Out yest - NY eve
Had decided to keep it w friends and chill, avoiding any couple-sorta dinner of death. Glad i did. Had a fun night w a new social circle group - 5 people.
Intent for the night:
just to push myself to open more - minimingle, presence on entries to areas and spit game. As good as can do with a non seducer group.
Overall execution to intent:
Not much sassy shit to to write, no lay potentials not even close since the venue we ended with was not w quality level nor am i sharpshooting on command these days. But i felt i got my mingle back as it was in the good days on and i shot a more punch style presence which i noted girls considered and were impacted by - just these lil reflections i noted in them, lags to their talking in sets where they just enjoyed me and i noted i got points up in their minds and sexual tension initiated from my more potent presence. Especially wilder, ballbreaker state type girls. i should capitalise on this and steal them away.
Along the night I spit game everywhere and was in so many sets. Its so ingrained in me to mingle. One of the guy i was with was continually amazed like wow you got serious game especially referring to my impact to girls and verbals in sets.. two other guys were just baffled lol. They chode crystalled a lot so i tried to push energy into them but once guys redraw like that its tough. One fun chick was w us too - coupled with the first guy. But we had so much fun and i loved their open positive attitudes all night. Good shit. A small note to self is that i Wanna be TRULY cool in all my social groups - make people enjoy their times and be a cool sexy fun and affable guy that makes them feel good(SC training btw).
i noted that everyone sorta is a bit amazed by me which allows me to flow between the group and sets/the venue easily. I opened a lot from the group into adjacent sets and lone wolfes - w good lockins leaning. Lot of good techniques are just there ingrained.
Key work areas
- I dont capitalise on the effects i make eg mingle effect on groups/chicks - slow down roll and pay attention to opportunities
- I dont get connection with sets/ eg mixed groups which makes them react to me when they see me again.
- My verbal progressions needs some work. straight forw.
- I dont capture enough initally Or via presence.. this comes from my feel i believe & lack of radiating presence.. this is a strong key to transform!
- Get my ass to better venues, network with good pees to hit out w. (buys shit, enjoys my skills and being etc)
A good change i noted from outing last week (3 days ago).
- I was truly back in mingling, shooting miniopeners, exitting some places staying a lil longer and shooting "smooth verbals" or 2nd gen verbals as some call em. I need to use the mingle effects for more cindarella effects that i capitalise on. I noticed several sets totally open up to me where i could have shot more connection which is key for a few strong sets in the venue. But fine. The mingle is ON! Also good to position me near key sets i can either side open or look for opportune moments.
From reflections from outing 3 days ago yesterday i developed a 3 layer verbal model that is to be executed side by side:
1) Spit Game part (potent presence and tech impact) - I had a lot of spit game oldschool game back in the arsenal - Good old "You guys look like the party openers"
, you-reads "initially you looked angelic but then your true nature came out
.. i like it
.. transfer into sexual predator gambit: "its funny, ive alsways been bewildered about how guys are seen as the sexual pursuers when its so clear that women are the actual prdators and guys are just... prey!!
... have you ever noticed how women...
+ then pointing to my target girl everytime she had a certain look to her. Lot of push pulls, MCRs, and just a load of early style party game to hook in more potent chaotic environments.
2) Progressive Topic stream part - to roll across topics smoothly but smartly. My topic stream was a lil meh and how i connect it better to her world unitl hook or its on moment is on. This is def. the next thing to get down.
3) smooth talk - to do smooth style verbals for immersive experience for the girls(ss, 2nd gen). this is not good atm. So i am gonna create a bubble structure and just rif things down. This needs a bit of training. Elicitation, her attention, lead rolls and riffing. Then go materialise> shoot.
4) once the above is down more sexual potency needs to be added to add a subtle escalatory layer across the interactions to escalate the vibe and turn her on. i will use tempting escalations and keep an eye on her sexual readiness and activation in regards to me.
Anyways - its all awakening and my social ability to lord a place and create opportunities and Social proof is actually quite tight. Good.
At the same time i can add sharp shooting (silently materialise smooth verbals game )when i feel like it or spot opportune moments. Allows for various tactics. If i can amp up set handling itll be potent for variations of strategies fitting to various situations.
I didnt do any sharp shooting e yesterday. Outing 3 days ago I did one - a perf one in a cocktail bar last week
>hotgirl leaves her group walking toward the bar
>glow sees it and materialises next to her
>i side glance and our lines of vision meet in front, girls will from this hook slightly and be aware to your presence and the potential for a conenction.
>from there i look over at her w a slow sexual tension perfect face a slight lag and i shoot a "hey how is your night"
>interaction was meh and non potent - i noted i need to amp up the verbals for verbal immersion of her and add some more flavor. I was a lil meh on the topic introduction even if she even gave me great leads via my slight elicitation. All good - just need to drill a smooth verbal process to ignite bubbles and slide in its on moments etc. Commands and the likes.
But she opened so smoothly.. reflect on the openings feel and affect on her, to stir an initial path into sensual feelings in her and attraction. Hmmm...
This demands some attention and awakening., in action.
One key verbal route w her was to transfer into dancing - where i have loads of knowledge and deeper understanding + already developed SOT verbiage. I should just have elicited into HER world around it vs giving mine firstly. Elicit her values around doing it, listing a few potent options to stir her mind to show i am very pleasant to speak w. Ignite it. hm... good.
Today i further developed a new pull structure. that ill display in field rapports centred around music at my place and quality of music(authority frame). PD reason to go to my place.
Any how - good stuff when i was half focussed. It seems more a return of things than anything. More unrestrained. hm. Need to consider if this is an inner game problem for me currently. actually.. i know it is. LOL.
Anyways in sum - social presence is back on - loads of things to just refine and reactivate to create a potent presence.
Im not getting the presence impact at all i used to get. Need to reflect a lil on that...
Strong things in place to build off
- Mingle ability
- Sharpshooting - materialise + smooth open
- No bs with more potent girls - sizzling meets/hot vibes. Sparks shoot!
- Girls eye ball me when i dance. Use it. Engage them from their response nature adaptively(do the perv insecurely or do they sizzle confidently or just submerged in arousal.. yumme feel + dancing where they can secretly perv at me.
- slow down a lil but maintain active even keel of forward momentum. Add weight to it all. More confidence. Cast a web.
- For snipar game/sharp shooting - more focus on her and lead activation, smooth verbals reignite - topic structure and language techs
- Play with shifts in game spitting and increase repertoire
- create better connections with sets and isolated openings next time. To roll along opportune sexual connections immediately (move close eg - lockin or side miniisolate when its there!)
- use mingling and SP - eye the reactions and seize them smoothly. Slowing down a lil will support this.
Initial "smooth talk" package for reaching bubble
Just a simple structure to help have a progressive plan for initial immersion. Just to have a lil framework to ignite things from in my unrustification. im sure once i get back into itll transform a lot.
OPENING HER - smooth style or with a lil punch I badass I strong activating her lock-in vua posture of expectancy or alike.
1) How is your night going?
R you a xxx?
Do you know tha feeling when >> insert command ? resonating statement that a cool guy would use (display im cool) that evokes her.
Initially you seem x but then y? Double Cold read OR mixed warm read w mcr. Dual Reads - to get her to react and focus on her
How did you feel about.. whatever is relevant nearby?
2) Shoot a What-she-does-read R you a xxx?
(great for transitions)
OR initial starter question: What do you do when youre not partying, drinking and chatting up handsome guys at the bar?
> elicitation of values behind it
Note that this is a basic normal Chode type small talk questioning you can do anywhere. The reads and eg command attitude can amp it up a lil.
3) how she relate to the place/event thing around?
Tactic on response
- Elicit on leads!! Mirror pace etc
- use little angles and vibes to ignite more potency.
- Use her answers to amp up energy a lil
- Smooth vibe, vibe shifts to stir emotion for her, amping up in relation to her responses.
Key is to subtly ignite topics and leads from her world and use responses
Can also amp up energy 20% with read style engagement or challenge her if shes more feisty
- eg. Tatoos - have you ver noticed how.. ive always bee fascinated by,
- Dancing - immersive, music - being creative, creative endavours.. basic dance reality pace, club as environment etc.
- Travelling - travel gambit, cultures, flirt cultures, hookup cultures, approaches (light sexual frames)
- Hookup culture
- Being in the moment - SOT, the world diss-appears around you, minutes becomes hours.. full immersion, those nigths of no expectations...
- Indulgence SOT
- Connection SOT, instant connections gambit
also add potent responses an vibe shifts (julien)
8) Somewhere along drop a Music pull bait - Head phones and quality - sound experience, eargasms.. becoming the music
- will be added as i flow but i initially use commands, trance words and RPs
This is just to have a base and overly techical at glance. its not. i train each component separately and adjust as i get insights from field. It flows well and you will notice smart immersive routes that leads to what we call a bubble between me and her.
Once down its about tuning more into the energy of the moment/her.
And i assume better topics. Ill improve as a go along.
Please note that this is a riker-based model mixed with more oldschool spit game type techs and rolls of what i call sniper game where you use an evolved form of hovering we call "materialisation" (Credit @Bacchus
). also check Mysterys "Over the shoulder type openings" and sixty, sleazy, cozy and the likes for the nature of sexual tension and attraction creation.