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What is some routine based game that is the EASIEST way for guys who aren't good at game to get laid?

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WIA said 3-4 times per week. Some people have work at 9am. Some people also work Sunday mornings too like me. And I mean I’ll still go out tonight but I’ll feel like shit when I go to work tomorrow
The obvious answer is to try not going out on the days you need to wake up early common sense..
 

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The obvious answer is to try not going out on the days you need to wake up early common sense
The only day I don’t have to wake up early is Monday. And obviously Sunday nights are dead
 

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I mean that if I sleep at 5am I'm still waking up at 9-my body won't sleep until 12

Has been this way forever
i see you body clock.... uhmmm! ok i understand....

let me think, 3 things i use:

-alexa/google home sleep sounds
-sleep mask or really dark black out room
-melatonin 10 mg dissolvable i do the cherry flavor dissolvable...

But maybe you are one of these dudes that your internal sleep clock is rambo level... Unusual by the time you get home from clubs you are usually super hungry (lack of sleep gets you hungry, i solve this by having in my car sparkling water or flavor sparkling water), and super tired at times... I don't know if you drink red bull and the likes at clubs (don't do this if you do)
 

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I’ve found the easiest times I’ve gotten laid are when the girl approaches me. All you really have to do in that case is be friendly, slowly escalate with touch, give little teases, figure out logistics and just be there with her when the bar closes. Walk out together and go home together. You know she’s interested right away, and if it’s within an hour of two of bar close, even better.

However, you could stand around all night and not get approached, so this isn’t much of a game plan… but when it happens, jump on the opportunity.

The second easiest I’ve found is with a girl who is out with a female friend who brought a bf/dude with her. A third wheel. If you can join their group, then isolate the third wheel, you’ll be off to the races. So look for groups with two girls and a guy, make friends with all of them (I’ve lost so many sets by not doing that), then isolate and work your magic.
 
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I disagree with you on nightgaming 3/4 nights per week. Unless you are someone who can survive on a few hours of sleep for sustained periods, I don't see how that is humanly possible without changing your entire body clock. It's the kind of thing you could only do if you were unemployed and lived next door to a venue. The maximum I can handle is 1 late night per week. And even then, my energy levels are pretty low last 1am.

Back when I had a corporate job where I was expected to be at the office between 7:30 AM and 8 AM Monday-Friday, I went out 3-4 nights per week to bars, nightclubs, and social events. Most of the rest of the nights I spent either taking new girls out onto dates or spending time with current girlfriends.

You just follow a few rules and you are fine:

  1. Shower BEFORE you go out, not after

  2. No more than two drinks on work nights

  3. 11 - 11:30 PM is your "last call to pull" time

  4. No matter what you are outta there by 12 AM. Take a few shots at girls on the street as you're leaving if you didn't pull from the venue

  5. If you pull, you must be fucking the girl by 1:30 AM, otherwise if you can't break LMR you tell her "sorry I've gotta sleep now." If she stays over try again in the morning before you go to work

  6. Otherwise, if you do not pull, you are in bed by 1 AM at the latest

  7. Non-bar/club worknights, you do even earlier -- date starts as early as the girl is available (6:30 or 7 PM), aim to pull by 9:15 PM at the latest (remember she has work tomorrow too and will bounce if you go too late), asleep by 11:30 PM at the latest; or if seeing a girlfriend bang her out and have dinner and in bed falling asleep by 11 PM

Just don't get into the habit of trying to write field reports after you get home on week nights or talking to guys on forums to decompress, because that is how you find yourself going, "Ah shit, I got home at 12:30 and didn't even pull but now it's 4 AM and I have to be up in 3 hours!"

Save the field report writing / forum stuff for during the day or on weekends.

No goofing off when you get back from the club on weeknights -- just straight to bed.

Chase
 

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Back when I had a corporate job where I was expected to be at the office between 7:30 AM and 8 AM Monday-Friday, I went out 3-4 nights per week to bars, nightclubs, and social events. Most of the rest of the nights I spent either taking new girls out onto dates or spending time with current girlfriends.

You just follow a few rules and you are fine:

  1. Shower BEFORE you go out, not after

  2. No more than two drinks on work nights

  3. 11 - 11:30 PM is your "last call to pull" time

  4. No matter what you are outta there by 12 AM. Take a few shots at girls on the street as you're leaving if you didn't pull from the venue

  5. If you pull, you must be fucking the girl by 1:30 AM, otherwise if you can't break LMR you tell her "sorry I've gotta sleep now." If she stays over try again in the morning before you go to work

  6. Otherwise, if you do not pull, you are in bed by 1 AM at the latest

  7. Non-bar/club worknights, you do even earlier -- date starts as early as the girl is available (6:30 or 7 PM), aim to pull by 9:15 PM at the latest (remember she has work tomorrow too and will bounce if you go too late), asleep by 11:30 PM at the latest; or if seeing a girlfriend bang her out and have dinner and in bed falling asleep by 11 PM

Just don't get into the habit of trying to write field reports after you get home on week nights or talking to guys on forums to decompress, because that is how you find yourself going, "Ah shit, I got home at 12:30 and didn't even pull but now it's 4 AM and I have to be up in 3 hours!"

Save the field report writing / forum stuff for during the day or on weekends.

No goofing off when you get back from the club on weeknights -- just straight to bed.

Chase
I can see how this might just be doable if you live in the same town as the venue, preferably walking distance.

Must be Hella tiring, though.
 

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I’ve found the easiest times I’ve gotten laid are when the girl approaches me. All you really have to do in that case is be friendly, slowly escalate with touch, give little teases, figure out logistics and just be there with her when the bar closes. Walk out together and go home together. You know she’s interested right away, and if it’s within an hour of two of bar close, even better.

However, you could stand around all night and not get approached, so this isn’t much of a game plan… but when it happens, jump on the opportunity.

The second easiest I’ve found is with a girl who is out with a female friend who brought a bf/dude with her. A third wheel. If you can join their group, then isolate the third wheel, you’ll be off to the races. So look for groups with two girls and a guy, make friends with all of them (I’ve lost so many sets by not doing that), then isolate and work your magic.
Yes... But those situations you are killing the choice control.... Another similar is when the friend was to go home early or to a place she doesn't want to and wants to keep partying...or when she just met the friends she is out with...
 

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My 2 go-to scents are the classic Fahrenheit by Dior, been a top 10 seller forever, women love it on me I've even had cafeteria ladies in skyscraper lunchrooms mention how good I smell.

My summer/hotter weather go-to is Creed Millesime Imperial. Also regularly get compliments on it.

You gotta field test your colognes, there is no substitute.
 

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I went out 3-4 nights a week in Manhattan for a decade+, and I had to be on the trading floor by 7 am. We wouldn't even get to some clubs until 1230-1am. The things we do for the hottest girls.

There was definitely some sex being had at her place at 330-4 am, or 6am, but at least everywhere was a short cab ride away from work at 645 am...I could shower and dress in 5 minutes flat. Just leave your suit/shirt out the night before, simple.

I am a night owl though. And naps are key as noted above.
 

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You gotta field test your colognes, there is no substitute.
Correct cause you can have one cologne one girls like and another doesn't.... and there are some unusual cases were a girl can be turned on and off by natural scent
 

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Is this because the girl it's designed to find moved to Feeld and is at home?
You will be dealing with mainly yellows and night game has become ss light... I am talking usa mainstream clubs... No college town, Halloween, traveling, online... most interactions will look in usa like James d last report or fluxcapacitator last report... what i see in my area as of now... Again best to field test...
 

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I am talking usa mainstream clubs... No college town, Halloween, traveling, online... most interactions will look in usa
Most of the videos posted by @King68thegreat take place in Miami. And @TomInHo, who wrote the guide you said won’t work nowadays, lives and games in Los Angeles.
 

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Most of the videos posted by @King68thegreat take place in Miami. And @TomInHo, who wrote the guide you said won’t work nowadays, lives and games in Los Angeles.
i don't game in Miami or Los Angeles.... So i said people can go field test.... You mean the insta celebrity...brah!
 

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