Glows Log

[Glow]

Sup fellas!
Been through hell but just amping things up these days to get back to seduce.

Im very solid on the job front so decided to make the next mission to get back to seducer mode. Money makes some parts easy(as i know how) but time & energy will be my issue. But thats mainly making a choice and planning it out a lil.

Short term plan
- Work out further and slim up further - aim to start turning eyes again. Already lost4 kgs, & my old more muscular look is starting to appear. I mix fasting with muscle training & fast-paced walks optimal for fat loss.
- Add glitteryness & quality to presence: ive designed what i consider a sophisticated athletic look. I mix athlete wear with sophisticated clothes with eyes to details in shoes etc. i tested ti and noted that the athlete parts especially makes younger girls eye ball me with an obvious "i like this a lot" vibe and the sophistication brings about a quality for captivation. Atm its almost too much for them so just need to figure out how to adjust my vibe to make them feel theres an opportunity with me.

Next
- style purchasing and slimming/looks maxing - boost passive foundations to create AI gen & "connects". 2 more "core outfits".
- Rebuilding my sexual presence - how i move an act as if everything is sexual or has the potential to be when i feel like it.
- Daily short Rehearse old convo stuff & sequences to get attractive flow in my behavior
- Pull the trigger mingle-style & CA wise - train the momentum
- Remove initial critical flaws - so i dont sabotage myself. This entails fixing my current state around women/mentality; i need to map and feel, then alter. example types to clean out: not bitter, jealous, possessive, temperamental, rude, passive, stingy, mommas boy, slow on the uptake, expecting too much, prudish etc


Later
- Rebuild my sexual tension capacity. Key to this is focus on my own pleasure feel and attune fully to that in movement. Slow down... be... orgasmically present.
- Enhance The sexual capacity i omit: show sexual awareness ability to be discrete, read between the lines, and be positive in all situations. And to be patient.

Relaxation in all of the above is the centre piece.

Once i have removed the errors & rebuild a sexual attentive presence i should catch all low hanging fruit with little/no effort.

just the prework to get back to start taking things to more interesting directions...

 

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funny, just as i got back to writing here i met a cute quality woman and.. well that took my attention.
just ended things.
so will write a bit here again. lol. lets see for how long.

just came out of a store and noted 2 cute girls pheripherally heading my way
- Went to position myself in their direction of movement insuring they would see me
- i make a socalled a lister predence with low awareness span, but i noted a connection was prob established (i felt this)
- as a fluid part of them seeing me, i from being attuned downwards i initiated a slow movement of looking across the ground then upwards (cobra) until my eyes hit the one of them i initially liked.
- our eyes catch and she looks away immediatly.
bingo - sexual tension established.

Her reaction will vary based on her state and inital thin slice of me/my presence.
also as if "she was caught"
hmm.. she also felt like.. a girl. not that experienced to sexual enegies.
The cobra is intense i recall though. hm... considering other tactics and vibes for daytime encounters... im reminded of triangulation... vibes... hmmm...

i feel where i was... ah ghengis khan like.. that is very intense to her. takes a certain state to be able to handle

the art of captivation... i have some refinement todo reminded of picking the degree of containment. And vibe types..

 

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Funny thing, everytime i get back to seduction, and I increase my passive value - theres this moment where i cross an aestetic barrier and think BAM there it was. As in i ignite a momentum of things and suddenly theres a change to my look where its just... sharper. And attractive. Todays haircut did it. I have been working out, fasting, buying various clothes, particular shoes, grooming precision etc. Suddenly it all clicked.

Point being: Style value comes across when a cluster of things harmonise and bring a certain look together. its about layering it gradually and just create a slow moving rythm. I Notice i again get compliments for various things.

My inner circle girls are obvious sign posts for this - they note it instantly.

I assume theres a similar thing with "seductive presence" where the dots connect too. More polarising, slower moving, relaxed, inward focussed on good feels, more juicy in my body and feeling sexual, subtle smile style, automatically creating IOMs etc etc.

Aka - just layer it and allow it to do its work as it stacks... let go

 

[Glow]

A detailed progression of micro-escalations for makeouts with emphasis on kiss foreplays:
Amping up my effectivness.

Initial

• Create sexual tension by vacuum holding, sexual listening etc. . using the silence.
• Move in closer, increase the tension..
• Position close, side by side, or turned in toward each other closer, chins close, lips proximate etc, but with out focussing on it..
• Potential body connection, hand caress, hand holding as it naturally happens when your hands are close..

Kiss wise (notes from sixty + my own - just to remember)

• Get close to her lips... stop...and then bite your lip
• Nuzzle around her neck...breathing heavy
• Faces close, pause....look at her lovingly like you are going to kiss her and then just trance out for a few seconds
• Get that wild look in your eyes like you are going to start ripping her clothes off (aggressive)... and then turn your face away slowly (shy)
• Face to face, closer, just tilting the head as if to kiss but holding back from it...
• You whisper in her ear - making your lips slide just by hers to reach her ear.. then back, then slide and speak to her via her other ear.. lips passing closely in the passing..

All of these kiss-related things create more tension without actually having to kiss her as i restrain myself, contain it or just position it inviting her to move in... letting it sizzle.

i want to experiment with a stronger send of these to ignite them from a distance... making her want to kiss me from the distance..

 

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A detailed progression of micro-escalations for makeouts with emphasis on kiss foreplays:
Amping up my effectivness.

Initial

• Create sexual tension by vacuum holding, sexual listening etc. . using the silence.
• Move in closer, increase the tension..
• Position close, side by side, or turned in toward each other closer, chins close, lips proximate etc, but with out focussing on it..
• Potential body connection, hand caress, hand holding as it naturally happens when your hands are close..

Kiss wise (notes from sixty + my own - just to remember)

• Get close to her lips... stop...and then bite your lip
• Nuzzle around her neck...breathing heavy
• Faces close, pause....look at her lovingly like you are going to kiss her and then just trance out for a few seconds
• Get that wild look in your eyes like you are going to start ripping her clothes off (aggressive)... and then turn your face away slowly (shy)
• Face to face, closer, just tilting the head as if to kiss but holding back from it...
• You whisper in her ear - making your lips slide just by hers to reach her ear.. then back, then slide and speak to her via her other ear.. lips passing closely in the passing..

All of these kiss-related things create more tension without actually having to kiss her as i restrain myself, contain it or just position it inviting her to move in... letting it sizzle.

i want to experiment with a stronger send of these to ignite them from a distance... making her want to kiss me from the distance..

Yea! About the neck one i take my teeth and grind gently in the neck without biting... I just want to warn that in night game a lot of the guys including me have noticed with genz girls if you don't kiss at times, they can auto reject....we call it kiss denials, used to work really good back in the days,since we are used to this from being on auto pilot from many years, we still forget.. but for the last i would say 3 years stop working....

 

[Glow]

back...

lol.

SUP guys.

Am having a bit more time these days and focussing in a bit on seduction.. for a period.

Just building the base atm.
Been ramping up my body and training, disciplined weight loss imposed by a condition. But i handled it... somewhat. Also just reigniting on the fashion side, hooked up with my old hair dresser - gay guy who is just better than anything ive tried.

Sexual tension focus
I am engaging this as a project that prob will be quite different from the rest. Plan is to dig into sexual tension and some of the keys i discussed with cozy back in the days. While each seductive writer seems to offer different keys i have settled in on captivation as the first one for my focus.

I realise i have a bit of cleanup and reconnecting with "the enabling resources" to do.

Yesterday
At a cafe working some things. Gorgoues woman HOTTIE next to me,, with a captivating look and.. tits to die for. I had no contact with her, but at a given time i did a peekabo reaching out from my position with a prolonged look at her, a lag if you will in my obvious screening of her. I noted she looked at me and a tension was there.. i even felt a gush in her.. not sure what it would transform into but it fuelled me which is a good sign. But i realise as i reread and feel into the memory that i did not connect with her, i just caused the reaction but with no stay in it eye contact wiseto ignite an exchange.. its like i saw it all anyways, felt where she was but blocked itwhen the opportune moment was there.. hm.

its a bit rough i realise-- needs refinement and deliciousness in it as she could go many directions.. i might even misread it atm as my tuning is filtered i sense from memory... hm.

ahhh i realise there was a hole through... i sense a deep sexual fullness! Ok good. lets investigate this more.

Today
a readhead RED was sitting across from me in perfect diagonal posiiton and repeatedly looked at me.. i glanced back with a slight lag initially to show her i was attentive to her..the feeling was obvious - she liked me and was a lil on the humble,kind side. We eye danced multiple times.. each reacting to the other asyncroneously.

Reflecting on these two i realise that something in me cuts of from establishing the moment of connection... where the juices flow and exchange happens. Its a mixed bag why, but mainly a not letting it happen... no displaying my intent when we connect.. i realise what is an its on moment as i can cast it far from past doings..... hm!

Next step will be to establish it and see what happens in me..and hm... why am i cutting it?
also to be more present vs too filtered by memories which comes from an insecutiry maybe.

i need to hold it and see what unfolds when i do that, feel into the inner reactions..

Hovering based
Just to explain - a structure is at play here; its simple: hover position > the look/wave/peek(active hovering) > Prolonged "time-paused" eye contact with a hold or a lag igniting sexual tension flow/exchange. And i am cutting on the latter even with RED today where it was purely clear. And with HOTTIE

Note to self: Hottie was activated. RED was "accidental". Rememember to be the patient lead from there.. in the adequate pace.. 2nd gen

Anyway something is forming and rerevealing itself... Early stage thought why its sexual tension masturbation atm. But first things first. A contained Tempo is key here..

 

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HB blondie comes in - charades around and ends up sitting sideways next to me a set down. Felt like its a positioning.. I know my vibe is radiating in just the right way, i see her with a slight side glance, lift of my eyebrow which she catches. The game has begun..

I take it in, shes on the phone, and do my thing, halfway meditating and then... at a time i turn my ghase towards her over my shoulder, holding it... lol, i realise she has her sunglasses on which doesnt enable me to catch any exchange.. but maintain a prolonged "hold" position. Did it mainly as a mind planned move to start moving forward, playing ball and creating connection to read her from/moment creations.

it was a simple move to start creating vacuums and letting these inform me.. finding the rhythm of these. I know it would be a fail but its about getting physical escalation kickstarted again. Its not about her, its about the next girl.

Im assuming afterwards it was too firm, as in not in sync and too tension generating here.. Much like the direct guys doing sixty back in the days. despite the prelude.

i recall another way, to instead of the straigh held look (which can be varied - i was overtly bold here lol. But fine. just getting the momentums back in my body), is to look diagonally across towards her direction. if She is "on" as i felt she will react to this and i get a read Or she will mirror it or similar. It will create a reaction and i can based on that move forward...smile and look down then peak at her or continue the eye move and stop 20% in front of her making her look at me.

ah could also use activations.. letting her see me, vibe bombs, gesticulations/feel generators etc...

Just some options to train the interplay.. and activate the mutual seduction with a lil more finesse.
lets see what comes to me as i continue...

Gonna do more in 1on1s to let it feed me more #reigniting

Also time to go do it with several women each day #leadingit