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hey everyone,
I recently went to a few outdoor events in my area, the kind that attract a lot of public. I did a few approaches when I saw obvious AIs, and noticed a trend.
I would get a rather obvious AI from a girl, start a conversation (always indirect, i'm not ballsy enough to go direct yet), and she will respond warmly or even enthusiastically. I'd give her a compliment 15-20s in the conversation to set a sexual vibe and she'd respond positively. I would do some kino, and again, positive response.
All good so far, but there'd be a BF nearby. One girl was waiting for her BF to come, so she waved him and told me "oh my bf is coming" - and then introduced us. It was awkward but I was friendly with the guy and we had a small chat, then I bowed out.
Another had her bf coming and she said goodbye and went away with him. Yet another had her BF come, introduced me to him again, and he looked visibly confused, as in "who is this guy". The girl was all smiley and cheerful so he didn't freak out thankfully.
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So, what could be the cause of this? If a girl has a BF literally coming to her, why would she be giving AIs and responding positively to approaches, kino and compliments? I feel like I'm missing something here.
I recently went to a few outdoor events in my area, the kind that attract a lot of public. I did a few approaches when I saw obvious AIs, and noticed a trend.
I would get a rather obvious AI from a girl, start a conversation (always indirect, i'm not ballsy enough to go direct yet), and she will respond warmly or even enthusiastically. I'd give her a compliment 15-20s in the conversation to set a sexual vibe and she'd respond positively. I would do some kino, and again, positive response.
All good so far, but there'd be a BF nearby. One girl was waiting for her BF to come, so she waved him and told me "oh my bf is coming" - and then introduced us. It was awkward but I was friendly with the guy and we had a small chat, then I bowed out.
Another had her bf coming and she said goodbye and went away with him. Yet another had her BF come, introduced me to him again, and he looked visibly confused, as in "who is this guy". The girl was all smiley and cheerful so he didn't freak out thankfully.
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So, what could be the cause of this? If a girl has a BF literally coming to her, why would she be giving AIs and responding positively to approaches, kino and compliments? I feel like I'm missing something here.