Sex vs No Sex on the First Date

Gibson

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She's in limbo/static.

She saw that you can be both her potential husband and also her bdsm dream.

You pushing aggressively will not help. Spending time with her when you don't care about sex, doesn't help you but her because she will slow things down. :)

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Okay. So what is your suggestion, to just not text her ever, unless she texts me?
 

ZacAdam

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Okay. So what is your suggestion, to just not text her ever, unless she texts me?

1)Set the traps with other Girlschase members.
2)Don't Text Her ever again.
3)Wait
4)Eat Her Alive


*End Credit Rolls*

“This is a work of fiction. Any similarity to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events, is purely coincidental. Girlschase members are not Velociraptor nor can they be because they don't hide behind bushes forever. Okay bye. Zac defeats wAhmen eMpoWahment once again"

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DonGately

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Well, if a girl is possibly scared [or scared of X], what should be the response by you? It's not hard.

Saying worst case is 'no change,' shows a very limited understanding of pickup and relationships. Worst case is she was leaning towards meeting or not meeting you, and then you suggested bowling and that cinched her decision.
 

Gibson

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Well, if a girl is possibly scared [or scared of X], what should be the response by you? It's not hard.

Saying worst case is 'no change,' shows a very limited understanding of pickup and relationships. Worst case is she was leaning towards meeting or not meeting you, and then you suggested bowling and that cinched her decision.
If she is scared, then why would bowling secure her decision to NOT meet? I recommended bowling specifically because it's low pressure, relaxed environment.
 

ZacAdam

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If she is scared, then why would bowling secure her decision to NOT meet? I recommended bowling specifically because it's low pressure, relaxed environment.

As I mentioned, she's hesitant. Not sure where to allocate you in her life.

An extreme version of this phenomenon,

I have had a girl in my class who really really really like me. Her girl friends knew it. My friends knew it. They all didn't believe it because she was the smartest girl in school (top 10) and captain of the whole school and I was the unknown in my social circle.

but because we had mutual liking, that itself powers it over their selfishness and high school narcissism.

However, she just could not dump her boyfriend for me, and that's good. She was in tears and it surprised everyone.

I called this as two things

1)The Boyfriend Zone (there can only be one)
2)Value ASS-eesing

I am highly confident that @Chase will be caused by the circumstances of the society and environment that we are in today, to write this in an article. This phenomenon is a legit thing, where a girl can only slot one guy in as the main guy. And sometimes, there's 2 guys who is just as equal.

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