abundance -> absolute abundance blueprint

[KJ Francis]

Also daygame near campus' of masters/PHD students...

Silver bullet? Of course not but would tilt the % in your favour...

Could be of interest... Looks like he frequented the libraries at the London School of Economics and Kings College while not a student.

Girls You’ll Meet in the Library and How to Pick Them Up

One day while studying in the library, I saw a beautiful girl sitting by herself. Things between me and another girl had just fizzled out and I was looking to get back into the game. I decided to approach the beautiful girl. I walked up to her, talked to her for a bit, got her number, and a few...

www.girlschase.com

Re: social frame while not enrolled, I suppose the girls there could understand the concept of psychological anchors. There is just something about a university library that puts you in a studious mindset...

 

[Spike]

This is where we have a difference in opinion. Nothing I've achieved worth mentioning happened without thought.

You focus on looks above all else, so shock horror you attract the same in women

As I’ve written about many times. I go to bars that I know the 18-20 year olds hang out. I know I’m not going to run into a girl that I’m compatible with because our life experiences are very different. In addition to 18-20 year old girls having very little life experience, it’s at this stage in their life where they are extremely superficial. And they value looks above all else in terms of guys they sleep with. Which works for me because that’s all I focus on. If I wanted to get with a girl who is more compatible with me, then I’d go to places I know attract 25-35 year old girls. Their life experience more line up with mine. Because we grew up watching the same things, feeling/thinking about things the same way etc etc. just that I don’t want that right now. However There are 18-20 year olds that do have more life experience that your average 18-20 year old. These girls I’ve found to be more compatible with me despite the huge age difference. But that is not something I care too much about. If it happens great. But I’m mainly looking for just fuckbuddies as I advance in my career. Which is my top priority.

I saw that you returned to daygame. After controlling for the factor you were looking for - girls who share the same hobbies as you. But as you saw that was a failure. What I mean is that it’s very possible that in your attempt to find that compatible girl, you may not find her in your new daygame hunting ground. But instead, find her when you were just randomly one day getting a cup of coffee. In some location far away from your controlled arena and then hit it off with her. I know us control freaks hates randomness and luck but the sooner you embrace it the better off you’ll be.

 

[DoWhatWorks]

In addition to 18-20 year old girls having very little life experience, it’s at this stage in their life where they are extremely superficial. And they value looks above all else in terms of guys they sleep with

I'd say this is an assumption and a sizeable number of that demo don't look at looks alone but I won't open that can of worms...

I see this all the time with my natural friends. They focus on a sub-genre of girl then assume all girls are like that.

If I wanted to get with a girl who is more compatible with me, then I’d go to places I know attract 25-35 year old girls. Their life experience more line up with mine. Because we grew up watching the same things, feeling/thinking about things the same way etc etc. just that I don’t want that right now.

Agree with this and similar to my experience

However There are 18-20 year olds that do have more life experience that your average 18-20 year old. These girls I’ve found to be more compatible with me despite the huge age difference.

This is probably the root of our difference in opinion. I (rightly or wrongly, time will tell) think I can increase % of meeting them.

What I mean is that it’s very possible that in your attempt to find that compatible girl, you may not find her in your new daygame hunting ground. But instead, find her when you were just randomly one day getting a cup of coffee. In some location far away from your controlled arena and then hit it off with her. I know us control freaks hates randomness and luck but the sooner you embrace it the better off you’ll be.

I agree with this. I think everyone thinks I'm trying to guarantee results but I can't stress enough I'm just trying to increase odds lol...

What I've actually found most useful in all this is that training myself to always see (and act) on opportunities has led to me interacting with young yet mature girls way more frequently then before which for me is half the battle.

If I keep doing that, the rest will take care of itself.

This spurred from nightgame not being interesting for me anymore (despite still getting lays) and online matches creeping older as the algorithm typically keeps you with people round the same age.

 

[JollyRoger]

I agree with this. I think everyone thinks I'm trying to guarantee results but I can't stress enough I'm just trying to increase odds lol...

Of course nothing is guaranteed in life but it's logical to increase the odds in your favour in lots of small ways so I completely agree with your approach.

For example I'm learning to speak a language (3 years now) of a country that I've had success with in the past and I consider good LTR material. Does that mean every woman from that country is compatible with me? No. Does that mean that I will refuse to consider someone else that I click with and that ticks all my boxes but speaks a different language, no.

I don't watch Anime and I'm not interested in Japanese women so it wouldn't be smart of me to learn Japanese and hang out at cosplay conventions would it?

Well what's the opposite of that? Adding lots of small 0.1% to 1% 's in my favour for the things that I AM interested in.