Daygame: Probability, Randomness & Large Sample Sizes

[ThePhoenix]

First of all until a newbie has done a 100 approaches within a short period of time, he has not yet conquered the emotional aspects of approaching like managing his anxiety, being calm during the conversation etc. Absolute basic things. Its only after a guy can get past that stage is it worth doing any further analysis for most guys.

Yes, totally agree, if you're a complete bundle of nerves approaching—and almost certainly you're going to be for the first while—you really need the experience just to desensitize yourself. I don't think it took me 100 to get over that, but yes, absolutely, do however many approaches it takes to get through the initial shock.

TBH, yes, for a newbie, for the first little while you improve a lot and you'll see a lot of improvement in girls' reactions without even getting any advice or doing any research, because you get that baseline emotional conditioning.

I agree there 1000%.

"Oh gotta read up all these things before I approach again!"

And approaching is skipped in favour of more "research".

Agreed 1000%, that's a huge mistake, to not keep approaching. You'll just go into your head and the words you're reading won't mean anything. Plus you don't need perfection to pull some girls, which in turn helps with confidence.

I don't doubt guys make this mistake a lot. (I even go a bit crazy writing up some interactions, though I don't write up most approaches other than a quick one-liner log, or else I would barely approach. ) Your original points are very good overall, I didn't mean to detract from that.

 

[Energy]

But you just have to rely on your social skills to handle it, and accept that we live in a competitive world, and if you want something you have to risk something.

That's the kind of advice I like: realistic and direct Maybe we need to have some compilation of one liner like this.