They talk about themselves , who they are , what they are doing for a living , stuff like that . I ask her why she is doing that , if she is passionate about what she is doing , what places she would want to visit someday . If i find interesting what they are saying , I just compliment them and start reducing the distance between me and her to build sexual tension , and tell her some stories related to what she was saying .
Like for example how I realized that for me is more important having a great work life balance , rather than having extra money , or how I visited some exotic places , or my favorite story is how i bribed some police officers in Bulgaria with 1 euro and avoided a speed ticket thus , or how I was arguing with the border police in Cuba as they were not allowing me to enter the country to get my next flight ( you arrive on the old airport , and depart from the newer one that is like 2km away ) but eventually for 5 dollars he gave me a VIP ride himself .
From here usually they start braking report and feeling somehow uncomfortable ( i did A/B testing about what stories I say , from really vanilla ones to really cool ones , but i get the same result) , and find the smallest reasons to think that we are not compatible . In some extreme cases , I would say that the sky is blue and she would argue that it is actually green and i am a blind guy ( this is an allegory to have an idea of the idea how stupid the disagreements are ). At some point one girl told me that I am just basically saying that you have more life experience than me , bla bla.
I am progressively mildly escalating sexually when i tell the stories , like touching her waist , shoulder , putting my face very close to hers then pulling back , stuff like that
Something wired happens , like getting into a dormant auto rejection and just waiting for the smallest thing to start going into auto rejection , and just feels like a cold war started