I realised no one really reads these journals so I might just write some brain vomit--I'm bored:
I spoke to someone who’s killing it in game and bragging about their success I reminded them that they live in Barcelona—They rely almost entirely on friendly travellers to approach. Yeah, with those women, a simple hello and compliment is all that’s needed to start a relationship. Those women are in the market, so to speak—they are looking for new people to meet so it’s way easier to game them than say if you were living in Manchester and had to rely on the local women for dates.
Those women have completely different attitudes than the ones on a holiday half way across the globe. I mean, we’re all familiar with the meme of the young female backpacker that travels the world sleeping with a different dude in every country. Tbh, it's a pre-covid meme when cold approach was main stream but it proves me point: if most of your success is coming from approaching out of town travellers, well, you’re kind of picking the low hanging fruit. Not too low of course, that’s saved for the western dudes that travel to developing countries. Pulling backpackers still requires game.
Now, local women--especially in countries like England, Australia and Canada--they really are the hardest to game don’t you think? When they are out and about during the day they are never casually strolling around like they’re in a museum the way travellers do coming across as extremely approachable. No--local girls, if they are alone, are usually storming through the streets with a mean look on their face like the friggin gestapo.
The only time you find them casually strolling is when they are grocery shopping so you’re limited to approaching them in busy supermarkets within ear shot of your local community members. But on the gritty city streets where most of us like to run our approaches how do they behave? Yeah, very closed off.
Unless they are with a friend (which is always) which brings me to the second obstacle: their attitude when they are with a friend is completely different than when they are alone. Suddenly their arrogance and confidence goes through the roof. No different than boys. And the last thing they want to do is show weakness in front of their friends by letting themselves get seduced by some normie. I always despised that when i was young--the boys that acted tough, cocky and rude around their friends but polite wimps when they're alone.
When local girls are alone the worse way they'll reject you is by ignoring you or saying "sorry" and rushing off. When they are with their friends suddenly they are much more brutal--They will sometimes scream at you or the friend will yell at you to f-off because she's jealous she's not getting hit on or sometimes if you say "Hi" they'll look at each other like you're a crazy person. it's fake bravado because she's with her friends.
But the biggest obstacle with local girls is simply their attitude—they aren’t in the market for making new friends so every stranger that’s approaches them is quickly categorised as a weirdo. This is why you need top tier game in this environment.
And while I do recognise the skill required for dudes to pull in cities like Barcelona, Miami and London I still take it with a grain of salt--because they are mostly working on travelling women. It’s funny when you think about it. That friendly warm Italian girl you approached in Barcelona and went on an Instadate with would probably be an entirely different person if you hit on her in her home town while she was on her way home from work or something her mindset would be more like “fuck off, I’ve had a big day I don’t want to deal with your shit” instead of "wow, hello! who is this kind stranger come to greet me".
Hmm, I really do sound like a cynical old bastard don't I. Old man ramblings right here. Well, I see it as a good thing because despite how cynical I am I still see hope. I think that means a lot more than if it came from someone with rose colored glasses.
I wish I could ramble like this when i talked to attractive women though but instead i get mental blocks and dont know what to say without feeling like an idiot. Maybe that's my god-tier intuition telling me that rambling to hotties will turn them off?
Did someone say rose-colored glasses?
