How could a woman use this site?

[POB]

Lovergirl was married to a pastor... Has 5 kids or more...

g-zus

Ok so we agree i think people that did not experience the PTSD we had.. look at this answers and think we may be misogynyst red pillers...

It was a shitshow to be honest...but the personalities there were def not compatible.

 

[504]

From the point of view of value, I see no reason for a woman to be allowed to participate on seduction fora.

I do indeed mean it in the way of "females not permitted".

Only experienced butch lesbians would be a borderline fit...(only half serious)

I don't mean it as a slight against the OP, she seems chill, but in general...despite Skilled Seducer being a stable forum, it is still a very endangered species. Alloweing females inside just endangers it further IMHO.

I do understand the POV such as "ah man don't take it so serious" but still.

 

[Atlas IV]

@StrayDog hit the nail on the head with his response.

Being a 28 year old, decent-looking, virgin woman who is obsessed with reading pickup advice for men is not normal. That very likely points to neurodivergence.

And given that you have almost exclusively male friends, you likely give off a masculine energy as @Skills pointed out, which is sub-communicating non-sexual vibes to the sexually available men around you.

If I were you I would focus less on trying to understand how men think and more on cultivating your feminine side. Much as we work on our masculine fundamentals knowing that it attracts women on a subconscious level, you need to focus on developing your femininity in a way that attracts men.

You can only learn that from women, not men. So you really aren't going to gain much from this forum or reading more GirlsChase.

 

[StrayDog]

@StrayDog hit the nail on the head with his response.

Being a 28 year old, decent-looking, virgin woman who is obsessed with reading pickup advice for men is not normal. That very likely points to neurodivergence.

And given that you have almost exclusively male friends, you likely give off a masculine energy as @Skills pointed out, which is sub-communicating non-sexual vibes to the sexually available men around you.

If I were you I would focus less on trying to understand how men think and more on cultivating your feminine side. Much as we work on our masculine fundamentals knowing that it attracts women on a subconscious level, you need to focus on developing your femininity in a way that attracts men.

You can only learn that from women, not men. So you really aren't going to gain much from this forum or reading more GirlsChase.

this is also why I later pointed out that her male friends girlfriends don't see her as competition. not that she needs to actively compete with them, but my intuition is telling me she doesn't project a very sexual/seductive feminine vibe, that would naturally feel like competition to these women. even without trying.

but yes ultimately not something that can be learned from men

 

[Teevster]

Lovergirl was married to a pastor

From gloryholy to gloryhole.

 

[KJ Francis]

My appearance isn’t an issue. I’m in good shape, using weights at home and cycling, slim figure, long hair. If anything my problem is seeing men I’m instinctively attracted to physically.

That's good... There is a lot more to attraction, but the attention you get and increasing the number of men who will approach you can shift significantly if you pass that threshold of having a head turning figure. Most guys don't approach, and even the GC readers who really actively want to approach struggle with approach anxiety. So having that magnetism can help since ultimately you need to get him to open you. In my opinion a lot of fashion is just about drawing initial eyes and highlighting your figure or teasing it.

It is just for my personal ease of wrapping my head around the whole concept of mating to form a mental model based on the evolution of sexual interest as serving sexual reproduction. It eliminates a lot of confusion by having a guiding light back to the concept of does this help spread, protect, and nurture our genes.

Beyond just slimness, I personally would not have an LTR with a woman who was not HEALTHY. As in a healthy body chemistry. Guys have different standards for a lay. If she does not take care of herself, I won't trust her to birth or feed our kids well. So yes my advice is not game (which as Skills says you will find is more post-lay to keep him), it is mainly to eat your vegetables.

I believe Vision was mentioned in the book The Game. If that's the same Vision, I am going to take a guess that he is well worth looking into and would be a thousand times more knowledgeable than the average poster here.

If you are not finding men you are attracted to, you may need actual strategy from someone. It definitely sounds like you are low volume and need to put yourself out there way more.

Best of luck