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Thanks @Skippy.
i just realised that these #2 are the initial back bone of the structure im playing with and sorta same same as #1 which has more nuance and a selected mood it foisters.
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i just realised that these #2 are the initial back bone of the structure im playing with and sorta same same as #1 which has more nuance and a selected mood it foisters.
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Just a note on verbals to
- be actively driving them. Even if one has more of a directional role its like playing pinball - you need to see the rolls and time your doings.
- be attentive - slight lag can make her close hesitant ackwardness or initiate self protective measures.
Think more even keel than tense
today i
- opened with a gesture for her, saying i didtn wanna break her moment
- opened w a relateable note with several topics embedded part informative to local norms eg. aka both stimulating and informationally interesting - spinning of her moment
- asked questions to activate her on the topic we discussed
- shot three sots in five min - some by references to my own life eg how i prefer more spontanous living and how i and a female friend literally do our things in a spontanous manner.
- Several feel commands and descriptive snippets - i use shorter lines than whats mostly written in her, i prefer stacking multiple shorter describers etc. as it works more enchanting.
Fasttrackng verbals i suppose, stacked sois..
One topic was the difference of where youre born and from and where you really feel home... where i layed out a mysterious intriquing reflection. she answered it well. very relatable easy to launch into travel and where would you go if... questions
just number closed but as she left she blushsmiled and passed by saying bye - obvious early stage singysongy mode. i was meeting a friend at the same location.
Later i totally flunked by challenging on an opening response. too soon. too feisty. lol.
- be actively driving them. Even if one has more of a directional role its like playing pinball - you need to see the rolls and time your doings.
- be attentive - slight lag can make her close hesitant ackwardness or initiate self protective measures.
Think more even keel than tense
today i
- opened with a gesture for her, saying i didtn wanna break her moment
- opened w a relateable note with several topics embedded part informative to local norms eg. aka both stimulating and informationally interesting - spinning of her moment
- asked questions to activate her on the topic we discussed
- shot three sots in five min - some by references to my own life eg how i prefer more spontanous living and how i and a female friend literally do our things in a spontanous manner.
- Several feel commands and descriptive snippets - i use shorter lines than whats mostly written in her, i prefer stacking multiple shorter describers etc. as it works more enchanting.
Fasttrackng verbals i suppose, stacked sois..
One topic was the difference of where youre born and from and where you really feel home... where i layed out a mysterious intriquing reflection. she answered it well. very relatable easy to launch into travel and where would you go if... questions
just number closed but as she left she blushsmiled and passed by saying bye - obvious early stage singysongy mode. i was meeting a friend at the same location.
Later i totally flunked by challenging on an opening response. too soon. too feisty. lol.
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Verbal training kicking in
Funny - doing riker these days. Just language techs but still awakens past training.
Ii notice women exploding in energised directions frm this. An ability to make them excited with very little.
it comes easily as its trained but takes some days to settle and contextualise properly for better precision and ability to play with the language and techniques.
it works
- Both from what i start - word usage, you framing, commands etc.-
- And from nudging them in certain directions eg using binder commands, and eg. listing. and more descriptive emotional language
it doesnt take much for me i notice - just a well place comment or nudge and they unfold themselves
pinball verbals
its gonna be fun to set them in motion then stimulate and lead ond mindset and nuance on specific topics
slowly build my model around a core verbal path with escalatory moves surrounding it. 2 levelled.
The dance of increased intimacy - micro and fractional level of things. A first and a second layer.
the other thing ive noticed is how supersensitive some women are to the lil interplays of moving forward in showing interest to one another. its so much more detailed than what ive seen before.
i diverse between micro escalations and fractional escalations. the latter demands sensory and instinctual level attunement and use.
but maybe its just in the hesitant phases
that said i rcall it from more flirt close stages too - when shes initially attracted and curious to me
its something to read from each girl
anyways its highly sofisticated and micro-sensory to each move and if we continue to stay in the build and exchange.
Process appears sloooow, and fractional
but i sense thats just about understanding it to drive things. can be explosion at some states. eg when shes kiss opening ready.
Derived thoughts on escalation
The level of escalation needs to follow and be softer, smoother and proactive. then less is more cause.
happens at the fractional level
A steady momentum of fractional escalations is key to make her feel its genuine and move her. Some moves depict it stronger but these should always be after the more subtle ones i believe. prob state dependent. and more too it. but good initial hypothesis.
at im developing a new differentation of escalations - diffrent types that works side by side to delivr different impacts to make the escalation much more effective, even impossible not to be affected by positively for most women.
Funny - doing riker these days. Just language techs but still awakens past training.
Ii notice women exploding in energised directions frm this. An ability to make them excited with very little.
it comes easily as its trained but takes some days to settle and contextualise properly for better precision and ability to play with the language and techniques.
it works
- Both from what i start - word usage, you framing, commands etc.-
- And from nudging them in certain directions eg using binder commands, and eg. listing. and more descriptive emotional language
it doesnt take much for me i notice - just a well place comment or nudge and they unfold themselves
pinball verbals
its gonna be fun to set them in motion then stimulate and lead ond mindset and nuance on specific topics
slowly build my model around a core verbal path with escalatory moves surrounding it. 2 levelled.
The dance of increased intimacy - micro and fractional level of things. A first and a second layer.
the other thing ive noticed is how supersensitive some women are to the lil interplays of moving forward in showing interest to one another. its so much more detailed than what ive seen before.
i diverse between micro escalations and fractional escalations. the latter demands sensory and instinctual level attunement and use.
but maybe its just in the hesitant phases
that said i rcall it from more flirt close stages too - when shes initially attracted and curious to me
its something to read from each girl
anyways its highly sofisticated and micro-sensory to each move and if we continue to stay in the build and exchange.
Process appears sloooow, and fractional
but i sense thats just about understanding it to drive things. can be explosion at some states. eg when shes kiss opening ready.
Derived thoughts on escalation
The level of escalation needs to follow and be softer, smoother and proactive. then less is more cause.
happens at the fractional level
A steady momentum of fractional escalations is key to make her feel its genuine and move her. Some moves depict it stronger but these should always be after the more subtle ones i believe. prob state dependent. and more too it. but good initial hypothesis.
at im developing a new differentation of escalations - diffrent types that works side by side to delivr different impacts to make the escalation much more effective, even impossible not to be affected by positively for most women.
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Simple close dg
- girl walking w her dog
- i pace up in front of her and stop a bit before then look at her over the should mystery style
- hey - do you know if i can get throuh this way?
- girl yes and explains how, sweet vibe
- i reality meta pace
- thanks im just having that feeling of actually being uncertain if this way would work w a grin
- gril: i totally know - huge smile
- dont wanna get lost in some dangersou neightbeour hood more sweet self laugh vibe
- girl laughs and obviously complies a lot
contined paces and we get into a talk. i fired of a lot of commands, negations, bindr commans and trancewords combined w elicitation
too lazy to outline
+ used the dog ofc. - fluffy love on 4 legs
#closed her and agreed on another walk.
recipe was situational question to relateable metapace that creates more of a stumble upon experience for her and is harmoneous
Building out my verbal techs - doing the work rikerstyle, excellent convos w. Bacchus and field application
- using negations
- using strings of commands
- using trance words
- adding smoothnes with weasel phrases
- using binder commands more
Its becoming more of a riff-like stream now centred around chains of commands or just a few of them. each language tech can allow for various steerings. eg negations can hint a more sexual direction in a pressure reducing manner which allows me to open her imagination on that area while steering a more approapriate at the time focal point. Its very potent - sorta like sois w barriers. Or shock and awe. Trance words opens her up more to a feely side/open/imagination of things.
This is verbal game on the right level not this surface bs people seem to advocate eg using SMMA. Most people need to add a whole other level of detail to their verbals.
Im slowly seeing contours of how my precision and tech understanding IN ACTION is forming allowing me to be flexible in it and adjust tactically.
Presence focus and hover walk-ins (sniper)
Gonna tightn my hover game and presence as well to strike her more nonverbally in between the lines. And also Boost my escalatory micro and fractional escalation game.
Had a super hesitant but gorgous Iranian girl be nervous to my eye contact today while still seeking it. Key to adjust to her paranoia and boost her in my engagement and keep the sexual intent on 2/100. just slightly grace her enough to make her feel. Without direct contact so she feels safe in observing me and then being warm and acknowledging with hints of prolonged ec - just a slight prolonged lag for her to be curious to my interest. Drive the transfer into intellectual.
- girl walking w her dog
- i pace up in front of her and stop a bit before then look at her over the should mystery style
- hey - do you know if i can get throuh this way?
- girl yes and explains how, sweet vibe
- i reality meta pace
- thanks im just having that feeling of actually being uncertain if this way would work w a grin
- gril: i totally know - huge smile
- dont wanna get lost in some dangersou neightbeour hood more sweet self laugh vibe
- girl laughs and obviously complies a lot
contined paces and we get into a talk. i fired of a lot of commands, negations, bindr commans and trancewords combined w elicitation
too lazy to outline
+ used the dog ofc. - fluffy love on 4 legs
#closed her and agreed on another walk.
recipe was situational question to relateable metapace that creates more of a stumble upon experience for her and is harmoneous
Building out my verbal techs - doing the work rikerstyle, excellent convos w. Bacchus and field application
- using negations
- using strings of commands
- using trance words
- adding smoothnes with weasel phrases
- using binder commands more
Its becoming more of a riff-like stream now centred around chains of commands or just a few of them. each language tech can allow for various steerings. eg negations can hint a more sexual direction in a pressure reducing manner which allows me to open her imagination on that area while steering a more approapriate at the time focal point. Its very potent - sorta like sois w barriers. Or shock and awe. Trance words opens her up more to a feely side/open/imagination of things.
This is verbal game on the right level not this surface bs people seem to advocate eg using SMMA. Most people need to add a whole other level of detail to their verbals.
Im slowly seeing contours of how my precision and tech understanding IN ACTION is forming allowing me to be flexible in it and adjust tactically.
Presence focus and hover walk-ins (sniper)
Gonna tightn my hover game and presence as well to strike her more nonverbally in between the lines. And also Boost my escalatory micro and fractional escalation game.
Had a super hesitant but gorgous Iranian girl be nervous to my eye contact today while still seeking it. Key to adjust to her paranoia and boost her in my engagement and keep the sexual intent on 2/100. just slightly grace her enough to make her feel. Without direct contact so she feels safe in observing me and then being warm and acknowledging with hints of prolonged ec - just a slight prolonged lag for her to be curious to my interest. Drive the transfer into intellectual.
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Random chat up in an SC i participate in. Lots of passthrough chicks and people. This is one example of how i use a sniper approach.
Bubble
know its gonna sounds fancy but i verbally brought a hot blonde today into the bubble but then lost her. Problem was that a brilliant entrepreneur sat on my right and we codeveloped a new venture on the spot which demanded my full attention as its a very feasible and interesting business idea. We both have good successes there so its one of those convos you focus in on when with someone whos really excellent in their field. This bubble i had w her was more of an energy-filled type bubble were we were into a glued like sense of interaction at the rim of a group type aka a mini-isolation created within a circle through the establishment of what we call a bubble that she and i both get locked into each other through. It was there with a certain density and we were glued to each other. She left without even saying goodbye directly to me. pretty sure she was disappointed. but could also be only bordering to its on moment and her not getting it as i felt she was a little slow on the uptake on sensual connection.
Reminder to self - GET back to her in a somewhat reasonable timeframe. Ive seen and done this many times now and keep doing it. Just keep her in the loop and show her attention.
bubbled her well through
- Noted her in a group in my sc
- i materialised in next to her and another blonde
- asking into her what she was in my SC for, multi thread chat
- After sitting us side by side a
- elicitation of her values and work etc.
- work and flow states
- traveling
- connections
used listing, adverbs and quite some embedded commands.
next
- let her charge me
- Add little hints of sexual tension to the bubble to ignite her, but only to sexually activate a little. also note her readiness for it more.
- Add more escalation of vibes at silence moments, and arousal displays. prox was good. Do this on the side in micro doses but enough to impact her. i could have been more tempting and sexually arousing.
- add more trance words and sequences aka lines of commands, adverbs, trance words and weasel statements in a flow.
- add sexual frames to initially open her up sexually, set her free around me.
- add sexual parts to bridge to romantic-sensual
- amp up a verbal core path a bit more for more centre lining to fall back on
- noted a few insecurities on my behalf that made me Not drive things as cool headed as i used too. A note to grow my escalatory seductive capacity. i was part hesitant at times. own it.
- get back into holding court in the group
- better connection nonverbally
this is an actionlist i will work on over the next month
...Ah i caught it now. A big part is that i did not connect with her beyond the words and presence. hm... need to feel into this. a problem ive had before. some sort of autoreaction. This is one of the bigger worms i have in my system.
Bubble
know its gonna sounds fancy but i verbally brought a hot blonde today into the bubble but then lost her. Problem was that a brilliant entrepreneur sat on my right and we codeveloped a new venture on the spot which demanded my full attention as its a very feasible and interesting business idea. We both have good successes there so its one of those convos you focus in on when with someone whos really excellent in their field. This bubble i had w her was more of an energy-filled type bubble were we were into a glued like sense of interaction at the rim of a group type aka a mini-isolation created within a circle through the establishment of what we call a bubble that she and i both get locked into each other through. It was there with a certain density and we were glued to each other. She left without even saying goodbye directly to me. pretty sure she was disappointed. but could also be only bordering to its on moment and her not getting it as i felt she was a little slow on the uptake on sensual connection.
Reminder to self - GET back to her in a somewhat reasonable timeframe. Ive seen and done this many times now and keep doing it. Just keep her in the loop and show her attention.
bubbled her well through
- Noted her in a group in my sc
- i materialised in next to her and another blonde
- asking into her what she was in my SC for, multi thread chat
- After sitting us side by side a
- elicitation of her values and work etc.
- work and flow states
- traveling
- connections
used listing, adverbs and quite some embedded commands.
next
- let her charge me
- Add little hints of sexual tension to the bubble to ignite her, but only to sexually activate a little. also note her readiness for it more.
- Add more escalation of vibes at silence moments, and arousal displays. prox was good. Do this on the side in micro doses but enough to impact her. i could have been more tempting and sexually arousing.
- add more trance words and sequences aka lines of commands, adverbs, trance words and weasel statements in a flow.
- add sexual frames to initially open her up sexually, set her free around me.
- add sexual parts to bridge to romantic-sensual
- amp up a verbal core path a bit more for more centre lining to fall back on
- noted a few insecurities on my behalf that made me Not drive things as cool headed as i used too. A note to grow my escalatory seductive capacity. i was part hesitant at times. own it.
- get back into holding court in the group
- better connection nonverbally
this is an actionlist i will work on over the next month
...Ah i caught it now. A big part is that i did not connect with her beyond the words and presence. hm... need to feel into this. a problem ive had before. some sort of autoreaction. This is one of the bigger worms i have in my system.
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Continued exercises doing riker and field.
I realised i had too little commands in my verbals so added streams of commands as the core focus these days.
Onto which i add weasel phrases, trance words, binder commands etc. as good as i can at the moment.
Anyways a good thing to start with this core stream of commands i find.
I was with a four people group today in an SC setting where i used it a lot. on various relevant areas and questions. i threw some in myself w bait, others i paced from their sayings. but i took more charge of the direction today w. commands and "As you..xxx" (start to, sit there, listen in, begin to) weasel phrase which seem to have stuck. also used others eg i read an interesting article yesterday.. I like to have at least two commands in a string. also used binder commands. And adverb clusters.
I note i need to control and vary my energy a lil better. But its obvious i had impact from the comments and peoples reactions.
i used two themes for particular command strings
- a certain skill our SC is focussed on and the process for "how you feel as that skill develops"
- travelling - a gambit ive outlined somewhere w 3 sots in it. This one works SO well as girls will lash onto and feel all three SOTs but one always strikes deeper for a fluid move into a SOT she reacts more to.
Good
- Held more court in the group (a focal point)
- Used streams of commands and binder commands and adverb clusters in cycles a few times. a structure is emerging. (a focal point)
next
- continue command stream
- I need to slow down after the command and before the adverb/adjective to ehphasize the particularr nuance and insure its taken in. I general i wanna adjust tempo and vary pace more. especially calm, soothing and slow
- I wanna add trance words for a deeper more imaginative experience.
- rehearse a few more weasel phrases
- Add "sexual listening" on endpoints (escalation/ignite sexual activation)
- Listen better to what shes actually saying - active listening and elicitation - connect w her words and points for tight pacing.
- activation of her on my points more eg the travel motivation she prefers.
will grow it until the 5 language tools all naturally flows rif style w a good array of adverbs/adjectives.
I realised i had too little commands in my verbals so added streams of commands as the core focus these days.
Onto which i add weasel phrases, trance words, binder commands etc. as good as i can at the moment.
Anyways a good thing to start with this core stream of commands i find.
I was with a four people group today in an SC setting where i used it a lot. on various relevant areas and questions. i threw some in myself w bait, others i paced from their sayings. but i took more charge of the direction today w. commands and "As you..xxx" (start to, sit there, listen in, begin to) weasel phrase which seem to have stuck. also used others eg i read an interesting article yesterday.. I like to have at least two commands in a string. also used binder commands. And adverb clusters.
I note i need to control and vary my energy a lil better. But its obvious i had impact from the comments and peoples reactions.
i used two themes for particular command strings
- a certain skill our SC is focussed on and the process for "how you feel as that skill develops"
- travelling - a gambit ive outlined somewhere w 3 sots in it. This one works SO well as girls will lash onto and feel all three SOTs but one always strikes deeper for a fluid move into a SOT she reacts more to.
Good
- Held more court in the group (a focal point)
- Used streams of commands and binder commands and adverb clusters in cycles a few times. a structure is emerging. (a focal point)
next
- continue command stream
- I need to slow down after the command and before the adverb/adjective to ehphasize the particularr nuance and insure its taken in. I general i wanna adjust tempo and vary pace more. especially calm, soothing and slow
- I wanna add trance words for a deeper more imaginative experience.
- rehearse a few more weasel phrases
- Add "sexual listening" on endpoints (escalation/ignite sexual activation)
- Listen better to what shes actually saying - active listening and elicitation - connect w her words and points for tight pacing.
- activation of her on my points more eg the travel motivation she prefers.
will grow it until the 5 language tools all naturally flows rif style w a good array of adverbs/adjectives.
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SUM: Late weeks
- So i established a training format incl SC training grounds for getting back in action. its now rolling w a focus on rikers model.
- My model is sniper and i mix verbals and smooth escalation in a cohesive flow. I change to dominance in one part or the other dependet on. situation.
Focal area: in short i need to get out and engage women - increase access.
- Establish access or touch points for girls. choose certain ones to increase access on how i like it.
- Start cold approach with intent. When i go in i go in to drive it to finish while enjoying it. im a lil too fluffy here.
- I also need to hold court more while using effects of doing that to create attraction and sexual attraction. Take the social centre.
- I mingle more smoothly around in social settings
so next CONCRETE steps
- Dress up more again, manage presence parts and escalation elements from more passive parts (on sight impact)
- Open with intent to close
- Increase access in three specific ways (select).
- court holding
- So i established a training format incl SC training grounds for getting back in action. its now rolling w a focus on rikers model.
- My model is sniper and i mix verbals and smooth escalation in a cohesive flow. I change to dominance in one part or the other dependet on. situation.
Focal area: in short i need to get out and engage women - increase access.
- Establish access or touch points for girls. choose certain ones to increase access on how i like it.
- Start cold approach with intent. When i go in i go in to drive it to finish while enjoying it. im a lil too fluffy here.
- I also need to hold court more while using effects of doing that to create attraction and sexual attraction. Take the social centre.
- I mingle more smoothly around in social settings
so next CONCRETE steps
- Dress up more again, manage presence parts and escalation elements from more passive parts (on sight impact)
- Open with intent to close
- Increase access in three specific ways (select).
- court holding
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Note to self:
Ive found that intentfull curiosity is very powerful opening and initial phase vibe that makes girl open much more harmoniously.
Continued or Strong intent can drive her to become fascinated and respond very well
Even if i drive it a bit more with intent - like when i really want to know - eg the lead singer.
i feel it evaporates all the protective judgmental stuff and sets a better focus
combining it with asking into something she does well - an honest feel of an admiration or liking that i compliment her on works well. prob because it coms across as very sincere
hm..
need to explore this
Ive found that intentfull curiosity is very powerful opening and initial phase vibe that makes girl open much more harmoniously.
Continued or Strong intent can drive her to become fascinated and respond very well
Even if i drive it a bit more with intent - like when i really want to know - eg the lead singer.
i feel it evaporates all the protective judgmental stuff and sets a better focus
combining it with asking into something she does well - an honest feel of an admiration or liking that i compliment her on works well. prob because it coms across as very sincere
hm..
need to explore this
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talk and walk w a LSE cutie
Not much to say here. Woman who is just my type physically, totally not my type mentally
Went through
- self improvement (her lead)
- dog life (her world)
- a subject from a speaker we saw
- connection (my lead)
- and i bridged it into 3 forms of attraction which seemed she had a flat response too. fair. i just shot it out a bit.
My flow of verbals was on the weaker side but fine to get some rehearsing in
i had a hard time getting her past her own difficult mind - shes a troubled type LSE. Hm.. have to give this some thought. im thinking being very affirmative to her in her insecurities might help as this is her resistance point. A troubled mind.. or was she in intellectual??? which would demand a more pace and lead sorta strategy strong pacing of her beliefs and life situation. Lemme try that w her next time.
she thanked me at the end and sayd it was cozy to walk which means shes ending it well with an indication she likes to hang. But her current resistance point i need to tip her past before a soft close. could also be ASD like reaction which i could frame us out of.
i wanna be a bit more calibrated here and relaxed for next time while pacing her well, then leading w nuances and authorithy
hm...
To add
- Sense her more
- Elicit more w her to get her lifeworld "out"
- pace her state and manage accordingly
Not much to say here. Woman who is just my type physically, totally not my type mentally
Went through
- self improvement (her lead)
- dog life (her world)
- a subject from a speaker we saw
- connection (my lead)
- and i bridged it into 3 forms of attraction which seemed she had a flat response too. fair. i just shot it out a bit.
My flow of verbals was on the weaker side but fine to get some rehearsing in
i had a hard time getting her past her own difficult mind - shes a troubled type LSE. Hm.. have to give this some thought. im thinking being very affirmative to her in her insecurities might help as this is her resistance point. A troubled mind.. or was she in intellectual??? which would demand a more pace and lead sorta strategy strong pacing of her beliefs and life situation. Lemme try that w her next time.
she thanked me at the end and sayd it was cozy to walk which means shes ending it well with an indication she likes to hang. But her current resistance point i need to tip her past before a soft close. could also be ASD like reaction which i could frame us out of.
i wanna be a bit more calibrated here and relaxed for next time while pacing her well, then leading w nuances and authorithy
hm...
To add
- Sense her more
- Elicit more w her to get her lifeworld "out"
- pace her state and manage accordingly
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A few noted specifics of pacing - and leading
I had a group sex talk convo yesterday. noted quite a few things on pacing so key just to capture this realisation. Prob made by others long ago but this time i really saw the power of it. And of i agree and what i call positive overwrites.
Things i noted
- One guy led the themes a lot by using paces eg guys suck at sex - tantric newbie who was citing whatver his teachers was saying. Anyways the paces caught attention and ignited discussion.
- I used i agree a lot and and this is important or whats important is to emphasise focus - worked really well
- My commands and points running of the paces were more taken in than the other guys, because i had strong frames and know more of sexual nuances so i provided insight and details on the lead side of things. Aka sexual pricing social frame gradually was established. i just had stronger mor positive pointers which shape direction with nuance and gives me authorthy at the same time. the strong positive angle eloquently delivered which teaches them a better perspective on the issue discussed.
I had a group sex talk convo yesterday. noted quite a few things on pacing so key just to capture this realisation. Prob made by others long ago but this time i really saw the power of it. And of i agree and what i call positive overwrites.
Things i noted
- One guy led the themes a lot by using paces eg guys suck at sex - tantric newbie who was citing whatver his teachers was saying. Anyways the paces caught attention and ignited discussion.
- I used i agree a lot and and this is important or whats important is to emphasise focus - worked really well
- My commands and points running of the paces were more taken in than the other guys, because i had strong frames and know more of sexual nuances so i provided insight and details on the lead side of things. Aka sexual pricing social frame gradually was established. i just had stronger mor positive pointers which shape direction with nuance and gives me authorthy at the same time. the strong positive angle eloquently delivered which teaches them a better perspective on the issue discussed.
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Integration of weigthfull and targeted-technical side
Too technical
had a good talk w a buddy yesterday where i realised im going too technical and my state follows and locks into a locked state. That state is too...clenching and overtargeted. I know its bad for seduction. one should never be too technical. let things breathe. But natural from taking a serious dive into riker. Theres a present state devellopment i need to create here integrating the two and i need to refine the technical side so that its motivational base is more healthy. Super important point here that only few will truly understand for anyone reading.
Another side ive been exploring is the second layer, where i slow down and activate all the resources i have on the more grounded emotional side. This one needs to be more activated alongside the other. i wonder what the trigger is... need to be attentive in my chat-ups
gonna play with those to see, integrate them and relayer in a healthy combined package.
Chatted up a two set yest and got into cancel culture. My pacing is getting there. Girls had lots of attitude but were just whining. im loosing respect for people like that.
Keys
- Activating the weightfulness more
- Noting the technical sides nature and how it hijacks a little
- exploring them side by side
- Finding the right pace of things from this place - theres a steady slowness to it and and activation within the weightfulness that i recall could awake for fuel.
on the conversation management side the key with the girls were
- Play with varieties of pacings
- Transfer into varieties of pressure same frame, different frame on various pacing focal points eg mindset, eg currrent reality eg. frame
- note when the pacing works... study the totality of what i did there... my subtext etc.
A big thing is that I need more lead and find ways to lead the whole convo in the direction of seductive. establish the convo steering model. The steering parts - i noticed pauses where i could have taken the lead - a point w. obvious potential for influence and could have driven her and the convo into new levels.
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A couple of pointers on pacings
1) Its not agreeing and its not something that happens in one shot. Pacing might as well show that you listen, and that you understand her or someones point. makes people feel seen, understood and heard.
The potentials are
- Show interest
- Show understanding
- Show agreement
- Show in depth knowledge/perspective by reality pacing
Each nuance provides for different things across a pacing continuum. Mixed with elicitation its dynamite.
Theres something about where im coming from when pacing i need to work on - a worm - i need to tightn its firm grip.
Field
btw i noted how i melted a girl with this the other day... how she literally shifted from intellectual to more soft over 20 min convo on cancel culture where i paced and lead with simple more positive strong perspective.
Also just moved one girl from random chat up > interestingness > to eliciting her values > to imaginative w. descriptive language ( photographer) and noted a clear shift in her engagement leves. Aka drove her through the convo management structure to a place of talking about what she liked. basics of my elicitation post. good hook albeit she was slightly nervous too. Could have continued for her to get comfy w me then suggest a meet or insta.
Too technical
had a good talk w a buddy yesterday where i realised im going too technical and my state follows and locks into a locked state. That state is too...clenching and overtargeted. I know its bad for seduction. one should never be too technical. let things breathe. But natural from taking a serious dive into riker. Theres a present state devellopment i need to create here integrating the two and i need to refine the technical side so that its motivational base is more healthy. Super important point here that only few will truly understand for anyone reading.
Another side ive been exploring is the second layer, where i slow down and activate all the resources i have on the more grounded emotional side. This one needs to be more activated alongside the other. i wonder what the trigger is... need to be attentive in my chat-ups
gonna play with those to see, integrate them and relayer in a healthy combined package.
Chatted up a two set yest and got into cancel culture. My pacing is getting there. Girls had lots of attitude but were just whining. im loosing respect for people like that.
Keys
- Activating the weightfulness more
- Noting the technical sides nature and how it hijacks a little
- exploring them side by side
- Finding the right pace of things from this place - theres a steady slowness to it and and activation within the weightfulness that i recall could awake for fuel.
on the conversation management side the key with the girls were
- Play with varieties of pacings
- Transfer into varieties of pressure same frame, different frame on various pacing focal points eg mindset, eg currrent reality eg. frame
- note when the pacing works... study the totality of what i did there... my subtext etc.
A big thing is that I need more lead and find ways to lead the whole convo in the direction of seductive. establish the convo steering model. The steering parts - i noticed pauses where i could have taken the lead - a point w. obvious potential for influence and could have driven her and the convo into new levels.
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A couple of pointers on pacings
1) Its not agreeing and its not something that happens in one shot. Pacing might as well show that you listen, and that you understand her or someones point. makes people feel seen, understood and heard.
The potentials are
- Show interest
- Show understanding
- Show agreement
- Show in depth knowledge/perspective by reality pacing
Each nuance provides for different things across a pacing continuum. Mixed with elicitation its dynamite.
Theres something about where im coming from when pacing i need to work on - a worm - i need to tightn its firm grip.
Field
btw i noted how i melted a girl with this the other day... how she literally shifted from intellectual to more soft over 20 min convo on cancel culture where i paced and lead with simple more positive strong perspective.
Also just moved one girl from random chat up > interestingness > to eliciting her values > to imaginative w. descriptive language ( photographer) and noted a clear shift in her engagement leves. Aka drove her through the convo management structure to a place of talking about what she liked. basics of my elicitation post. good hook albeit she was slightly nervous too. Could have continued for her to get comfy w me then suggest a meet or insta.
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Looks upgrade
Got a haircut and upgraded my looks a lil.
Hair is medium length, styled for a soft sorta look. Smooth guy.
girls tell me they feel like putting their hands in it - often put it in place cause its a lil bedroom like which is how i deliberately style it.
Rest is not a lot but ive noted ais and iois starting to fly on a daily basis from cute ones.
Feels nice.
Ive noted Bambi like looks at me keeping the connection for a time - obvious interest albeit being slightlyunceetain at the same time meaning theyre struck by want and hesitance/insecurities at the same time.
Firstly,
just a note to self to reshape my responsive reactions on seeing HBs
Cool the f down and do my thing
purify my current reactionary habits
acclimatise if needed.
This will slowly happen i know but keep and eye on it and guide it.
especially the worms
Secondly,
Establish attractive presence from where i actively generate on sight attraction, sexual activation and a lighthearted connection
beyond words things
hovering
materialising
central spots
movement
eye contact
Working with vibes and preps during hovering to ignite emotions, create connection, spark attraction and force iois
amp up specific resources...
Action: Hit exposure spots, note reactions, release
Action: Enact resource feels, let it sizzle, refine.
note - attention capture type hook bait
Cancel culture seems to be chick crack these days - they go hard and w attitude on it ive noted a few times.
Easy to throw up, then pace and lead from.
Action: consider ways to throw it up that instigates best. do it eg from mingling
The Even Keel
Action: remember to align slow and targetted - previous posts. For weight and the second layer to activate
Got a haircut and upgraded my looks a lil.
Hair is medium length, styled for a soft sorta look. Smooth guy.
girls tell me they feel like putting their hands in it - often put it in place cause its a lil bedroom like which is how i deliberately style it.
Rest is not a lot but ive noted ais and iois starting to fly on a daily basis from cute ones.
Feels nice.
Ive noted Bambi like looks at me keeping the connection for a time - obvious interest albeit being slightlyunceetain at the same time meaning theyre struck by want and hesitance/insecurities at the same time.
Firstly,
just a note to self to reshape my responsive reactions on seeing HBs
Cool the f down and do my thing
purify my current reactionary habits
acclimatise if needed.
This will slowly happen i know but keep and eye on it and guide it.
especially the worms
Secondly,
Establish attractive presence from where i actively generate on sight attraction, sexual activation and a lighthearted connection
beyond words things
hovering
materialising
central spots
movement
eye contact
Working with vibes and preps during hovering to ignite emotions, create connection, spark attraction and force iois
amp up specific resources...
Action: Hit exposure spots, note reactions, release
Action: Enact resource feels, let it sizzle, refine.
note - attention capture type hook bait
Cancel culture seems to be chick crack these days - they go hard and w attitude on it ive noted a few times.
Easy to throw up, then pace and lead from.
Action: consider ways to throw it up that instigates best. do it eg from mingling
The Even Keel
Action: remember to align slow and targetted - previous posts. For weight and the second layer to activate
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UNRYSTIFYING. FR: ITALIA
night outing yesterday
opened a girl mingle style next to us - three guys sitting. Just oldscool over the shoulder type. then i exploded in my response w her by providing high energy response to make the emotions explode and increase the energy. outlined this at nextasf of how its more important with your response to her response to the opener.
Her sister was a hottie as in the hottest in the room. We quickly all chatted them up - me and one of the guys. I noted i sat as a bottle neck so i moved around to the other side of the table giving me perfect lockin with one girl on each side. my two friends were on the outer rim but we now had a proper set that looked as one group. This is KEY and more important than anything else imo. Lock the fuck in or die!
from her i chatted them up. Initially the sister who was a 8+ was more interested in my friend. But that changed through verbals and my leadrship,
- i used the three types of travellers gambit
- Connection gambit
- Sexual tension like gambits
- Sexual expression / the mirror like gambit
all along a lot of chat and driving things
missing parts
- didnt isolate
- didnt properly display interest/escalate w. her( im rusty here) - while it was obvious she was attracted. But i didnt get her over the resistance point where she started engaging me more actively... my guess is she was not sure with my interest and i also used active distinterest. i should have added more clarity on both my intent for her and eg a couple of subtle sois w barriers. And maybe lifted her a bit more on her spirit. But i noted her subtle body language cues that she was ready for it in retrospect.
- Eg. my sexual listening could have been more clear.
- eg. Better usage of proximity which isolation would have given opportunity for
= she was too observantly stimulated by my verbals and explicist doings but she did not feel a clear connection and flirt/interest from me. This i need to display more subtly.
Anyways left early and insta closed her sister who made me instaclose her as she saw interest from both sides and supported things.
She wrote me 10 after i left.
good
- over the shoulder opener
- relockin
- driving the convo - lots of mindset acknowledgements
- spitting gambits - holding court and involving the girls eg on reality paces on guys
- handled 4 amogs
- got acquainted with one of the leaders of the event who knows me know. SC building. social connector type. flamboyant.
next
- escalate as momentum giving her a certainty
- take stronger authority in leads - set the direction more clearly
- isolate and use prox, more charged gambits, SOTs and sexual listening
- close for the sake of closing - getting the habit down smoothly
- Be more creative w fucking her despite logistics. Made me hold back some.
Also
- mingle more earlier to open up. Needless to say didnt need it but just to own the space better.
Main sticking point
Key thing to develop is melting her past the resistance point in "intellectual". I need to drive this part of the process and look into how to. See her resistance better. know shes rough around the edges here. I believe my auhtorithy on frames got her past her own but the missing element was her being clear about my interest in her and her comfort and feeling of confidence to be maintained or boosted. that said i did do "mindset acknowledgements". so thinking the key here is missing Oldshoold elements of mysterys A3 - show interest and acknowledge i like her qualities since i sensed this was the particular issue w her.
Getting there again
night outing yesterday
opened a girl mingle style next to us - three guys sitting. Just oldscool over the shoulder type. then i exploded in my response w her by providing high energy response to make the emotions explode and increase the energy. outlined this at nextasf of how its more important with your response to her response to the opener.
Her sister was a hottie as in the hottest in the room. We quickly all chatted them up - me and one of the guys. I noted i sat as a bottle neck so i moved around to the other side of the table giving me perfect lockin with one girl on each side. my two friends were on the outer rim but we now had a proper set that looked as one group. This is KEY and more important than anything else imo. Lock the fuck in or die!
from her i chatted them up. Initially the sister who was a 8+ was more interested in my friend. But that changed through verbals and my leadrship,
- i used the three types of travellers gambit
- Connection gambit
- Sexual tension like gambits
- Sexual expression / the mirror like gambit
all along a lot of chat and driving things
missing parts
- didnt isolate
- didnt properly display interest/escalate w. her( im rusty here) - while it was obvious she was attracted. But i didnt get her over the resistance point where she started engaging me more actively... my guess is she was not sure with my interest and i also used active distinterest. i should have added more clarity on both my intent for her and eg a couple of subtle sois w barriers. And maybe lifted her a bit more on her spirit. But i noted her subtle body language cues that she was ready for it in retrospect.
- Eg. my sexual listening could have been more clear.
- eg. Better usage of proximity which isolation would have given opportunity for
= she was too observantly stimulated by my verbals and explicist doings but she did not feel a clear connection and flirt/interest from me. This i need to display more subtly.
Anyways left early and insta closed her sister who made me instaclose her as she saw interest from both sides and supported things.
She wrote me 10 after i left.
good
- over the shoulder opener
- relockin
- driving the convo - lots of mindset acknowledgements
- spitting gambits - holding court and involving the girls eg on reality paces on guys
- handled 4 amogs
- got acquainted with one of the leaders of the event who knows me know. SC building. social connector type. flamboyant.
next
- escalate as momentum giving her a certainty
- take stronger authority in leads - set the direction more clearly
- isolate and use prox, more charged gambits, SOTs and sexual listening
- close for the sake of closing - getting the habit down smoothly
- Be more creative w fucking her despite logistics. Made me hold back some.
Also
- mingle more earlier to open up. Needless to say didnt need it but just to own the space better.
Main sticking point
Key thing to develop is melting her past the resistance point in "intellectual". I need to drive this part of the process and look into how to. See her resistance better. know shes rough around the edges here. I believe my auhtorithy on frames got her past her own but the missing element was her being clear about my interest in her and her comfort and feeling of confidence to be maintained or boosted. that said i did do "mindset acknowledgements". so thinking the key here is missing Oldshoold elements of mysterys A3 - show interest and acknowledge i like her qualities since i sensed this was the particular issue w her.
Getting there again
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Field report after thought
Good base
- Strong initial presence, mingle more and ooze and acclimatise
- lockins and moving around in set
- Strong verbal lead - spitting game and using verbal stack
- Owning the space, the momentum - 4 amogs handled
Next
- Isolate, lead the isolation and move around in the group as i like but with a calm soothing presence
- More subtle escalation - manage resistance points, particularly display more intent and use eg sois w barriers for push pull and her being sure about my intent. Get her to tip over into flirty.
- Acknowledge and empower her.
- maybe get her to imagine weness/us, you and i
Aditionally
- select a few "golden questions" for one on ones
- consider a few cues to her for social frame, they were very adamant about my past gf situation
i need broader arsenal to adapt to where they are. initial focus intellectual
train
- more verbal topics - expand stack for frame lead - 2 new gambits - just lightly
- trance words, commands, negations, binder commands etc.
- paces and reality paces
- Depict the whole process for me w an imagined isolation better verbals, getting her more sexually activated via vibes and resistance points etc.
Good base
- Strong initial presence, mingle more and ooze and acclimatise
- lockins and moving around in set
- Strong verbal lead - spitting game and using verbal stack
- Owning the space, the momentum - 4 amogs handled
Next
- Isolate, lead the isolation and move around in the group as i like but with a calm soothing presence
- More subtle escalation - manage resistance points, particularly display more intent and use eg sois w barriers for push pull and her being sure about my intent. Get her to tip over into flirty.
- Acknowledge and empower her.
- maybe get her to imagine weness/us, you and i
Aditionally
- select a few "golden questions" for one on ones
- consider a few cues to her for social frame, they were very adamant about my past gf situation
i need broader arsenal to adapt to where they are. initial focus intellectual
train
- more verbal topics - expand stack for frame lead - 2 new gambits - just lightly
- trance words, commands, negations, binder commands etc.
- paces and reality paces
- Depict the whole process for me w an imagined isolation better verbals, getting her more sexually activated via vibes and resistance points etc.
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Quick notes
- Estabalish a viby weness vs lead it. creates distance. simple i agree. i love that you feeel this way. yeah its xxxx. Its moe about were on the same page vs staying the authroithy continued. more we are having fun, haha lightheartedness and responding to what she says without taking it further.Enable connectiveness
- Can pacing be used here?
- wiritng style? more having fun friends like at times. Assuming rapport style.
topic to explore - stronger connectedness and weness in feel vs always the price
- Estabalish a viby weness vs lead it. creates distance. simple i agree. i love that you feeel this way. yeah its xxxx. Its moe about were on the same page vs staying the authroithy continued. more we are having fun, haha lightheartedness and responding to what she says without taking it further.Enable connectiveness
- Can pacing be used here?
- wiritng style? more having fun friends like at times. Assuming rapport style.
topic to explore - stronger connectedness and weness in feel vs always the price
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Starting to setup topic routes
Topic routes
- Tattoos > expression > sexual expression frames > the mirror > trancewords/weaselstateemtns to her imagining scenarios
- Instagram/guys/women > shaming > natural woman > desires
- Travelling > different cultures > hook up culture > sexual differences in various cultures > 3 level of attraction
- work > immersed/creation/passion > surrender
- environment > Sot/ connections/ attraction > sexual attraction vs attraction
- overwhelmer
keys
- Sots
- Transfers into imagination and feelings
- Setoffs
- Flows into sexuality - provocative vs smooth, mix it
- frame build
Topic routes
- Tattoos > expression > sexual expression frames > the mirror > trancewords/weaselstateemtns to her imagining scenarios
- Instagram/guys/women > shaming > natural woman > desires
- Travelling > different cultures > hook up culture > sexual differences in various cultures > 3 level of attraction
- work > immersed/creation/passion > surrender
- environment > Sot/ connections/ attraction > sexual attraction vs attraction
- overwhelmer
keys
- Sots
- Transfers into imagination and feelings
- Setoffs
- Flows into sexuality - provocative vs smooth, mix it
- frame build
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Pacing is landing
Its gradually becoming an ingrained skill for me
im slowly starting to pace in all areas of conversation. Or at least see the opportunities for it.
Along the conversations as a continuum.
i felt a physical breakthrough some clutter sorts change in my mind and emotional system on it - felt physical. As in i am uplifted by it and seeking the new experiences it brings from a new place/source inside.
Since i can pace in 3-5 levels and steer in somewhat the same it gives a huge power of precise control in the convos
i noted my connections with everyone is improving
its an inner change on system level now, i dont need to focus on it the same
still its not layered i know so need to continue until a settled ability has landed fully
The precision of reading conversations that follows is very strong and i understand now what @Bacchus outlines when he says pacing is essential to steering convos amongst other things.
also i sense its core to reality pacing as it will free up energy to have it flowing habitually enabling more creative use.
Gonna outline and stick to the exercises still. Aim is to get a relaxed sense of things where i can apply leads and paces precisely with a certail quality to it (technical precision).
Good!
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I realise that i need to be very covert with most people most of the times to pace. As in I struggle in just letting them elaborate on persepctives where i sense they just roaming deeper into ignorance or seem to surface glance things and the likes. But trying to build my tolerance.
Its gradually becoming an ingrained skill for me
im slowly starting to pace in all areas of conversation. Or at least see the opportunities for it.
Along the conversations as a continuum.
i felt a physical breakthrough some clutter sorts change in my mind and emotional system on it - felt physical. As in i am uplifted by it and seeking the new experiences it brings from a new place/source inside.
Since i can pace in 3-5 levels and steer in somewhat the same it gives a huge power of precise control in the convos
i noted my connections with everyone is improving
its an inner change on system level now, i dont need to focus on it the same
still its not layered i know so need to continue until a settled ability has landed fully
The precision of reading conversations that follows is very strong and i understand now what @Bacchus outlines when he says pacing is essential to steering convos amongst other things.
also i sense its core to reality pacing as it will free up energy to have it flowing habitually enabling more creative use.
Gonna outline and stick to the exercises still. Aim is to get a relaxed sense of things where i can apply leads and paces precisely with a certail quality to it (technical precision).
Good!
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I realise that i need to be very covert with most people most of the times to pace. As in I struggle in just letting them elaborate on persepctives where i sense they just roaming deeper into ignorance or seem to surface glance things and the likes. But trying to build my tolerance.
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Sextalk setups and verbal routes
simple outing w friends, chatted up to 2 women along the night
One chat w a girl
random chat > Did a mirror sorta version combined w sexual expression my NY female friend and desire type lines. Got her hooked to me.
also asked her to imagine situations w sexual liberation how would that be where she wideeyed said i dont know... while her mind imagined the contours of something
Later i did a ruse and well never work out > too alike > fights > great make up sex
From there i could have transitioned into anything from the topic great makeup sex
Point being - I can make these little push pull pre-setups that both disarms and opens the gates into sex talk where we more subtly slide into the themes
another one in the bar
hair/hair bun miss > tatoos > sexual tattos > marrocan girlfriends sexty mysterious tatoo > 1000 nights type sensual spaces
Also i can shoot more pacing statements that opens the gates to sex talk
- it blows my mind that you girls..
- i find it frustrating that...
good entries to pace girls and lead from there
Other ideas
- when talkng about tattoos describe the experiencing of my x first time i saw the tattoo, tracing line down her belly, her legs.. to discover this small, mysterioys tatoo on the inside of her leg, subtly hidden, the mystery, the secrecy the allure of something, the role of aestethics in seeing each other in sex, the minds role in sex and orgasms etc-
good
- setups are starting to work and float
- some news techs just begin to float in eg trance words, ruses
i was
- less logistically smart
- think of her timing of movement (whats her logistical context atm)
- lot of wild cards yest.
- need more routes to go down with girls
- some tension on presence management. hm... wtf! explore this... needs to be challenged and owned.
Main Prob: i was not steering my own centre enough cause i was out w friends and these things just popped up. Key is to own it and lead.
to do
- incorpoate new paths and ideas
- use more descriptive parts more
- train language techs
- look up 1 tech combo to apply
OWN my drive! more focus here. drive my thing confidently.
simple outing w friends, chatted up to 2 women along the night
One chat w a girl
random chat > Did a mirror sorta version combined w sexual expression my NY female friend and desire type lines. Got her hooked to me.
also asked her to imagine situations w sexual liberation how would that be where she wideeyed said i dont know... while her mind imagined the contours of something
Later i did a ruse and well never work out > too alike > fights > great make up sex
From there i could have transitioned into anything from the topic great makeup sex
Point being - I can make these little push pull pre-setups that both disarms and opens the gates into sex talk where we more subtly slide into the themes
another one in the bar
hair/hair bun miss > tatoos > sexual tattos > marrocan girlfriends sexty mysterious tatoo > 1000 nights type sensual spaces
Also i can shoot more pacing statements that opens the gates to sex talk
- it blows my mind that you girls..
- i find it frustrating that...
good entries to pace girls and lead from there
Other ideas
- when talkng about tattoos describe the experiencing of my x first time i saw the tattoo, tracing line down her belly, her legs.. to discover this small, mysterioys tatoo on the inside of her leg, subtly hidden, the mystery, the secrecy the allure of something, the role of aestethics in seeing each other in sex, the minds role in sex and orgasms etc-
good
- setups are starting to work and float
- some news techs just begin to float in eg trance words, ruses
i was
- less logistically smart
- think of her timing of movement (whats her logistical context atm)
- lot of wild cards yest.
- need more routes to go down with girls
- some tension on presence management. hm... wtf! explore this... needs to be challenged and owned.
Main Prob: i was not steering my own centre enough cause i was out w friends and these things just popped up. Key is to own it and lead.
to do
- incorpoate new paths and ideas
- use more descriptive parts more
- train language techs
- look up 1 tech combo to apply
OWN my drive! more focus here. drive my thing confidently.
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Kickstarting dedicated field action
1 hour daily get out to meet girls. 4 days a week. 3 exercises to activate myself.
Also gonna start to spit more game and lead things well when needed. but just need to train a lil to get a smart stream in place.
no BS. get to it.
1 hour daily get out to meet girls. 4 days a week. 3 exercises to activate myself.
- Look up - say hi (presence and awareness creation)
- Walking Hover posiitoning to moment to open
- Exercise of feeling my body in interaction and attuning to our connection on simple situational chat up
Also gonna start to spit more game and lead things well when needed. but just need to train a lil to get a smart stream in place.
no BS. get to it.
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Partly inspired by Steves recent video i went out just eye-fucking girls today in a stroll w a buddy. Forgot this exercise which i used to enjoy. Its actually nice to have someone cover these elements of sexual tension from another angle.
Girls responded in many ways. I insta-stopped one in the distance as she was walking towards me w. a directive gesture, then went into a route of expression w. her. Then articulated the vibe and number closed her. Key is that it auto-happened which means my instinct is on.
Girls displayed a variety of responses - i could describe them. But it is irrelevant. Point is that i know if its on or not despite the details of the expression. When its on i am reactive and present to it. And its this instinctual level i work on. i wanna work and expand here inside this particular momentum of things that just happened today.
So gonna play with this - especially see how my instinct informs me. Also setting up a day game route and approach for SDLs inspired by Bacchus.
I stopped a set in supermarket yesterday basically holding court with this. Also closed a yoga instructor for a day-date-thing w a simple tea bait & indulgence sot.
Things are lining up. Good.
Girls responded in many ways. I insta-stopped one in the distance as she was walking towards me w. a directive gesture, then went into a route of expression w. her. Then articulated the vibe and number closed her. Key is that it auto-happened which means my instinct is on.
Girls displayed a variety of responses - i could describe them. But it is irrelevant. Point is that i know if its on or not despite the details of the expression. When its on i am reactive and present to it. And its this instinctual level i work on. i wanna work and expand here inside this particular momentum of things that just happened today.
So gonna play with this - especially see how my instinct informs me. Also setting up a day game route and approach for SDLs inspired by Bacchus.
I stopped a set in supermarket yesterday basically holding court with this. Also closed a yoga instructor for a day-date-thing w a simple tea bait & indulgence sot.
Things are lining up. Good.
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