Lol, overweight 50 year olds from the apps? No thanks!
If I wanted to bang girls my age it would be easy as fuck. (nice pun) But unfortunately I'm just not attracted to them.
I'm not necessarily looking for 18-year-olds either. I mean if I could get one in bed it would probably be lots of fun, and I definitely am not ruling it out. But I don't see myself dealing with immature personalities in the long term
My sweet spot would probably be somewhere between 25-35. But if she's hot and has a good personality, I wouldn't mind a girl in her 40s either. My last gf was 8 years younger than me, so would be 43 by now. I haven't seen her in a couple of years but when we broke up, she was still very doable. Slim, fit body, attractive face, nice long curly hair.
Unfortunately hot single sane 40 year olds aren't super common around here. And since I'm cold approaching anyway, I'm not limiting myself to a specific age range necessarily (though I try to avoid approaching girls that look like teens).
Nah, cold approach is too much fun to give up. I was rattled by that experience for a bit, since the reaction was so extreme. (Not sure how you deal with that shit on a daily basis
@average_daygamer. Hope you find a way to make your approaches smoother soon.)
In this case, after reflecting on the incident, I'm pretty sure it was just an extreme case of virtue signaling to the boyfriend. And then of course the guy had to step up and show his girlfriend in turn that he was man enough to confront me. I mean I've been in the same situation 1000s of times, when you have a hot GF it happens all the time that other guys will come up to her and talk to her when you're in the bathroom. (which is what I think happened, because I approached that chick just outside a public restroom. I think he was probably even in earshot. Which is probably why she shouted "what's your problem" so loud.)
Anyway, don't worry guys I'm gonna keep going. Planning to target my approaches a bit better though, and make them smoother.
You should try talk to dudes as well.
Yeah I do that too, but I don't usually cold approach them. There's a few guys I see on the beach frequently, and we chat when our paths cross.
Once I actually cold approach a dude who was wearing a t-shirt of a band I like, but it was kind of awkward. He had this whole "I wonder if he's gay" vibe about him. Not planning to do that too often lol. I don't like being approached by dudes either, especially if their intentions aren't clear immediately.
Some come up and ask me for cigarettes, or weed or whatever. Then I can tell them yes or no or whatever. But I've also had some really weird dudes approach me. Anyone remember the "holobo from" guy? "is good"? Man... I mean if you're gay you can probably get away with saying "asoifhasofiasdfdfsdfsfhsoifhiosd" and still get laid. For us heteros it's a little bit more complicated haha.
It was an intense experience for sure, so that's normal.
Thanks for your support buddy. Much appreciated, it helped a lot
"Excuse me, I was just walking past here, and I noticed you as you seemed to be checking out how you look on your phone and I wanted to say.... You look very pretty! "
Yeah I have used that opener as well. Usually I shorten it a bit though, since I never know which language the girl understands so I mainly just do one sentence for the opener, than wait for her reply to see whether she understands me or whether it's necessary to switch languages. Then once we've established which language we're speaking, if the vibe is good I usually tell them I saw you from over there and wanted to talk to you or something like that.
Regarding intentions, with a bit of distance I don't think the girl that reacted so extremely misunderstood my intentions at all. Girls aren't dumb, they know what's up when a guy approaches them. Though they like to
play dumb and will still make you do all the work of seducing them, lol.
Like I wrote above, by now I believe her reaction was an immature, low-EQ version of saying "I have a bf so don't hit on me" (since he was probably right there, within earshot).
