Got the number of a fine ass girl 2 days ago. But it seems like I fucked it up
Happy to note that my behavior doesn’t change too much in the presence of fine girls. I maybe just try harder but no weird shit.
She was compliant. Moved with me all the way from the lunch line to the table. Asked me questions about myself and everything. I think the only problem was I didnt establish a dominant / commanding enough vibe and tried too hard to make a connection with some of the jokes I made. Overall positive interaction tho.
She moved with me from the food line to sit down and eat with me, and she was asking me lots of questions even when I kind of let the conversation die. Decent level connecting / relating conversation - I’m getting better at that.
I asked for her number and she “playful reluctantly” put it in (I get that a LOT for some weird reason). But seems like it’s dried up bruh
https://flic.kr/p/2oXYLEq
https://flic.kr/p/2oY1Vfw
I just replied with an emoji cuz I feel like she wasn’t giving enough investment back. I feel like a better move would have been to use a laugh reaction on the message or something. But I really don’t know what caused her to dry up man
My follow-up text game is ineffective right now. The amount of numbers/instagrams I’ve gotten in just the past week exceeds 35+ and a lot of them have dried up fast. I pretty much always get responses to my icebreaker but eventually the numbers go bad. Might need to post FRs on thoseyet
I’ll get into it:
I used to do something similar to the glad we met line, just basically saying it was nice meeting them
then my coach showed me that it’s just filler to say that, doesn’t really give her something strong to respond too
You could’ve opened with a question after she said me too
I’m assuming you forgot about her and that’s why you reinitiated a couple days later
asking about onyx was good, but then you make the vibe way too flirty with everything afterwards
being too flirty gives you the chance to not be taken seriously or seriously misinterpreted
so it’s risky if your new to texting
I would just say stay away from if for now, only flirt when she initiates it
if you look at it, she’s using one emojis and your using 3, so it’s not calibrated correctly
and also you have to remember, every statement you make needs to be response worthy, or else she’ll say something half hearted like “you ain’t funny”
which puts you in a bad position, I would’ve just ignored her comment and switched topics, the moon emoji just makes you like a jokester and doesn’t give her anything to respond to
to recap:
1. always response worthy texts
2. Match investment levels
3. Too much flirty and she won’t take you seriously
I sucked at texting too when I first started, now I’m proud to say I’ve bypassed most of the old problems I used to have, I definitely don’t lose them as fast