Thank you
@Teevster for the clarification. Now I see what you mean by attraction probably not being altérable, though I usually use the two words interchangeably but the reasons for that is a semantics discussion that Ive now learned is a waste of mental energy (never had these discussions before). And thank you
@Velasco for your responses yesterday even though I’m sure much of it was annoying af to deal with haha
This question of “attraction generation” is relevant in my view because it is related to the questions:
1.) What should I care about when I go out?
2.) What should I actively learn when I sarge?
3.) What techs are a waste of time and what are beneficial?
I’m already good looking enough, all my fundamentals are good (except my hair is really long now because all the barbers are closed lol) except for style and vibe maybe, so any talk of the significance of looks is pretty useless to me.
If attraction is there or not, there is no point in me trying hard - I should just approach more and learn to screen better
If attraction can be increased, then I have to do new things I’m not even aware of. There is more responsibility on my part
One thought I have involves a girl being “red” or “no attraction creation possible.” IMO there is no way of knowing why the girl was a “red”. Could have been your looks, your game, bad luck. There is no use in believing a woman is, as a matter of fact, a red girl unless there is clear evidence that baseline attraction was not met. So I think the pua should say “maybe I could have done something better” rather than “she was a no girl. I had no chance with her” <== the player has literally no proof he had no chance, so why give a shit and believe girls are “red”?