same with me, 90% of my lays coming from the 1st date, but the highest of quality 1s that I really like, and if I know I can't close I don't bother escalating at all, you have a better chance of closing them later on, usually from day game. NG you need to slow down and prolong the interaction as friends spending time together, with a sexualizing mood, if your situation doesn't allow for close, group, party or etc. I'm having a girl I met 2 weeks ago coming to see me again she was very attracted to me, the vibe was good, no tension nor was there any bitterness involved when she was pulled away from me by the friend. but a lot of the times girls want to have sex on the 1st date I failed to provide it, I lose them. so the article don't let her go is one to always remember