I did six approaches in day game today. I'm disappointed with myself because I could have done 10. 10 was the target. It is still an improvement on last week as I did it entirely by myself.
Girl #1 -
Girl #2 - This girl went into American Apparel. I went inside as well. She left, then I approached. This probably wasn't the best way to do it, but I still got the approach done. She asked me which way I was walking and we walked and talked. I think the conversation drifted a bit though, I found it difficult to connect.
Girl #3 -
Girl #4 - She looked back at me as I left the shopping centre. I just really said hi and fluffed my lines a bit, but I was still pleased with how quickly I did this
Girl #5 - This girl responded well to me. My approach was direct and strong. She was just about to go into a shop. I managed to make a bit of a joke out of that, and said goodbye to her.
Girl #6 - This girl responded well to me as well.
I cant really remember how the other two approaches went. I found it hard to act with no hesitation. I know I could have done better. However, looking at it, I had some good interactions with these girls. And I remembered to smile and try not to take things too seriously.
A few minutes ago I was a bit depressed when I looked at the spreadsheet I've been keeping this year. I've gotten laid once from my 500+ approaches this year.
But then, when I dug a bit deeper, I saw that I had collected around 30 phone numbers (I stopped keeping tabs for a while), kissed about 18 girls, got 12 girls home with me and got further than a kiss with another two of them. So perhaps I'm not doing so badly after all. I'm not seeking validation here, just trying to reaffirm to myself that I'm making progress. That's the thing that really scares me more than approaching - not improving.
I want results and it's difficult for me sometimes to keep the faith through the nights and days when you get no leads.
So the things I definitely have improved are:
- Approaching. I couldn't before, and I can now (just not as easily as I'd like - I want to be able to approach girls with no hesitation)
- Going out solo. I can do this now
- Moving girls
- Boyfriend disqualification
- Deep diving, summing things up and repeating things back to girls
Things I can work on:
- Having no hesitation about approaching
- Touching girls more
- Looking for and rewarding compliance
- Understanding that women love sex and really knowing this on a deep level
- Inviting girls home
- Seizing opportunities
- Persisting
I suppose I just have to keep going. It helps to remind myself of what I've accomplished so far but I still have a way to go. Out again tonight, another 10 approaches is on the way.
Dylan
Girl #1 -
Girl #2 - This girl went into American Apparel. I went inside as well. She left, then I approached. This probably wasn't the best way to do it, but I still got the approach done. She asked me which way I was walking and we walked and talked. I think the conversation drifted a bit though, I found it difficult to connect.
Girl #3 -
Girl #4 - She looked back at me as I left the shopping centre. I just really said hi and fluffed my lines a bit, but I was still pleased with how quickly I did this
Girl #5 - This girl responded well to me. My approach was direct and strong. She was just about to go into a shop. I managed to make a bit of a joke out of that, and said goodbye to her.
Girl #6 - This girl responded well to me as well.
I cant really remember how the other two approaches went. I found it hard to act with no hesitation. I know I could have done better. However, looking at it, I had some good interactions with these girls. And I remembered to smile and try not to take things too seriously.
A few minutes ago I was a bit depressed when I looked at the spreadsheet I've been keeping this year. I've gotten laid once from my 500+ approaches this year.
But then, when I dug a bit deeper, I saw that I had collected around 30 phone numbers (I stopped keeping tabs for a while), kissed about 18 girls, got 12 girls home with me and got further than a kiss with another two of them. So perhaps I'm not doing so badly after all. I'm not seeking validation here, just trying to reaffirm to myself that I'm making progress. That's the thing that really scares me more than approaching - not improving.
I want results and it's difficult for me sometimes to keep the faith through the nights and days when you get no leads.
So the things I definitely have improved are:
- Approaching. I couldn't before, and I can now (just not as easily as I'd like - I want to be able to approach girls with no hesitation)
- Going out solo. I can do this now
- Moving girls
- Boyfriend disqualification
- Deep diving, summing things up and repeating things back to girls
Things I can work on:
- Having no hesitation about approaching
- Touching girls more
- Looking for and rewarding compliance
- Understanding that women love sex and really knowing this on a deep level
- Inviting girls home
- Seizing opportunities
- Persisting
I suppose I just have to keep going. It helps to remind myself of what I've accomplished so far but I still have a way to go. Out again tonight, another 10 approaches is on the way.
Dylan