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Cro-Magnon Man
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this woman from tinder needs to get laid lol

fog: hi future lover
girl: herrrooo
girl: whats up
fog: i see trouble in your eyes
girl: ;(
girl: wanna hang or what?
girl: lol
fog: my place or yours
girl: mine
girl: i should go to the lcboooo
girl: but im laaazy
fog: its a tempting offer
girl: but?
**radio silence from me**
girl: lol ok

*next day*

fog: lets reschedule for asap. ate too many edibles and crashed oops
girl: ahahaha ok
girl : :) :) :) :) :)
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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looks like its been over a year now since i took any real action with women..and its been a couple months since i stopped dedicating any
mental effort to improving my base attraction...

which is totally fine with me. cuz im putting in no effort, but the attraction from girls in terms of quality and quantity towards me is the highest its ever been - which will make a very easy springboard for me when i turn the heat down on the area of my life im focusing on right now, which is....

....my career in marketing. which im obsessed with, putting in 12 hour days 7 days a week for what feels like months on end...because my goal is mastery and i have a burning desire to get there as fast as possible. currently im feeling pretty confident in my abilities (marketing dominance) to grow businesses and the nuances i understand are quite exciting.

I've also had some coaching with my soft skills and learned new approaches to communication, which has completely upped the way i approach interactions with guys or girls of different status levels in different environments, as well as overall social awareness.

To sum it up, I'm experiencing very high growth in my career right now while I've put women on the backburner, but the growth from my career is positively impacting how women react to me. definitely curious to continue to observe this effect
 
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Cro-Magnon Man
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"hi future lover" is my favorite online opener right now because it sets the proper frame from the start, while still being ambiguous.

i used to use "what are you looking for on here"
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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im also using "love u" to soften up conversations.

ive been smoking my favorite indica lately and its making me realize some awesome stuff. for example, when i smoke a lot of indica, i become:

1. less aware of subcommunications
2. more likely to roll with others frames rather than set frames
3. i dont bring people into my reality as much

recently, observing this behavior made me realize a need for strong "plotlines" between interactions. a running plotline is like an inside joke that connects interactions and makes them one long running event rather than a seperate event. but this can be more than an inside joke. it could be a topic, or a preferred shared reality between you and the other person. its important to get into this shared reality quickly when starting a new interaction with someone.

for example, i was high at work and in a meeting with a female coworker who im making more of an effort to connect with lately. while she is socially aware, she is passive in that she rolls with frames and other peoples realities. because i was in an indica mindset, i did not provide a solid foundation for her to come into my reality and frames - leading to a really undefined conversation
 
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