What is some routine based game that is the EASIEST way for guys who aren't good at game to get laid?

[JeroyLenkings]

I think alot of the way that alot of this site works can be kinda backwards at times for beginners. The entire introduction of the site is usually getting guys to focus heavy on things like fundamentals which I think is very important as well and has its place. If you're a more attractive guy that means less work. But not everyone has the luxury of fixing their fundamentals overnight so like the authors on this site suggests it's usually something every reader has to work towards which is understandable.

But the problem is meeting women is usually the insanely hard part of being on your girlcshase journey. Most men are just simply not equipped for cold approaching because they simply don't know how to do a good cold approach. They are almost in a way going in blind. Yes their are articles on improving cold approach sure but the reality is most guys just simply cant remember all the content provided to get good results with women because it's really hard to remember and put all together in one.

So which is why Im curious... Is there any routine based game cold approach methods that get women insanely easy? That way a guy doesn't have to tear his hair out trying to learn the ropes of seduction and not getting any results in the process.?

Like considering all the different authors and seducers over the years I'm sure there has been some discussion on easy to pull off routine based game that gets many men laid relatively easy. And because alot of the old seduction forums no longer exist I consider this the next best choice

I think it's 100 times easier to teach men how to climb 50 small hills than to just throw him into mt Everest. And no I'm not just talking about small victories like just talking to women in public. I'm talking actually victories that guys value... Like getting dates, girlfriends, sex, etc. it motivates the guys to stay and learn more.

 

[Adventurer]

Get a plane ticket to Thailand and an individual room

Install Tinder and Tantan, upload your best pictures

Install Line (Thai whatsapp)

Small talk and ask for number after a few messages

Arrange date within a few days without being too pushy or sexual, meet at a coffee shop near your place

Attempt to pull every girl you meet on adate and escalate towards sex

Still need a bit of game but if you're white, I think this is the closest you can get to a silver bullet to get laid fast

 

[average_daygamer]

Short of the London daygame model (open, stack,vibe, close), I don't think there is. I just follow open,small talk, ask about her and what she's doing, ask if she wants to hang out later, close.

The main problem is, I rarely get past the open. Most of my interactions are about 10 seconds long.

A compliment "Hi, you look amazing tonight" and then they say "thanks" as they walk off. They think it's just a compliment instead of a conversation opener. Which could be due to fundamentals not being on point on the initial approach.

 

[average_daygamer]

Get a plane ticket to Thailand and an individual room

Install Tinder and Tantan, upload your best pictures

Install Line (Thai whatsapp)

Small talk and ask for number after a few messages

Arrange date within a few days without being too pushy or sexual, meet at a coffee shop near your place

Attempt to pull every girl you meet on adate and escalate towards sex

Still need a bit of game but if you're white, I think this is the closest you can get to a silver bullet to get laid fast

I suppose it's possible but still we should be able to get laid in the west.

I guess if you like European looking chicks then Latin America is an option, but it is too dangerous. Advantage taking is possible especially for someone with neurodiversity.

I wish there was a safe Latin American country where English is common place.

But still, there should be systems that work on British chicks as well, if not then there is a market for it.

 

[gameboy]

If there was a "system" that always works, then everyone would be doing it and it would stop working. So this is pretty much impossible by definition.

 

[JeroyLenkings]

Get a plane ticket to Thailand and an individual room

Install Tinder and Tantan, upload your best pictures

Install Line (Thai whatsapp)

Small talk and ask for number after a few messages

Arrange date within a few days without being too pushy or sexual, meet at a coffee shop near your place

Attempt to pull every girl you meet on adate and escalate towards sex

Still need a bit of game but if you're white, I think this is the closest you can get to a silver bullet to get laid fast

That's really expensive and I'm not into lady boys so I'll pass on that

 

[KJ Francis]

A full stack of canned routines is not easy. It's like joining a theater production.

A simple process though is 60 Years of Challenge. See post 4 in the link below. Atlas has a more detailed summary in the tactics section, but this shows the bare bones action steps. Definitely read the source material if you go this route though.

PROCESS: Structured Game Progression

Here are some process outlines I aim to combine, then pare down to essentials. My default is to get to know someone, so this structures an order to remember to tease, touch, delay qualification and deep diving, set sexual frames, etc. Mystery - Venusian Arts Handbook 60 Years of Challenge -...

www.skilledseducer.com

It requires embracing rejection and shutting up. Might help with getting some early success for reference experiences if you approach enough volume in the venue.

 

[TomInHo]

Sorry to break it to you bro.. but there's no perfect system

Even if you got a script with exactly what to say because of your lack of experience you will still fuck it up a lot

So best approach is just pick one system, honestly any popular one will do, and stick to it

Go out multiple times to test out ideas, refine your approach and build up your social awareness

Because the search for the "perfect system" more often than not is just procrastination in disguise

You won't fuck more girls by reading about game. You fuck more girls by actually taking action and practicing it

 

[DonGately]

city + alcohol* + girls + proximity + interest + escalation = the easiest formula for most guys.

City not required but helps get the reps in different venues with different crowds until you find the one that works best for whatever you are.


*does not mean 'get drunk.'

 

[egorkluch]

If there was a "system" that always works, then everyone would be doing it and it would stop working. So this is pretty much impossible by definition.

I think it's not a true because any method can works and don't works depends of how player try it. For example, congruent is one of the must important things in any methods. I tried it with "Hive five" in Moscow metro - when I was cheerful and confident the reaction was positive. Doubts led to negative reactions.

 

[Bill]

A really good sexually themed online profile copied to subscribed accounts to all the sites, then non-stop swiping and copy and pasting some text game leading to a hook up or date with really good logistics set up.

 

[JeroyLenkings]

Sorry to break it to you bro.. but there's no perfect system

Even if you got a script with exactly what to say because of your lack of experience you will still fuck it up a lot

So best approach is just pick one system, honestly any popular one will do, and stick to it

Go out multiple times to test out ideas, refine your approach and build up your social awareness

Because the search for the "perfect system" more often than not is just procrastination in disguise

You won't fuck more girls by reading about game. You fuck more girls by actually taking action and practicing it

I understand there is no perfect system. I was just looking for a beginner one so I can perfect one later tailored to my liking once I acquired enough skills and experience

 

[TomInHo]

Know what?

Actually I'm in the mood today, so I'll give you a system I have used and have shared with a few people on how to get laid fast with minimal game required

If you’re the kind of guy who wants to seduce every woman alive and become the modern-day Casanova. . . This ain’t for you

But if your goal is to hook up with women you’re attracted to, without wasting your whole night or obsessing over “closing” one specific girl

Then you might want to pay attention

I'll break it down a concise as possible in 4 main sections

PREPARATION
1) Find the bars/clubs in your area that consistently attract the type of women you’re into
2) Figure out the scene: Is it Hip-Hop, Alternative, or Upscale?
3) Dress on point for that scene. Don’t show up looking like a thug to an upscale lounge. Look like the kind of guy she wants to be seen with there (this should be common sense but apparently it ain't)
4) Know exactly what time the venue closes. That’s key for the next steps.

MAIN VENUE GAME PLAN
1) Check the venue’s open and close times
2) Show up 30–45 minutes before last call (That's when more girls will be in hook up mode and more receptive)
3) If there’s usually a line, time your arrival so you get inside around that window
4) Once inside, walk around slowly try to make eye contact with women
5) If a woman you like holds eye contact, go approach immediately
6) If you're not getting many signals, start approaching proactively
7) Forget complicated openers, just walk up say "Hi" and shake her hand
8) Hold her hand a little longer than normal, if she keeps holding it and makes eye contact, that’s a green light
9) If she’s lukewarm, walk away. Because remember. . . you’re not here to “run game," You're here to offer dick to girls already looking to buy. Be a closer not a persuader
10) Repeat 4–9 until something clicks. If not? Time for the next phase

OVERTIME SEDUCTION (Street Mode)
1) It's last call. Club's kicking everyone out but the game ain't over
2) Hang outside the venue
3) Run the same eye contact + approach strategy on girls out there.
4) If the girl you clicking with is trying to get an Uber? Tell her to cancel it and hang with you more
5) You usually have 30 minutes max before the streets clear out, so try not to waste time n dead end leads
6) If you still got no luck. . . It time for double overtime

DOUBLE OVERTIME SEDUCTION (Food Mode)
1) Okay the street approach didn't work but all is not lost
2) Why? Because some of the easiest pulls of your life will happen after the party.
3) Go to food trucks or food spots near the clubs & post up
4) Hungry girls are sometimes still down to party. And might be looking for some sausage to go with their late night pancakes
5) Run the process to screen for DTF girls. Once you’ve got a green light, time to close.


CLOSING DTF GIRLS
1) This isn’t about “gaming” girls. It’s about closing ones that are already open.
2) So drop the fancy lines and just talk normal.
3) If she’s into you, random convo is enough, she’s already sold and will make conversation flow
4) Trust me if you can hold a conversation with a friend, you can hold one with a DTF chick. They make it so easy it's ridiculous
5) Don’t feel the need to entertain her friends. Be polite, sure. But your focus stays on her.
6) If she’s with just one friend, you might have to throw a line or two at the friend just to not seem weird
7) During the convo, make light physical contact, maintain strong eye contact, and figure out logistics
8) If she lives nearby: Suggest going to her place to “watch some TikToks”
9) If you live nearby: Invite her over to “hang some more.”
10) But don’t aim for numbers. Do your best to close that night. Numbers are hit or miss. If she’s down now, act. But if logistics really are fucked then get her number and try to meet again later. Maybe even later that night if she ditches her friends and is available

That's it. . .

Could I go into more detail? Sure

But honestly, you’ll figure most of it out naturally on your won just by following this outline

Just be aware, you need to be comfortable with escalating to make this work

If you feel weird about hooking up with women you barely know and prefer to talk things out first, this style probably won’t vibe with you

Because I know some guys really value deeper emotional connections before sex

I’ve had friends tell me they felt this kind of approach cheapened the experience. Others didn’t like how fast things moved

You can legit pull girls within 5 minutes sometimes, though 30 to 90 minute interactions are more common, depending on what time you meet her or if she’s with friends, needs food, etc

And yeah, it shocks some people how fast things can progress

One friend even told me it felt too easy for him. Like he needed more of a “challenge” and loved the feeling he got from wooing girls

Personally, I’m not like that

But I get it

 

[Skills]

Get a plane ticket to Thailand and an individual room

Install Tinder and Tantan, upload your best pictures

Install Line (Thai whatsapp)

Small talk and ask for number after a few messages

Arrange date within a few days without being too pushy or sexual, meet at a coffee shop near your place

Attempt to pull every girl you meet on adate and escalate towards sex

Still need a bit of game but if you're white, I think this is the closest you can get to a silver bullet to get laid fast

lol! this one the only legit answer imho....

There is no easy way.... The guys that make it look easy now a days, have put, are putting and cont. to put effort to make it easy...

 

[JeroyLenkings]

Know what?

Actually I'm in the mood today, so I'll give you a system I have used and have shared with a few people on how to get laid fast with minimal game required

If you’re the kind of guy who wants to seduce every woman alive and become the modern-day Casanova. . . This ain’t for you

But if your goal is to hook up with women you’re attracted to, without wasting your whole night or obsessing over “closing” one specific girl

Then you might want to pay attention

I'll break it down a concise as possible in 4 main sections

PREPARATION
1) Find the bars/clubs in your area that consistently attract the type of women you’re into
2) Figure out the scene: Is it Hip-Hop, Alternative, or Upscale?
3) Dress on point for that scene. Don’t show up looking like a thug to an upscale lounge. Look like the kind of guy she wants to be seen with there (this should be common sense but apparently it ain't)
4) Know exactly what time the venue closes. That’s key for the next steps.

MAIN VENUE GAME PLAN
1) Check the venue’s open and close times
2) Show up 30–45 minutes before last call (That's when more girls will be in hook up mode and more receptive)
3) If there’s usually a line, time your arrival so you get inside around that window
4) Once inside, walk around slowly try to make eye contact with women
5) If a woman you like holds eye contact, go approach immediately
6) If you're not getting many signals, start approaching proactively
7) Forget complicated openers, just walk up say "Hi" and shake her hand
8) Hold her hand a little longer than normal, if she keeps holding it and makes eye contact, that’s a green light
9) If she’s lukewarm, walk away. Because remember. . . you’re not here to “run game," You're here to offer dick to girls already looking to buy. Be a closer not a persuader
10) Repeat 4–9 until something clicks. If not? Time for the next phase

OVERTIME SEDUCTION (Street Mode)
1) It's last call. Club's kicking everyone out but the game ain't over
2) Hang outside the venue
3) Run the same eye contact + approach strategy on girls out there.
4) If the girl you clicking with is trying to get an Uber? Tell her to cancel it and hang with you more
5) You usually have 30 minutes max before the streets clear out, so try not to waste time n dead end leads
6) If you still got no luck. . . It time for double overtime

DOUBLE OVERTIME SEDUCTION (Food Mode)
1) Okay the street approach didn't work but all is not lost
2) Why? Because some of the easiest pulls of your life will happen after the party.
3) Go to food trucks or food spots near the clubs & post up
4) Hungry girls are sometimes still down to party. And might be looking for some sausage to go with their late night pancakes
5) Run the process to screen for DTF girls. Once you’ve got a green light, time to close.


CLOSING DTF GIRLS
1) This isn’t about “gaming” girls. It’s about closing ones that are already open.
2) So drop the fancy lines and just talk normal.
3) If she’s into you, random convo is enough, she’s already sold and will make conversation flow
4) Trust me if you can hold a conversation with a friend, you can hold one with a DTF chick. They make it so easy it's ridiculous
5) Don’t feel the need to entertain her friends. Be polite, sure. But your focus stays on her.
6) If she’s with just one friend, you might have to throw a line or two at the friend just to not seem weird
7) During the convo, make light physical contact, maintain strong eye contact, and figure out logistics
8) If she lives nearby: Suggest going to her place to “watch some TikToks”
9) If you live nearby: Invite her over to “hang some more.”
10) But don’t aim for numbers. Do your best to close that night. Numbers are hit or miss. If she’s down now, act. But if logistics really are fucked then get her number and try to meet again later. Maybe even later that night if she ditches her friends and is available

That's it. . .

Could I go into more detail? Sure

But honestly, you’ll figure most of it out naturally on your won just by following this outline

Just be aware, you need to be comfortable with escalating to make this work

If you feel weird about hooking up with women you barely know and prefer to talk things out first, this style probably won’t vibe with you

Because I know some guys really value deeper emotional connections before sex

I’ve had friends tell me they felt this kind of approach cheapened the experience. Others didn’t like how fast things moved

You can legit pull girls within 5 minutes sometimes, though 30 to 90 minute interactions are more common, depending on what time you meet her or if she’s with friends, needs food, etc

And yeah, it shocks some people how fast things can progress

One friend even told me it felt too easy for him. Like he needed more of a “challenge” and loved the feeling he got from wooing girls

Personally, I’m not like that

But I get it

Thank god for this guy being in the mood. Thanks mood. Much appreciated. My area is not really known well for the bar scene but I'll take what I can get because this is good content and I' can at least have it for bars if not that than for other night game venues or street approaches. I need the easy wins

 

[JeroyLenkings]

Know what?

Actually I'm in the mood today, so I'll give you a system I have used and have shared with a few people on how to get laid fast with minimal game required

If you’re the kind of guy who wants to seduce every woman alive and become the modern-day Casanova. . . This ain’t for you

But if your goal is to hook up with women you’re attracted to, without wasting your whole night or obsessing over “closing” one specific girl

Then you might want to pay attention

I'll break it down a concise as possible in 4 main sections

PREPARATION
1) Find the bars/clubs in your area that consistently attract the type of women you’re into
2) Figure out the scene: Is it Hip-Hop, Alternative, or Upscale?
3) Dress on point for that scene. Don’t show up looking like a thug to an upscale lounge. Look like the kind of guy she wants to be seen with there (this should be common sense but apparently it ain't)
4) Know exactly what time the venue closes. That’s key for the next steps.

MAIN VENUE GAME PLAN
1) Check the venue’s open and close times
2) Show up 30–45 minutes before last call (That's when more girls will be in hook up mode and more receptive)
3) If there’s usually a line, time your arrival so you get inside around that window
4) Once inside, walk around slowly try to make eye contact with women
5) If a woman you like holds eye contact, go approach immediately
6) If you're not getting many signals, start approaching proactively
7) Forget complicated openers, just walk up say "Hi" and shake her hand
8) Hold her hand a little longer than normal, if she keeps holding it and makes eye contact, that’s a green light
9) If she’s lukewarm, walk away. Because remember. . . you’re not here to “run game," You're here to offer dick to girls already looking to buy. Be a closer not a persuader
10) Repeat 4–9 until something clicks. If not? Time for the next phase

OVERTIME SEDUCTION (Street Mode)
1) It's last call. Club's kicking everyone out but the game ain't over
2) Hang outside the venue
3) Run the same eye contact + approach strategy on girls out there.
4) If the girl you clicking with is trying to get an Uber? Tell her to cancel it and hang with you more
5) You usually have 30 minutes max before the streets clear out, so try not to waste time n dead end leads
6) If you still got no luck. . . It time for double overtime

DOUBLE OVERTIME SEDUCTION (Food Mode)
1) Okay the street approach didn't work but all is not lost
2) Why? Because some of the easiest pulls of your life will happen after the party.
3) Go to food trucks or food spots near the clubs & post up
4) Hungry girls are sometimes still down to party. And might be looking for some sausage to go with their late night pancakes
5) Run the process to screen for DTF girls. Once you’ve got a green light, time to close.


CLOSING DTF GIRLS
1) This isn’t about “gaming” girls. It’s about closing ones that are already open.
2) So drop the fancy lines and just talk normal.
3) If she’s into you, random convo is enough, she’s already sold and will make conversation flow
4) Trust me if you can hold a conversation with a friend, you can hold one with a DTF chick. They make it so easy it's ridiculous
5) Don’t feel the need to entertain her friends. Be polite, sure. But your focus stays on her.
6) If she’s with just one friend, you might have to throw a line or two at the friend just to not seem weird
7) During the convo, make light physical contact, maintain strong eye contact, and figure out logistics
8) If she lives nearby: Suggest going to her place to “watch some TikToks”
9) If you live nearby: Invite her over to “hang some more.”
10) But don’t aim for numbers. Do your best to close that night. Numbers are hit or miss. If she’s down now, act. But if logistics really are fucked then get her number and try to meet again later. Maybe even later that night if she ditches her friends and is available

That's it. . .

Could I go into more detail? Sure

But honestly, you’ll figure most of it out naturally on your won just by following this outline

Just be aware, you need to be comfortable with escalating to make this work

If you feel weird about hooking up with women you barely know and prefer to talk things out first, this style probably won’t vibe with you

Because I know some guys really value deeper emotional connections before sex

I’ve had friends tell me they felt this kind of approach cheapened the experience. Others didn’t like how fast things moved

You can legit pull girls within 5 minutes sometimes, though 30 to 90 minute interactions are more common, depending on what time you meet her or if she’s with friends, needs food, etc

And yeah, it shocks some people how fast things can progress

One friend even told me it felt too easy for him. Like he needed more of a “challenge” and loved the feeling he got from wooing girls

Personally, I’m not like that

But I get it

Thank god for this guy being in the mood. Thanks mood. Much appreciated. My area is not really known well for the bar scene but I'll take what I can get because this is good content and I' can at least have it for bars if not that than for other night game venues or street approaches. I need the easy wins

 

[504]

Thank god for this guy being in the mood. Thanks mood.

 

[Atlas IV]

Get a plane ticket to Thailand and an individual room

Install Tinder and Tantan, upload your best pictures

Install Line (Thai whatsapp)

Small talk and ask for number after a few messages

Arrange date within a few days without being too pushy or sexual, meet at a coffee shop near your place

Attempt to pull every girl you meet on adate and escalate towards sex

Still need a bit of game but if you're white, I think this is the closest you can get to a silver bullet to get laid fast

Recipe for LMR, unless you're gaming the girls who have nonexistent ASD and will bang any white guy with a dick.

Honestly I don't get it. I've gamed in tons of countries, and I wouldn't say banging the hottest girls in Thailand is any easier (or harder) than elsewhere. Past a certain tier of hotness, they generally don't give a shit that you're white.

Everyone seems to have the impression that you'll get off the plane in Bangkok, swipe 9s and 10s on Tinder, and bang them after a coffee date with no LMR.

Maybe I'm crazy, but that just doesn't match the reality of me or anyone I know here. Either there's some godly secret PUA technique I don't know about, or we're just talking about vastly different kinds of girls.

 

[Skills]

Recipe for LMR, unless you're gaming the girls who have nonexistent ASD and will bang any white guy with a dick.

Honestly I don't get it. I've gamed in tons of countries, and I wouldn't say banging the hottest girls in Thailand is any easier (or harder) than elsewhere. Past a certain tier of hotness, they generally don't give a shit that you're white.

Everyone seems to have the impression that you'll get off the plane in Bangkok, swipe 9s and 10s on Tinder, and bang them after a coffee date with no LMR.

Maybe I'm crazy, but that just doesn't match the reality of me or anyone I know here. Either there's some godly secret PUA technique I don't know about, or we're just talking about vastly different kinds of girls.

Wow i really didn't know this ..

 

[Atlas IV]

Wow i really didn't know this ..

Won't derail this any further, but it's basically the same as what we talked about in that other thread about Spanish/Portuguese girls.

The hottest girls everywhere have options. Never known a place where white guys easily banging the hottest girls without much game. Just doesn't match my experience