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Space Monkey
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Ah, Gameboy, you've finally had that one weird situation where you start to think "is cold approach the right path". Well let me make it easy for you: it is the only path. Once you get past 30, apps are out due to the age (discrimination) filter if you want to get younger girls. Social circle is likely to be your own age anyway. If you are a single guy, without a family, you are out there for yourself, no one else. If your goal is to get laid with 18 year old girls then that is great!

But you have to access them and the only way to do that is by approaching them.

I had a situation where I got into a confrontation with this huge chavy 16 year old when I approached his girlfriend who was walking behind him (whom I thought was 18). That was a couple years into my cold approach journey. Since then I have had a few more confrontations, notably where I had to put a lad on the floor outside a pub.

What these situations teach you is, whether you are in it for real or not. Because ask yourself brother, if not cold approach then what?

Are you just gonna online "date" with women within a few years range of yourself rather than girls who really get your pulse racing and juices flowing?
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Lol, overweight 50 year olds from the apps? No thanks!

If I wanted to bang girls my age it would be easy as fuck. (nice pun) But unfortunately I'm just not attracted to them.

I'm not necessarily looking for 18-year-olds either. I mean if I could get one in bed it would probably be lots of fun, and I definitely am not ruling it out. But I don't see myself dealing with immature personalities in the long term

My sweet spot would probably be somewhere between 25-35. But if she's hot and has a good personality, I wouldn't mind a girl in her 40s either. My last gf was 8 years younger than me, so would be 43 by now. I haven't seen her in a couple of years but when we broke up, she was still very doable. Slim, fit body, attractive face, nice long curly hair.

Unfortunately hot single sane 40 year olds aren't super common around here. And since I'm cold approaching anyway, I'm not limiting myself to a specific age range necessarily (though I try to avoid approaching girls that look like teens).

Nah, cold approach is too much fun to give up. I was rattled by that experience for a bit, since the reaction was so extreme. (Not sure how you deal with that shit on a daily basis @average_daygamer. Hope you find a way to make your approaches smoother soon.)

In this case, after reflecting on the incident, I'm pretty sure it was just an extreme case of virtue signaling to the boyfriend. And then of course the guy had to step up and show his girlfriend in turn that he was man enough to confront me. I mean I've been in the same situation 1000s of times, when you have a hot GF it happens all the time that other guys will come up to her and talk to her when you're in the bathroom. (which is what I think happened, because I approached that chick just outside a public restroom. I think he was probably even in earshot. Which is probably why she shouted "what's your problem" so loud.)

Anyway, don't worry guys I'm gonna keep going. Planning to target my approaches a bit better though, and make them smoother.
You should try talk to dudes as well.
Yeah I do that too, but I don't usually cold approach them. There's a few guys I see on the beach frequently, and we chat when our paths cross.

Once I actually cold approach a dude who was wearing a t-shirt of a band I like, but it was kind of awkward. He had this whole "I wonder if he's gay" vibe about him. Not planning to do that too often lol. I don't like being approached by dudes either, especially if their intentions aren't clear immediately.

Some come up and ask me for cigarettes, or weed or whatever. Then I can tell them yes or no or whatever. But I've also had some really weird dudes approach me. Anyone remember the "holobo from" guy? "is good"? Man... I mean if you're gay you can probably get away with saying "asoifhasofiasdfdfsdfsfhsoifhiosd" and still get laid. For us heteros it's a little bit more complicated haha.

It was an intense experience for sure, so that's normal.
Thanks for your support buddy. Much appreciated, it helped a lot :)

"Excuse me, I was just walking past here, and I noticed you as you seemed to be checking out how you look on your phone and I wanted to say.... You look very pretty! "
Yeah I have used that opener as well. Usually I shorten it a bit though, since I never know which language the girl understands so I mainly just do one sentence for the opener, than wait for her reply to see whether she understands me or whether it's necessary to switch languages. Then once we've established which language we're speaking, if the vibe is good I usually tell them I saw you from over there and wanted to talk to you or something like that.

Regarding intentions, with a bit of distance I don't think the girl that reacted so extremely misunderstood my intentions at all. Girls aren't dumb, they know what's up when a guy approaches them. Though they like to play dumb and will still make you do all the work of seducing them, lol.

Like I wrote above, I think the girl's reaction was just an immature, exaggerated, low-EQ version of saying "I have a bf and would never cheat on him" (since he was probably right there, within earshot).
 
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