@average_daygamer,
Rather than read Reddit, I suggest you read Skilled Seducer
Can start with the Field Reports Board... here it is filtered to night game lay reports, many of which are from clubs:
Field reports and lay reports of live interactions go here.
www.skilledseducer.com
That said, yes, it is a somewhat specialized skill set... but there are plenty of regular dudes getting lucky at nightclubs too.
I think we talked about this before though: you being on the autism spectrum, clubs are probably not recommended for you...
-C
Jesus i don't remember exes so i did not remember it was him....
@average_daygamer ok so what happens is when you are going through set backs (trust me i have been there so many times) you will look for re-enforcement to justify set backs...... is common in redpill and incel communities....
I solved that problem with an open mind, and yes doing what you do? which is to ask likeminded guys (even if is embarrassing)..... For example i was in a seduction group, it something was happening to me, i would discuss it and make my point, and
then critically think, based on the people answering and the responses, and what i was seeing on the field....
Plus it does not matter what it is, for example is depressing seeing what has happened to night game throughout the years..... let me give you an analogy look what has happened to usa through the years or roman empire or _____________ fill in the blank..... bu
t what we can do is deal with what we can control....
So yes clubs are way more challenging than back in the days, but so is other games.... What we can control is try to find angles, ways around it, solutions.... If we just focus on "in the 60s we can work a 9-5 have a wife stay home with 3 kids, have a car, and suburban home" those days are gone, so what can we do today to make a living???
^ same with clubs, what can we do today??? I personally think day game or street game the way it is, much easier... But if you want to do club game, it is doable just way harder, i would diversify a bit...
Start with street game or day game as bread and butter, do one day of night game or 2 (and take it as icing on the cake, don't get sooo hard on yourself)....