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Is club game a lost cause?

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Space Monkey
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If we read this Reddit thread, we can see how the general public see club game


It does seem that few people report results from the club.

It really is a specialised skillset required to make anything out of club game.

But it is one of two environments that I sed 7+, the other being the gym, which has it's own obstacles.
 

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Tribal Elder
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so you went and read a thread on time machine people(not even seducers), read my post on time machine..... and even the time machine you can tell, they were not good back then.... brah......




Though night game is a bit more niche/social now vs back then when it was more undercover hookup.... But even then girls were not there to hook up, were also easier to pull home vs now (again more social vs hook up).... Night game is going to be more nuance.... But yes night game is going to be i would say "harder" due to social aspect/niche, and inconsistencies of women and venues vs back then.... But easier in that women have way less asd than back then and way more open if you hook up...


I am actually planning a post on regional differences out of curiosity....I am talking usa...
 
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Without even reading the reddit thread or listening to anyone else, or even being in a club myself in years, there is no way in hell club game is a lost cause. There will always be clubs. There will always be girls who are looking for guys at clubs. They will remain one of the greatest ways to meet women, forever. Period. Whether or not YOU can meet women in clubs for whatever reason is a YOU problem, not some universal club/environment problem, given it's a club with lots of women.
 

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it's not a lost cause. I have been having a decent amount of success in night clubs over the last 2 years. But, yeah, night clubs has some massive obstacles: All her friends (cockblock, shit tests), asd, craps loads of male competition hitting on her, her bitch guard is up (she is expecting to get hit on all night so she instantly puts up a wall even if she is friendly unlike in day game her defenses are way down), her status is way higher than yours (the venue wants her there not you).

I remember Tyler Cook talking about how in the club a regular hot bimbo has more value than a ceo of a multimillion dollar company. So you have to develop a really interesting personality to get her invested.
 

Chase

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@average_daygamer,

Rather than read Reddit, I suggest you read Skilled Seducer 😏

Can start with the Field Reports Board... here it is filtered to night game lay reports, many of which are from clubs:


That said, yes, it is a somewhat specialized skill set... but there are plenty of regular dudes getting lucky at nightclubs too.

I think we talked about this before though: you being on the autism spectrum, clubs are probably not recommended for you...

-C
 

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Tribal Elder
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@average_daygamer,

Rather than read Reddit, I suggest you read Skilled Seducer 😏

Can start with the Field Reports Board... here it is filtered to night game lay reports, many of which are from clubs:


That said, yes, it is a somewhat specialized skill set... but there are plenty of regular dudes getting lucky at nightclubs too.

I think we talked about this before though: you being on the autism spectrum, clubs are probably not recommended for you...

-C
Jesus i don't remember exes so i did not remember it was him....

@average_daygamer ok so what happens is when you are going through set backs (trust me i have been there so many times) you will look for re-enforcement to justify set backs...... is common in redpill and incel communities....

I solved that problem with an open mind, and yes doing what you do? which is to ask likeminded guys (even if is embarrassing)..... For example i was in a seduction group, it something was happening to me, i would discuss it and make my point, and then critically think, based on the people answering and the responses, and what i was seeing on the field....

Plus it does not matter what it is, for example is depressing seeing what has happened to night game throughout the years..... let me give you an analogy look what has happened to usa through the years or roman empire or _____________ fill in the blank..... but what we can do is deal with what we can control....

So yes clubs are way more challenging than back in the days, but so is other games.... What we can control is try to find angles, ways around it, solutions.... If we just focus on "in the 60s we can work a 9-5 have a wife stay home with 3 kids, have a car, and suburban home" those days are gone, so what can we do today to make a living???

^ same with clubs, what can we do today??? I personally think day game or street game the way it is, much easier... But if you want to do club game, it is doable just way harder, i would diversify a bit...

Start with street game or day game as bread and butter, do one day of night game or 2 (and take it as icing on the cake, don't get sooo hard on yourself)....
 

Spike

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"harder" due to social aspect/niche, and inconsistencies of women and venue
Yes. Right venue makes all the difference. Funny how this is a UK vs USA nightgame thing. But the best advice on venues nowadays came from someone in the UK.
If you're struggling to find venues focus on live/band music venues preferably with drag queens (not joking) have great ratios and have taken over the girly cocktail bars that used to reign supreme
I explored the drag queen bar/club on @DoWhatWorks suggestion and it is exactly as he described. I will be going back there once I get back into the field
 
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