Summary: Interesting night but frustrating, just gotta tough it through that’s how you become GOOD. I really wanted to throw the towel in tonight but no that’s what wimps and pussies do. Like Joe said I need to have thick skin and have fun with it. I flipped my attitude and started having fun with it! It was getting draining but I’m holding it together.
I think tonight I approached like 15 women, and here are the memorable ones.
First approach was super solid. I was just going in as a warm up thought it was some basic girl but she’s actually hella cute and blonde and glasses.
I get buddy to talk to her other friend and then he disappears(he texts me later that the girl was a psycho )
I get her talking 80% and she’s just talking about her love of photos and all that. I’m thinking wow I’m barely saying anything just yeah yeah.
Then her body language starts to get a little closed her arms are crossed. Hmmm why she closed now. So I call her out on it actually.
Me: haha damn you really do hate me like your body language is just soo closed I’m trying here haha
Her; oh sorry I’m just super tired (arms still crossed oh well)
It’s really annoying because her friend keeps whispering in her ear “are you okay do you need saving?” And she’s like no it’s fine he’s cool. This happens every 1 minute this other bitch is super insecure. The next time she does it I say, haha I can hear you, you know I’m not a serial killer, only in daylight so it’s night time so we’re okay for now haha
My girl laughs and the other one just stares at me like a crazy one and then laughs.
Uh oh this girl IS psycho.
Talk more with this girl and her friends say she’s going to the bathroom wanna come?
My girl says no, WOW that’s awesome!
We chat and I start playing with her hands and earrings it’s good kino.
She’s about to leave and go home (it’s only 10)
I say hey you’re pretty cool honestly I kinda like you, we vibe really well. Let’s grab some grub sometime!
I start to pull out my phone and this girl immediately says no I’m good thanks see ya.
fk it it’s the first approach I got the rest of the night...
Two light skin black girls they were really fun!
Me: hey y’all what are we celebrating tonight
Them: life!
Me; smirking I love it it’s Saturday just tryna enjoy the weekend, interesting little Fanny pack we have here!
The prettier one (these girls were crazy thick like in the right places): ah stop it you and she touches my chest
Me: I fuck with it, the 90s style kinda throw back
Introduce myself to them and they’re really cool and fun
I ask wyd
Idr lmao
Her; what do you do?
Me: I’m a porn star actually
They are geeked and start smiling and laughing wooooow (she touches me chest) she does this a lot in this interaction it’s absurd like every time I say something
Me: it’s hard work with a wink(fuck this is kinda cheesy or gamey...but it’s just so funny, is it sexy idk I was being tryna be fun)
Her: she literally starts yelling ooooh shit this guys gotta big dick big dick alert.
It gets other girls attention this is so freaking funny. It’ll come up later in another interaction.
Me: now let’s calm down there, I never said that
We then deep dive into her about her relationships and I find out that she’s the more aggressive type the one that always takes charge.
I’m kinda turned off at this point I like submissive and there’s no way I was gonna try hard to change that about her.
I can’t remember what or where this came from but it went to
Her; I’m 30 I’m probably too told for you
Me; it’s okay I usually go older
Me: I don’t think we should really be talking my 3rd gf might see us and get mad.
She touches me in the chest and starts to get closer to me.
Her: oooooh mister popular here hahaha.
I get bored and I’m warmed up for a girl I’m more into so I leave and venture off
While I’m standing there this really ugly Indian chick comes and starts touching me and slapping my Ass. Okay cool. She tries talking to me but she’s a drunk fuck and I’m not interested at all. Like my dick is so soft. She tries to unsexily grind with me I say I gotta use the bathroom sorry.
finally a cute filipino girl,
She’s in a group
Approach group and they love me and I introduce myself blah blah blah, I’m cool and fun and then I isolate to the pretty filipino girl
She’s totally my type I’m into it she’s shy and doesn’t party a lot (bingooo)
Interaction is going solid I could escalate soon.
All of a sudden that drunk bitch comes back yells at me! “Go talk to fucking white girls you whore dance with them mother fucker”
I play it cool, whose she talking to? I’ve never seen her in my life.. the girls shrug and I’m still mad vining with this chick.
Then the Indian bitch comes back and talks with one of her friends and then drags the cute filipino girl away and they all start body blocking me protecting her. Wtf is going on who is this bitch really?
I’ll come back to this chick after I use the bathroom no worries.
I do a round and pretend I’m ordering a drink and look bored as hell and then notice her like 2/3 min later I said oh hey it’s you again!
We talk pretty well and I’m kinda playing with her hand now.
I see her friend and she pulls a guy and tells him “go save her” the guy comes in and pushes me like literally grabs me and pushes me. Wtf cocksucker( my new favorite word thanks Rob) you want my dick too? I love it !! I don’t fight back I smirk and laugh and just go on my phone (wtf is going on) thank god I gave up drinking or I’d have this guy fucked up rn...I need a new venue fuck this place.
Go downstairs and run into some buddies from college. I love these guys. One of them asks bro you wanna go see this dj tonight? I said fuck yeah bro let’s go right now
Okay cool I’m with this guy, he can be a wingman , new venue I’m liking this energy rn.
This guy kev is cool, but he’s not seducer cool. It’s okay he’s gotta work on it.
Huge venue, better tons of cute girls I like it.
We’re by the bar
See a cute girl with Fanny pack.
Act bored I see her kinda staring at me / space I turn super slow and notice her fanny pack first then smirk and look up at her.
Hey cute Fanny pack, I dig it.
Her; omg haha thanks it’s great for raves.
Me: yea you can store like a lotta cool stuff in there !
Her; I know right
Introduce myself and herself
Me: so you from around here
Her; no I’m 30 min away, I’m a student
Me: no way what you study
Her: architecture
Me; oh word, so they’re building a new White House are you in charge of that, cab you make it so that there’s a secret dungeon to throw underground rave parties in
Her: haha
Me: so you got a favorite architect style
Her; idk man idk
This convo simmers down like wtf is she dumb
So my friend is by himself I feel kinda bad but I’m here for my self improvement so fuck it I’m still hangin with him. He starts shuffling( he’s actually pretty good at it like he’s vibing hard) the girl gets soooo interested by his shuffling and goes over to him and starts shuffling)
Did kev just steal my girl ? I mean hey I’m not gonna stop her and try talking to her while she’s dancing wtf) and kev hasn’t had a girl since like his breakup 8 months ago, nice dude go for it now I don’t gotta worry about you.
I walk around the venue and just try to spot kev and the girl and legit they are just shuffling the entire time hahaha.
Cute blonde bad bitch skinny
This girl is gorgeous, like damn. But I don’t get approach anxiety anymore because fuck you.
Some bright lights come off the stage, I Shield my eyes and face her, oh man these lights are actually really cool but super bright
Her; I know they’re super cool tho
I introduce myself and she does too. Cool she’s friendly and hot AF. Nice ass body.
Me: you’ve actually got one of the sexiest senses of styles in here!
Her; thank you so much I really do care about my fashion.
We talk about fashion and Milan and travel. I’m holding her waist as I do this.
Me: you said you were single right?
Her; hmmm i don’t know I think I am, I came with this guy but idk where he went I’m from NY and visiting the weekend but you’re really cute
Me; (hmmm, fuck it I’m down) I move her towards the back of the Venue. And we dance a little bit. Then I guess the guy she was with puts his arm in the middle, hey buddy that’s mine. I’m still holding this girls hand and he grabs her from me and they start making out like crazy)
Damn. um. cocksucker. I feel a little defeated here, but the best thing to do is write about this and move on. fuck up? Not sure. I guess this is a lesson to be aggressive? Or I’m not sure. did I just give up my girl? Damn that’s totally not alpha or sexy of me. Well I guess she was kinda crazy maybe she was lying. Fuck it move on.
Filipino chick
This girl wasn’t all too cute but I looked around and it was late 3 am and all the other girls were busted or taken.
She’s looking all over the ground.
Me: ah we’re looking for treasure right? I found an X over there I’m sorry I took the treasure
Her; noooo I’m looking for my phone!! I lost it
Me: haha let’s call it and see
Her : okay!
Me; is this your smooth way of tryna get my number I see you
Her; haha sure yeah you’re cute why not
(insert thumbs up photo of your dad being proud of you)
We try to find her phone but looks like it got stolen and they won’t pick up.
I ask her so who’d you come here with?
Her; myself!
Me: oh neat I came with one of my buddies but he’s busy
hey let’s go dance it’s just a phone u can replace it.
I’m dancing with her just hand holding and spinning around it’s fun.
*im really thankful I wasn’t going overboard here wow
Me; hey you’re cool let’s keep hangin out Let’s get outta here
Her: she tells me she doesn’t go home with strangers.
Me; oh we’re not friends that’s too sad
A sad song comes up next and she starts balling out...uh okay?
She hugs me and is crying wtf is going on. Stop being stupid let’s go have fun.
She talks about her ex bf and some stuff that happened but I can’t hear most of it and I really don’t wanna talk about it so I just nod and respond oh yea okay oh okay yeah.
I leave her cuz I’m getting this really weird vibe from her now (I will thank myself hard later)
Go and find kev
He’s still fucking shuffling with this girl wtf this guys for 2 hours just shuffled hey man
You do you! He’s so awesome hahaha. I then see the girl I was just with start trying to shuffle with him too and he starts to grab her hands and dance with her too.
Hahahahahaha well I didn’t tell him and the girl is aight so I’m fine.
Last approach of the night. Cuz literally everyone else is just beat up.
Me: sweet fucking jacket, let’s start a rock band, but I’ll be the drummer.
Her: Omg thank you so much and I’m down except I’ll be the bass girl.
I flirt with her and then she pulls her phone out.
Fuck me there’s her and a dude in her photo.
I say oh nice is that your bf?
Her; oh he’ll no..that’s my girlfriend I’m gay
(Awwwww mannnn cmon maybe that explains the cool manly leather jacket and why I liked it)
Talk about if she’s serious about it but I’m a fucking flirt so I say corny shit like oh we’re not gonna tell her. She likes it. Tell her I’ll be back.
I say I’ll be back and go back to kev and his damn shuffling circle with the two chicks.
Stay there for a while and notice the lesbo chick keeps looking my direction. Hmmmm does she want the dick tonight? It’s cool you can switch tonight might cancel your wedding plans tho with your girlfriend after you and me have some fun. When she’s looking at me I make eye contact and start dancing with one of kevs chicks, I wanna try this jealousy thing. Dance with the girl for 5 min. And peek her direction she’s looking.
Go back to her and it’s a bland convo so I leave.
show is over it’s me kev and the Filipino girl. Turns out this girl has to go to the ER every time she has sex. She also said she was in a abusive relationship and bad things happens to her. She said she told me this earlier..oh duh maybe I should have listened. Idk she might be bluffing but I don’t care I don’t wanna deal with this shit. I’m out dodged a fat bullet, called her sister to pick her up she got this ciao!
Interesting night. but I’m leading interactions a tiny bit more every night. Cool
On the real note going out is tiring like this. I feel like I’m getting closer and closer and/or super super unlucky when I do. I’m gonna tough this through with the good words of Rob and Joe and go out with a GOAL. I met my goal last night of trying to escalate more