenty of high status men with money are unhappy with their women. They also have WAY MORE options for quick sex though. It can't be understated that the relationship front takes a hit for a vast majority of them due to lacking what you are describing. Also they might not even have time for all the women on their doorstep due to their business venture causing them to hastily choose a low quality woman who sleeps with a lover on the side. This does exist.
Do not discount the provider in the Sexual Market Place. Women don't. Especially if they are an elite provider. High Quality Lovers and Providers will both have women knocking on their doors. This does exist.
Being the best version of both really doesn't cause you any harm. Presenting one in the wrong scenario could though.
Like If she wants a relationship and you do what most guys do by being a fake provider until they get laid ( if they even do) and then ditching.
She wants to get laid and you keep rattling off about your value and assets quickly making her ditch you or attracting women who only screen for that which can also give you a long courtship.
The examples are infinite in how you could use these frames improperly for a set and not get your desired outcome.
Not really sure what you mean with this either. This seems more dangerous then my statement.
Some girls just want to get fucked. Most women are not able to get with the top provider. They meet a provider at their belt level.
If this really was a ALL WOMEN WANT then there wouldn't be a space for us motherfuckers in this marketplace
This is more of a dance than a business negotiation.
Provider seduction is as interesting and worthwhile as lover seduction. If High Quality.
Lighten up friend. Being a provider isn't the end of the world. Women don't cut you off from pussy indefinitely because you are a provider nor will you get open access to pussy for being a lover. It's about quality, your probability/skill, and your aim with a particular set.
Work on both. You'll feel better and meet cool women. Or don't it's your life really man! Do what you want